s/o Brazilian au-pair and the whole hot nanny subject

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gosh, okay - yes, a nanny is an additional 'risk'. But so is letting your husband go out without you for a boys' night out, or a go to a bachelor party in Vegas, or join a co-ed volleyball team, or a million things. My husband has been an actor - isn't that a risk? Being in long rehearsals with women while I'm not around? Should I forbid him from doing that?

Going out with boys or going to Vegas may introduce a danger of cheating, but this will be a one-night stand most likely, and probably something you won't even be aware of, not a relationship that can blossom under your own roof breaking your marriage apart.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Gosh, okay - yes, a nanny is an additional 'risk'. But so is letting your husband go out without you for a boys' night out, or a go to a bachelor party in Vegas, or join a co-ed volleyball team, or a million things. My husband has been an actor - isn't that a risk? Being in long rehearsals with women while I'm not around? Should I forbid him from doing that?

Just because there are other additional risks, does not mean you should add yet another risk. Is that so hard to understand? Just because you can be hit by lightning doesn't mean you shouldn't wear a seat belt.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am surprised that you people think the hot nanny wants to sleep with your husbands!

I know right?

Haha, it's pretty hilarous. There are VERY VERY few young women hot or not who want to sleep with an old married man.

If my DH can snag one, good for him, but I'm not holding my breath.

[Anonymous]

Its *my* money and house so the AP would get nothing. zero. zilch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Its *my* money and house so the AP would get nothing. zero. zilch.

hahaha! I thought this too! What are they going to do? Go be poor together? Good luck with that buddy!


But ... I also wouldn't bring some hot young thing that everyone wants to bang into my house. My DH is awesome but at the end of the day, he is still a man.

[Anonymous]

PP here. So funny, do these foreign APs or whatever realize when it is the woman's money and not the mans? Because even if the AP straight out asked him (which should be a slap of reality in itself) he would say it is his money - of course he would!

The best part would be leaving them to each other with absolutely nothing. Then, she would indeed get what she asked for, as would he; and I wouldn't want him at that point. Good luck to them, I say.

It seems some APs think it is a game of some sort. To come "to America" and "score an American". The jokes on them!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh puhlease..I'm a nanny. I'm not saying I'm hot per say, but I'm certainly not ugly. I'm 5'2 skinny and fit, long dirty blonde hair and attractive. I've had DB's hit on me, but nobody's been totally disrespectful. I certainly wouldn't want to hire a foreign nanny due to issues with green cards, but educated American women..sure why not? I'm happily married and respectful. That's key. I wouldn't want to hire a young bimbo to take care of my kids anyway, let alone tempt my husband. An attractive married lady? Why not?

Btw--I've never had a hard time getting a nanny job due to being attractive. Most seem to dig it. Generally I deal mostly with MB anyway except for my current position where I deal with attractive DB for the most part..but I'm secure in my marriage as I'm sure he is too.

Well the fact that it was never "totally disrespectful" must be very reassuring for those women...You are not really helping the case, as it turns out, everything hinges on your marriage.

[Anonymous]

I'm the nanny you're quoting..what I'm saying is hire someone respectful, married and secure..not some foreign bimbo or the like. If you wouldn't trust them with your husbands you shouldn't with your kids either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I agree. Someone got mad on here a few months back when I said I wasn't having some perky little airhead in my house. NO THANK YOU. Anyone in my house will be old and ugly as the day is long. But really, I prefer to handle things in my house, myself. I don't have room for anymore ovaries. I am wearing the T*** in this house.

I see you have that covered.

[Anonymous]

I would never never never never never never never never bring a young attractive woman into my home to live with me and my partner. Fuck that.

[Anonymous]

I think the au pair story is very good fiction.

[Anonymous]

A friend of mine was looking for the au-pair a few years ago and she showed us the site she was looking at. I saw some of the pictures of the potential au-pairs and there were a few suggestive photos there, girls clearly posing to appear as attractive a possible, and there were a few bathing suit photos too, which I found weird. She didn't get the au-pair because she ended up staying at home for the first two years, but then ended up getting a young college student au-pair. It seems like the young girl worked out for her and she even tried to hook her up with one of our younger unmarried friends. she almost was bragging "see how hot our au-pair is". She says, she is great with kids and is very studious and conservative. I don't know what made her go from being insecure about the whole au-pair business in the beginning to hiring a young girl. It guess it depends, you can get lucky and have a great au-pair or someone with other agenda.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think the au pair story is very good fiction.

I would find this work of fiction to be incredibly boring. It's only interesting because it's put in the context of the real life. Seeing another one of these endless stories on the screen, meh.