Anyone following this Candice Miller/Mama & Tata nightmare?

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Anonymous wrote:He's a coward of the worse kind. Suicide doesn't hurt the person dead it punishes the living. His young daughters will spend the rest of their lives mentally wounded. His wife will spend years trying to did out of this mess and will have to witness the mental anguish of her children. Life will be dark and unhappy for quite some time. As a man he should have owned up to his mistakes. Taken whatever punishment was coming his way and.......started over. That's the beauty of living in this country- you can reinvent yourself as many times as you want. He destroyed his entire family and his death solved nothing. He's a coward.

And she’s not some innocent bystander. The NYT or Wash Post article/cant recall day he disclosed his stress to her. She seemed to turn a blind eye on it all. So selfish and out of control she was. Sickness really.

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Anonymous wrote:Looks like they pulled a quote from this thread,
“I’m ashamed that I’m feeling almost relieved that it wasn’t all real,” one poster wrote on the DC Urban Mom blog."

https://nypost.com/2024/07/21/us-news/tragic-hamptons-mogul-tried-to-keep-up-with-the-bezoses/

So what?

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think she knew what he was going to do and that’s why she went on the trip? To get the family out of the house, away from any media, and also put on a show that she didn’t know they were broke?

Wasn't it their annual trip anyway? I don't think she would let her cards be declined if she knew what was going to happen.

What do you mean “let her cards be declined?” Let?

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Anonymous wrote:Omg I am quoted in the post!! That was my reply! lol


https://nypost.com/2024/07/21/us-news/tragic-hamptons-mogul-tried-to-keep-up-with-the-bezoses/?utm_campaign=iphone_nyp&utm_source=pasteboard_app

Are you seriously excited? It’s not like they quoted Sarah Smith of Derwood Maryland said…..

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Anonymous wrote:These scammers always end up just fine. Her family will float her, she'll remarry a rich guy. Sometimes I wonder why bother being honest and living within one's means.

How will she marry someone rich? How will that work?

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Anonymous wrote:The girls will still go to their private schools and fancy camps. They will still have nice homes and vacations and everything. But she won’t be able to show it all off like before. The carefully crafted facade has been shattered, but as long as people think she was just a clueless wife who had no idea what her husband was up to, she will be ok. I think she will return to social media eventually.

She has been whining about wanting to live in LA part time for years, so maybe she will go there. More likely she will join her sister in FL I think, and summer at her family’s homes in the Hamptons.

Using what money?

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No one wanted to be around Ruth Madoff after her husbands scams.

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Serious Daisy and Tom Buchanan vibes, West Egg Edition.

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Anonymous wrote:Miami is a good move for her children. Her kids attended Riverdale which is a pretty cut throat environment in terms of social status and wealth. Miami is less intense. By no means that much cheaper though.

Cut throat in terms of social status? What does even mean?

The disgraced Sacklers moved to FL too.

Creditors can’t seize a primary residence in Florida.

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Anonymous wrote:Do you think she knew what he was going to do and that’s why she went on the trip? To get the family out of the house, away from any media, and also put on a show that she didn’t know they were broke?

It also makes me wonder if he had a life insurance policy?

We've been over this. Read before you comment.

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Anonymous wrote:Apparently her parents have quite a bit of money and her sister is married to a very wealthy man. She will be taken care of once again.

Ain't no way she's going to live like she used to on her parents money, that is, if they have money. In light of what we know about these people, I wouldn't be so sure.

Her dad has money but more like a house worth $5M in Jupiter, purchased 20 years ago kind of money. She grew up in a wealthy family but they weren't FU wealthy. Her dad and uncle turned the family business from a profitable but low-mid range coat manufacturer into a higher end business. She'll be fine with family help if she realizes she can't shop at Chanel like she's loading up her Amazon cart with school supplies.

As a reminder for the poster who keeps revisiting posts brought up pages ago on the parents.

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Anonymous wrote:Her looks are fine. Not 10/10 but not ugly either. She’s in great shape and she’s been well-maintained. The problem is her age and her baggage. Debt might be following her too, who knows. I think she’ll eventually land some twice-divorced older man, but I bet his kids won’t like it!

Women supporting women, this is so much fun to see! You have no idea what she is truly inside or if she was actually lied to by her husband, do you? Financial infidelity is a real thing and I have personally experienced it with my partner, it's amazing how blind we can be when we love someone, I know that firsthand. I give her some grace and time for the truth to come out and sadly, my bet is she will have a book/movie deal in the not too distant future as a means of surviving. Seen this story before, she will survive but not without damage in the "trust" department. That's hard to get back, and from my personal experience, all but impossible to escape the emotional damage.

Then you are just as irresponsible as your partner, and she is just as irresponsible as her husband. I'm so tired of adult women acting like children. Take control and know about your family's finances. When you're a grown ass woman, there's no excuse for such deliberate ignorance.

💯 she’s an intelligent woman. I am sure she knew but perhaps did not know the extent of the debt. Neither of them had any idea how to budget. After they sold their place they could have easily stayed in the city in a 3 bed that rents 25k still expensive but about half the cost!

I don't mean to sound snarky, but who can tell if she or her husband were actually intelligent? The videos I've seen show her to be appearance -obsessed and vapid. He was in way over his head after inheriting his father's business. They both seem like idiots.

They are both well-educated! She went to University of Michigan and he went to Collegiate/Brown. As a couple they lacked financial smarts and resilience unfortunately.

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Anonymous wrote:These scammers always end up just fine. Her family will float her, she'll remarry a rich guy. Sometimes I wonder why bother being honest and living within one's means.

How will she marry someone rich? How will that work?

Yeah that’s my question too. I actually think she is very beautiful but she obviously has baggage. Why would some rich guy want her, the only scenario I can think of is that he is very very old. But plenty of beautiful women that won’t be shunned by their social set.

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Anonymous wrote:Her looks are fine. Not 10/10 but not ugly either. She’s in great shape and she’s been well-maintained. The problem is her age and her baggage. Debt might be following her too, who knows. I think she’ll eventually land some twice-divorced older man, but I bet his kids won’t like it!

Women supporting women, this is so much fun to see! You have no idea what she is truly inside or if she was actually lied to by her husband, do you? Financial infidelity is a real thing and I have personally experienced it with my partner, it's amazing how blind we can be when we love someone, I know that firsthand. I give her some grace and time for the truth to come out and sadly, my bet is she will have a book/movie deal in the not too distant future as a means of surviving. Seen this story before, she will survive but not without damage in the "trust" department. That's hard to get back, and from my personal experience, all but impossible to escape the emotional damage.

Then you are just as irresponsible as your partner, and she is just as irresponsible as her husband. I'm so tired of adult women acting like children. Take control and know about your family's finances. When you're a grown ass woman, there's no excuse for such deliberate ignorance.

💯 she’s an intelligent woman. I am sure she knew but perhaps did not know the extent of the debt. Neither of them had any idea how to budget. After they sold their place they could have easily stayed in the city in a 3 bed that rents 25k still expensive but about half the cost!

I don't mean to sound snarky, but who can tell if she or her husband were actually intelligent? The videos I've seen show her to be appearance -obsessed and vapid. He was in way over his head after inheriting his father's business. They both seem like idiots.

They are both well-educated! She went to University of Michigan and he went to Collegiate/Brown. As a couple they lacked financial smarts and resilience unfortunately.

What's interesting is you can earn a lot of money and be broke, or earn the same amount and get rich. I think of this when I see someone like Kevin Spacey who is broke despite working at a very high level for decades, and then someone like Brooke Burke, who was B list TV at best on silly shows, but who hustled, made smart business investments and has the most stunning homes and a very stable life. Same for people like the Dubrows: a good job, not billionaire level, but great investments and real estate and hustle The Millers had the spending habits, but not the money management skills or the hustle.

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Anonymous wrote:Her looks are fine. Not 10/10 but not ugly either. She’s in great shape and she’s been well-maintained. The problem is her age and her baggage. Debt might be following her too, who knows. I think she’ll eventually land some twice-divorced older man, but I bet his kids won’t like it!

Women supporting women, this is so much fun to see! You have no idea what she is truly inside or if she was actually lied to by her husband, do you? Financial infidelity is a real thing and I have personally experienced it with my partner, it's amazing how blind we can be when we love someone, I know that firsthand. I give her some grace and time for the truth to come out and sadly, my bet is she will have a book/movie deal in the not too distant future as a means of surviving. Seen this story before, she will survive but not without damage in the "trust" department. That's hard to get back, and from my personal experience, all but impossible to escape the emotional damage.

Then you are just as irresponsible as your partner, and she is just as irresponsible as her husband. I'm so tired of adult women acting like children. Take control and know about your family's finances. When you're a grown ass woman, there's no excuse for such deliberate ignorance.

💯 she’s an intelligent woman. I am sure she knew but perhaps did not know the extent of the debt. Neither of them had any idea how to budget. After they sold their place they could have easily stayed in the city in a 3 bed that rents 25k still expensive but about half the cost!

I don't mean to sound snarky, but who can tell if she or her husband were actually intelligent? The videos I've seen show her to be appearance -obsessed and vapid. He was in way over his head after inheriting his father's business. They both seem like idiots.

They are both well-educated! She went to University of Michigan and he went to Collegiate/Brown. As a couple they lacked financial smarts and resilience unfortunately.

What's interesting is you can earn a lot of money and be broke, or earn the same amount and get rich. I think of this when I see someone like Kevin Spacey who is broke despite working at a very high level for decades, and then someone like Brooke Burke, who was B list TV at best on silly shows, but who hustled, made smart business investments and has the most stunning homes and a very stable life. Same for people like the Dubrows: a good job, not billionaire level, but great investments and real estate and hustle The Millers had the spending habits, but not the money management skills or the hustle.

Actually, they were "hustling." Risktakers and big spenders. Not a good mix.