Married men on Grindr

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Anonymous wrote:PS - Shibari is my kink, which I haven’t often heard considered vanilla- but I’m sure you know more than me.

I'm sure I do. Shibari is the cannabis of kinks: it's a gateway kink. It's usually vanilla with sprinkles, unless you're talking suspensions, or other kinks + ropework.

It's pretty though, I'll give it that. Nice knotwork is gorgeous, especially in sisal (and not whatever soft nylon you probably use).

Suspension. Bunny. Stop with the kink flex. It’s one thing to enjoy pegging- I was game to try! It’s another when it’s the actual requirement al the time. It doesn’t make him a bad person because though he presented as hetero his kink means I assume a role that doesn’t turn me on. I’m a sub. I’m not a good fit for a man who wants to be pegged and doesn’t reveal Grindr anon sex when he calls himself “bi curious”. You’re curious the first time, maybe two! But cruising gay sex off the internet and thinking it’s “not sexual” and you’re “not attracted to men you just love a D in your ass” means you’re not the lover or partner I want. That isn’t homophobic, friend.

Sweetcheeks, we are not friends. Don't come at me with some sarcastic "I'm sure you know more than me" and then get butthurt when it turns out I very much do. Quit telling people how their sexuality should work so that you don't have to stop topping from the bottom and adjust your limited view.

And no, pegging doesn't mean someone's gay. It just doesn't. Continuing to argue that it does strongly suggests you're homophobic af. If you're not into it, you're not into it. You can stop there. All this other bullshit judgment you're spewing is a story about you, not him.

You probably don’t have many friends, do you?

Whatever it makes me- vanilla or homophobic ior a mere voyeur giggling about my “cannabis of kink”- but replies like yours show me how republicans rose to power once again. If you disagree with someone, or if you think someone is wrong- it might serve you to ask them questions rather than call them names.

I think anyone who has a kink and is dating on a vanilla sight should disclose it if it’s the driving focus or only way they want to have sex. Most in the kink community have been amazing in terms of respect, consent, clarity, testing. This guy was an aberration and it left a bad taste in my mouth- honestly it felt like I’d been groomed and I hold some resentments.

Anyway I should be more careful with my words. This guy lied to me and put my sexual health at risk and of course men who share pegging with a caring spouse may or may not be gay. I could see how a couple could involve into various types of “kink” or sex over the years. This was someone I just met. He presented as hetero. He lied about his sexual past with men- labeling himself “curious” when he was in fact actively pursuing couples and cruising random sex. And it was frustrating because if he’s just been honest we could have parted friends and with no hard feelings.

I apologize though if my projections about this one person caused me to be careless with my words.

Good chat.

Leads with insults, implies politics, gives unsolicited advice... lengthy diatribe about shit nobody asked for because nobody cares what you think... hijacks thread to traumadump... pseudo apology... sarcasm.

Cool. I hope you feel better.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Cool. Don't marry those people and then lie to them. Not difficult.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Cool. Don't marry those people and then lie to them. Not difficult.

Nobody lied to you. People don't owe you open access to their entire world just so you can scrutinize and judge it. If you want to know if someone's on Grindr, ask.

Since you're not talking about something that happened/is happening to you personally, you shouldn't claim or even imply victim status.

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Militant Q+ poster very active on this thread.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.

Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.

This reminds me of my ex wife who was cheating on me for over a year while I was going through a horrible cancer. When I found out and confronted her she said she couldn't stay another year without sex.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.

Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears

I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.

Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears

I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr

Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.

Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears

I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr

Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people

I want to love and respect my partner, not be grossed by his body. I've done many other sex acts so no, have zero disgust with sexual liquids and even blood so I'm not a prude. But literally shit "gets" me. I just can't sorry not sorry

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Anonymous wrote:This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.

This reminds me of my ex wife who was cheating on me for over a year while I was going through a horrible cancer. When I found out and confronted her she said she couldn't stay another year without sex.

I'm sorry she did that to you PP. Hopefully your health is better now and you've left that cheating ex by the wayside.

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No one owes their partner every sex act he (or she) may be into. Both people need to be into it. Mutual consent.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?

Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.

Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner

Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.

Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears

I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr

Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people

I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.