IF MY SISTER IN LAW OBJECTS TO ME GIVING THE KIDS ICE CREAM FOR NEW YEARS I AM GOING TO SLAP HER!!!

[Anonymous]

I have posted about her on here before.
She objects to giving the kids gum.
She objects to giving the kids candy.
She objects to giving the kids cake.
If she objects to giving the kids ice cream on new years I swear to God am going to slap her.
This will be the last straw in a series of incidents.
I am sick and tired of her.

I promise to keep everyone on here posted about what happens.

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year to everyone!

[Anonymous]

Whose kids are they?

[Anonymous]

Her kids or your kids?

[Anonymous]

Give the kids poppers, or something else unobjectionable. It's very rude to do something you know a family member dislikes. Don't pick a fight with her during the holidays.

[Anonymous]

Op's a darn sugar addict. Isn't there any other way she can be a good aunt?

[Anonymous]

OP, dcum is SILs people.

You will likely not find kindred spirits here.

[Anonymous]

First, stop yelling.

Second, if they are her kids, you are out of line, but I get your frustration.

Third, if they are your kids, then your sister is nuts.

[Anonymous]

Your kids: Stop inviting her over or tell her clearly that your kids are doing just fine, thanks.

Her kids: give them balloons or some other inedible treat.

[Anonymous]

Some people think kids should get fat.

[Anonymous]

You have no right to feed her kids something she objects to.

Are you really so uncreative that you can't think of anything fun that isn't candy/dessert?

Noisemakers, hats, poppers, glitter pens, stickers, balloons, coloring books, sparkling apple juice...

[Anonymous]

I think your SIL probably gets a huge kick out of pushing this particular button of yours. I know I would! The more you try to control and undermine her, the more she's going to insist on her way.

I can imagine at her laughing at you right now.

[Anonymous]

Not sure what the problem is. Not everyone celebrates holidays with sugary treats. I do, but respect not everyone else does. If the celebration is at my home then we'll have our sugary snacks and she can be the bad guy and tell her kids they can't have any. If the celebration is at her house, then stay home. Problem solved.

[Anonymous]

You "swear to God you are going to slap" your sister-in-law over ice cream?

Yeah, OP...SHE sounds *crazy*...SHE sounds *bonkers.* Yep, uh-huh. A real nutjob, that one.

[Anonymous]

If SIL has a no sugary treat rule for her kids it is fine for her to enforce that and pretty crummy of you to undermine her. Maybe her kids act up when they eat too much sugar. Maybe they have weak enamel on their teeth and are cavity prone.

It is fine to offer your own kids sugary treats - even in front of their cousins. And I can't imagine why your SIL think that her opinion matters (it doesn't!) UNLESS your kids turn into holy terrors when they eat sugar and she is a captive audience to it.

I would personally give the kids something like popcorn as a snack and poppers to play with. Something that they could ALL enjoy.

[Anonymous]

My kid is a raging psychopath on sugar, so we rarely give it to him. If you were my SIL, I'd slap you back. Harder.