Married men on Grindr

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Well “straight” married men hook up on golf trips all the time.

Yea, another dude I met on OLD was anti-vaxxer and he wanted first me to give him oral before we even get to PIV. I thought that was weird, too. He also was always golfing, lived with his adult son and constantly texting me photos of their photos

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

He was't bad f...ng TBH and successful professionally just a jerk

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No. Almost no one is in an open relationship. Thats just a myth posted by people that support this type of behavior. Joe Cort (sp) is one of them. He is a gay man that perpetuates this behavior by going on gay cruises and discussing ways to fool the public that these men are really victims and tell people that the straight spouse is really ok with it or they were the problem. Sure maybe after a while someone is coerced to be in an open relationship in order to keep the marriage going for kids and money but no one is marrying on the regular as an open relationship. They just wouldnt marry to begin with. I was in a support group for people trapped in these relationships and the stories were heartbreaking. Women and men who truly loved their spouses and couldn't understand why their spouse all of a sudden was lying about needing to move to a new city for a job taking 2 kids under 5 only to find out there was a lover there they wanted to be with and the plan was to divorce in that state because the rules were lower for child support. Or finding out this had been going on so long over 20 years and wasn't recognized because nobody expected a relationship with the same gender. The stories were truly awful.

Well dayum..
Tell us more.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

Find a woman that into pegging.

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Perfect woman!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

Earth shattering O when getting pegged

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:PS - Shibari is my kink, which I haven’t often heard considered vanilla- but I’m sure you know more than me.

I'm sure I do. Shibari is the cannabis of kinks: it's a gateway kink. It's usually vanilla with sprinkles, unless you're talking suspensions, or other kinks + ropework.

It's pretty though, I'll give it that. Nice knotwork is gorgeous, especially in sisal (and not whatever soft nylon you probably use).

Suspension. Bunny. Stop with the kink flex. It’s one thing to enjoy pegging- I was game to try! It’s another when it’s the actual requirement al the time. It doesn’t make him a bad person because though he presented as hetero his kink means I assume a role that doesn’t turn me on. I’m a sub. I’m not a good fit for a man who wants to be pegged and doesn’t reveal Grindr anon sex when he calls himself “bi curious”. You’re curious the first time, maybe two! But cruising gay sex off the internet and thinking it’s “not sexual” and you’re “not attracted to men you just love a D in your ass” means you’re not the lover or partner I want. That isn’t homophobic, friend.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:PS - Shibari is my kink, which I haven’t often heard considered vanilla- but I’m sure you know more than me.

I'm sure I do. Shibari is the cannabis of kinks: it's a gateway kink. It's usually vanilla with sprinkles, unless you're talking suspensions, or other kinks + ropework.

It's pretty though, I'll give it that. Nice knotwork is gorgeous, especially in sisal (and not whatever soft nylon you probably use).

Suspension. Bunny. Stop with the kink flex. It’s one thing to enjoy pegging- I was game to try! It’s another when it’s the actual requirement al the time. It doesn’t make him a bad person because though he presented as hetero his kink means I assume a role that doesn’t turn me on. I’m a sub. I’m not a good fit for a man who wants to be pegged and doesn’t reveal Grindr anon sex when he calls himself “bi curious”. You’re curious the first time, maybe two! But cruising gay sex off the internet and thinking it’s “not sexual” and you’re “not attracted to men you just love a D in your ass” means you’re not the lover or partner I want. That isn’t homophobic, friend.

Sweetcheeks, we are not friends. Don't come at me with some sarcastic "I'm sure you know more than me" and then get butthurt when it turns out I very much do. Quit telling people how their sexuality should work so that you don't have to stop topping from the bottom and adjust your limited view.

And no, pegging doesn't mean someone's gay. It just doesn't. Continuing to argue that it does strongly suggests you're homophobic af. If you're not into it, you're not into it. You can stop there. All this other bullshit judgment you're spewing is a story about you, not him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

Earth shattering O when getting pegged

Right? The gays understand, and you don't have to be gay to understand. Just open-minded with a ggg partner (unlike most of the people on this thread).

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry

This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.

Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.

Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him

That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?

If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.

How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.

I love the gays, even the ones in denial.

[Anonymous]

But why get married then to a woman? If you are gay then just be gay.