| Because I could afford it. What's the point of being rich if you're not going to give your kid every advantage possible? |
This is why I am suspicious of anyone in real life who says they are against redshirting. There is a whole lot of crazy going on with anti-redshirters. |
Hi, Natural Law Lady! I have mentioned you in some “Kooks of DCUM” threads and everyone always wants a link, so thanks for making it easy. Do you think that for the graduation ceremony, everyone should line up by birthdates so the oldest get their diplomas first? That way the natural law will be satisfied. Also, I really want to know what you think acceptable intervals are. You are clearly against classrooms having over a 12 month age span. Why are you stopping there? Why not insist on a six month age span, or three month? What is so important about 12 months exactly? Is it tied to the earth’s revolution around the sun? If so, are leap years upsetting? |
Oooh. Can you link the Kooks of DCUM thread? And yes natural law antiredshirter is definitely one of the DCUM kooks. |
Well, that probably already happens. Students usually get their diplomas in their order of class rank. Since older students do better, the order of class rank is going to be the same as the order of age. |
Usually its the not so smart kids that the parents try to make smart by holding them back. They are older, not smarter. It gives everyone a false sense of identity as if you hold your kids back and don't put them in advanced classes, you can scream they are so smart for all A's when they are only doing it as they are older and in dumbed down classes. We all know who the older kids are. You usually know because of their behavior, which isn't good. |
You send your kids on time so they can be appropriately challenged and if they need more help, they get the help. Holding back a year, withholds a year of services and help as usually those parents holding back are in denial and not getting their kids outside help. |
Swing and a miss. There’s a reason teachers suggest giving the gift of time and it’s not because they want badly behaved older kids in class. Try again. |
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Good Lord. Have you literally never been to a high school graduation? It’s alphabetical, you loon. |
Exactly. My DD and niece are a long apart, both summer babies. I sent my DD my sister held my niece. I love her to death, but there’s a reason they didn’t send her on time. Sounds bad, but the truth is, she’s way behind my DD. I’m glad did them they have the option to hold her back vs. like a Spring birthday!! |
There is no such thing as a gift of time. You cannot get time where it doesn't exist. You cannot extend childhood and what happens is you have an adult still in high school for another year. Then you take away a year of them being an adult so you can have your child for an extra year. |
* a month apart. Typo |
This is silly. My child had a very severe speech disorder. Of course some pushed us to hold back but it wasn't to help the child, it was to make it easier on the school so they didn't have to deal with it. They couldn't be bothered providing appropriate support or therapy. Years later I am so glad I didn't listen as speech caught up, child is very bright and in the grade they should be. Even child cannot imagine being held back as they already are in all advanced classes. |