How would you feel/ react?

[Anonymous]

Before I met dh, he had a fiance. Soon after they broke up, we got together. We have been married for 3 years and have a newborn and a two year old. We have been together for 5 years.

He tells me his ex called emailed him that she is in town in a few weeks. She would like to see him over dinner to potentially discuss doing business. They are in a similar industry.

WTF???
She knows he is married with kids.
He has not replied. He told me about it. He wanted to see how I felt about it.
I am not happy that he is even considering it. He said he will tell her no.

The business thing is BS, I am sure. It is an excuse. Plus, even if true, my dh is an idiot for considering having business dealings with her, (he works for a family owned business). The whole thing is inappropriate.
Yes, I am glad he was open about it but I think he is a little dumb.

How would you feel and or react?
I am interested in hearing from both men and women.

[Anonymous]

Yeah. I wouldn't like it. I feel like it's, at the minimum, evidence of unresolved feelings/emotion between them. I wouldn't be happy that my DH considered it.

I think you have every right to be upset.

[Anonymous]

Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you're angry at your husband, and insecure in your relationship. Be happy he's passing on getting "business" from her and move on.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.

How is that insecure? I would never ever considering doing such a thing and am shocked he even thought about this.

[Anonymous]

Oh and I'd probably tell him to go for it, but that's just me.

[Anonymous]

I'd be pissed. Is he going to respond now? What was his excuse for considering it?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It sounds like you're angry at your husband, and insecure in your relationship. Be happy he's passing on getting "business" from her and move on.

LOL, of course I am angry! I am.
I dont think I am insecure though. I cant imagine emailing another woman's husband and asking him out to dinner!!

[Anonymous]

NO. Not in this lifetime. She had her chance.

Don't listen to the cheaters here. They have no morals.

[Anonymous]

Don't try to control your husband. Ask him what he wants to do and trust him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your insecurity will kill your marriage long before any other person will.

How is that insecure? I would never ever considering doing such a thing and am shocked he even thought about this.

So you're mad your husband doesn't think exactly like you.

Please freak out on him and then come back in 2 years scratching your head why you are divorced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'd be pissed. Is he going to respond now? What was his excuse for considering it?

Yes, he is going to tell her no.
He thought maybe business could benefit...

[Anonymous]

Hell no.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NO. Not in this lifetime. She had her chance.

Don't listen to the cheaters here. They have no morals.

Agree

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hell no.

Lol