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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

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Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I want to love and respect my partner, not be grossed by his body. I've done many other sex acts so no, have zero disgust with sexual liquids and even blood so I'm not a prude. But literally shit "gets" me. I just can't sorry not sorry
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Anonymous wrote:This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.


This reminds me of my ex wife who was cheating on me for over a year while I was going through a horrible cancer. When I found out and confronted her she said she couldn't stay another year without sex.


I'm sorry she did that to you PP. Hopefully your health is better now and you've left that cheating ex by the wayside.
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No one owes their partner every sex act he (or she) may be into. Both people need to be into it. Mutual consent.
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry


This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry


This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.


I can do all of it myself, but I would never go into a man's butt as I have zero control over if HE would follow these guidances. And still, accidents do happen. Detox clinics cleanse colon for days.... Nobody (particular modern men who are high into junk food) would be eating tons of fiber, drinking laxatives just to get anal play
It's all great on paper not in real life
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry


This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.


And excuse me, enema makes me want to fart and causes terrible gassing all the time. Using it on such regular basis completely washes out the normal gut bacteria according to many doctors. I did all of the steps before my own anal, and I was leaking some liquid from my butt for hours! Anal sex is not entirely safe, and toys are not entirely helpful
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry


This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.


I can do all of it myself, but I would never go into a man's butt as I have zero control over if HE would follow these guidances. And still, accidents do happen. Detox clinics cleanse colon for days.... Nobody (particular modern men who are high into junk food) would be eating tons of fiber, drinking laxatives just to get anal play
It's all great on paper not in real life


So now you speak for all men, because you have a phobia? Lordy jaysus, what a mess you are!
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry


This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.


And excuse me, enema makes me want to fart and causes terrible gassing all the time. Using it on such regular basis completely washes out the normal gut bacteria according to many doctors. I did all of the steps before my own anal, and I was leaking some liquid from my butt for hours! Anal sex is not entirely safe, and toys are not entirely helpful


You're either a liar, an idiot, or some combo of those things. This isn't typical, nothing is entirely safe, and many people enjoy anal without all the wackadoodle nonsense you keep spewing into this thread.

I think you're just trolling, badly, but there's a dose of reality for anyone sane reading along.
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Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.


That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.



Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.


Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.


I would rather have a threesome with my husband and a third woman than pegging. It's for those who don't mind some s...t in between the sheets. I have bacteria and infection paranoia. Men can f..k me in my a...s if they want to, and I'll prep very well. But when I don't have control over someone's s..t I don't want to out anything in their a...s

Sorry


This.
Plus you couldn't respect any guy who liked being pegged. That sus af and says he is closeted.


Maybe YOU couldn't, because you're anti-gay and homophobic, but a lot of us can, and do, and even *gasp* enjoy it.

Sorry you're so narrow-minded.


Read above - the dude who wanted a..s action on him was aggressive homophobic republican. It's my real dating experience. He was also really fixated on my prior sexual history and my 'number". I felt he was judgmental of my experience all the time, and I started feeling gross sleeping with him


That you dated a closeted misogynist homophobe doesn't make pegging gay. It makes that guy a loser. Raise your standards, maybe?


If a dude is having someone ram a dildo up his ass, he is gay AF.


How sad that your homophobia is keeping you from some of the best orgasms of your life. Your L, dude.


I love the gays, even the ones in denial.


What about a straight couple that use a vibrator meant for prostate stimulation? Is the man secretly gay if he enjoys it? Or is only gay if it involves a strap-on?


Is a man who likes giving anal also gay? Is it not gay if it's a female butthole? If it's not gay when it's a female butthole, why does it become gay when it's a female penetrating?

A lot of people have some screwy hang-ups about butt stuff, most of which are rooted in either extreme germaphobia or basic homophobia.


Sorry, but not wanting to deal with specs of poop in bed is not “extreme germaphobia”. Most people don’t want to smell or touch excrements in any form or situation, it’s with us since early childhood

I would say, the lack of any concerns of poop is a sign of extreme acceptance of something unnatural . Butts are not created to be penetrated in reverse manner


Do you want to learn or do you want to think you already know? Because if you want to stay ignorant, I'm content to let you.


Sure tell us how to avoid any sort of poop accident . I’m all ears


I learned all I know from Reddit. Check out the pegging forum. Your own butthole may clench but it’s informative.

-homophobe who dated a guy on gridndr


Excuse me but I as a woman researched extensively the topic and tried anal sex. There is simply NO way to avoid some shit no matter what you do. Reddit is full of feedback on this topic "just wipe it off". No, I'm not doing it in my bedroom and not collecting specs of pools off dildo from my my male partner's butt. It grosses me out, and I think that it's natural reaction of many people


I'm not sure what you eat, but there are several ways to clear colonic residues. Watch your diet, don't binge day-of, take some miralax with electrolytes, use an enema or a nozzle-head shower attachment... If you're obsessive about a residue free fsck, well, that's the way to make sure there are no "spec(k)s of poo"

Also, you should use a condom on butt toys you plan on reusing as vaginal toys, unless they're made of something nonporous, like glass. It's generally considered best practice to have separate toys, both for hygeine and for function (as not all vaginal insertables have sufficiently flared bases to be safe anal toys). That's buttsex 101, so how did you miss it in all your "research"? You sound like an immature teen, not someone adult enough to have "extensively researched" anything.


And excuse me, enema makes me want to fart and causes terrible gassing all the time. Using it on such regular basis completely washes out the normal gut bacteria according to many doctors. I did all of the steps before my own anal, and I was leaking some liquid from my butt for hours! Anal sex is not entirely safe, and toys are not entirely helpful


You're either a liar, an idiot, or some combo of those things. This isn't typical, nothing is entirely safe, and many people enjoy anal without all the wackadoodle nonsense you keep spewing into this thread.

I think you're just trolling, badly, but there's a dose of reality for anyone sane reading along.


Just google it’s easy to find these symptoms are pretty common
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Anonymous wrote:This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.


No, it's not ok to give your wife HIV/AIDS because you want to bang guys on the down low.
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Pegging plus receiving oral FTW
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Anonymous wrote:Pegging plus receiving oral FTW


Believe me I’d just date women if this was what’ve wanted. I like D, I like it in me, that’s why I date men who profess to be hetero.
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