Married men on Grindr

[Anonymous]

There are LOTS of them on the app.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are LOTS of them on the app.

??? Are they all in open relationships?

[Anonymous]

No. Almost no one is in an open relationship. Thats just a myth posted by people that support this type of behavior. Joe Cort (sp) is one of them. He is a gay man that perpetuates this behavior by going on gay cruises and discussing ways to fool the public that these men are really victims and tell people that the straight spouse is really ok with it or they were the problem. Sure maybe after a while someone is coerced to be in an open relationship in order to keep the marriage going for kids and money but no one is marrying on the regular as an open relationship. They just wouldnt marry to begin with. I was in a support group for people trapped in these relationships and the stories were heartbreaking. Women and men who truly loved their spouses and couldn't understand why their spouse all of a sudden was lying about needing to move to a new city for a job taking 2 kids under 5 only to find out there was a lover there they wanted to be with and the plan was to divorce in that state because the rules were lower for child support. Or finding out this had been going on so long over 20 years and wasn't recognized because nobody expected a relationship with the same gender. The stories were truly awful.

[Anonymous]

This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.

[Anonymous]

I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.

Uh no

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

[Anonymous]

No. Women are not applauded for cheating. Cheating due to discovering that you are gay is just as inexcusable as any other reason for cheating.

Get divorced. Open the marriage. Be honest and work things out with the person you married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

[Anonymous]

And water is wet. News at 11.

[Anonymous]

Is your assumption that all these married men are straight? I know a lot of married gay men, most of whom are on Grindr. Your stats may be skewed by your biases here...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is a bizarre post. A married man on grinder is obviously gay. And there is nothing wrong with a married man being gay. You can't change your sexual orientation. Just like women choose to stay because it's "financially better or for the kids" as they stay all the time, well for married gay man it's probably better to stay in the closet and have their true sexual needs met secretly. When women get their needs met via cheating etc they are applauded. When men do the same they are horrible.

Lordy Jaysus... it's almost like bisexual people just don't even exist, innit?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I know a man who regularly meets for random gay sex with men from Grindr. He dates as and self identifies as hetero.

He says he’s not attracted to men he just likes prostrate orgasm. It’s the weirdest thing ever to me.

That's prostate, and women can give them to men so it's BS that this 'hetero' guy needs to have random gay sex with men from Grindr while he puts his wife or girlfriend at risk for HIV and other STDs.

Well yes, he wanted to be pegged, most of the time, which (IMO) is a fairly specific kink and not one to work for most women alongside Grindr and the appearance of heteroconformity.

Pegging is only "a fairly specific kink" for vanilla people who think anything beyond missionary is kink. It's a lot more common than you might think, especially among more open-minded people.

[Anonymous]

I guess they don't have very nice wives and girlfriends.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There are LOTS of them on the app.

That closet must be full.