Confession Thread: What do you need to get off your chest?

[Anonymous]

I enjoyed seeing you cower before me like a dog .

[Anonymous]

I often think of myself over others. It brings me peace in the moment but pain long term.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After being married over 15 years of marriage and having kids, the passion between my spouse and I faded. I began an affair that made me feel young and attractive. The man was still married but he made me feel desirable and sexy. I told my XH that I wanted a divorce after know my AP for a few months. Now I realize that leaving my XH and almost losing my family based on being a cheater, a liar, a phony, selfish, and egotistical was the most imbecile and stupid thing that I could of have ever done in my entire life.

The cost is much too great. The pain that caused to my family was seriously not worth it. The affair was an illusion. I hurt a good man who gave me his life of 15 years and kids. I live each day knowing that I diminished my reputation as a mother in my children's eyes. Think about that for a moment. I made the biggest mistake of my life because I was blinded by the excitement and thrill of having an affair. Children, work, and family responsibilities are what matter in life. My XH and kids are the ones who are my world. As to the AP, he was married as well and his wife left him. A day does not go by of the selfish decision I made.

You are way too hard on yourself.

No she’s not. Affairs cause incredible damage.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The day my daughter goes to college is the day I leave my wife.

Just FYI, that will be very bad for your daughter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The day my daughter goes to college is the day I leave my wife.

Just FYI, that will be very bad for your daughter.

You can't say that for certain. I was very happy when my dad divorced my mom. She's a horrible person. I only wished he had done it sooner than my freshman year.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I hate having a puppy.

OMG. I could have written this last year. If I could have a found a way to find a new home for our puppy without scarring my children forever and without feeling like I was a horrible human being, I would have done it. I hated that d&^% puppy. Fortunately it's much, much better now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I hate having a puppy.

OMG. I could have written this last year. If I could have a found a way to find a new home for our puppy without scarring my children forever and without feeling like I was a horrible human being, I would have done it. I hated that d&^% puppy. Fortunately it's much, much better now.

We sent ours to a teo week training bootcamp amd she cane back a great dog. We love her now.

[Anonymous]

I fantasize about another man while having sex with my husband.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I fantasize about another man while having sex with my husband.

I’m fine with that, sex is sex. signed your husband.

[Anonymous]

My heritage is very WASP, southern and descended from multiple large plantation owners and slave owners. I understand different centuries and different values. I am proud of their success. Would I even consider it today - absolutely not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I fantasize about another man while having sex with my husband.

I’m fine with that, sex is sex. signed your husband.

+1. You can fantasize about blowing someone else when you are blowing me.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:After being married over 15 years of marriage and having kids, the passion between my spouse and I faded. I began an affair that made me feel young and attractive. The man was still married but he made me feel desirable and sexy. I told my XH that I wanted a divorce after know my AP for a few months. Now I realize that leaving my XH and almost losing my family based on being a cheater, a liar, a phony, selfish, and egotistical was the most imbecile and stupid thing that I could of have ever done in my entire life.

The cost is much too great. The pain that caused to my family was seriously not worth it. The affair was an illusion. I hurt a good man who gave me his life of 15 years and kids. I live each day knowing that I diminished my reputation as a mother in my children's eyes. Think about that for a moment. I made the biggest mistake of my life because I was blinded by the excitement and thrill of having an affair. Children, work, and family responsibilities are what matter in life. My XH and kids are the ones who are my world. As to the AP, he was married as well and his wife left him. A day does not go by of the selfish decision I made.

You are way too hard on yourself.

No she’s not. Affairs cause incredible damage.

WOW. thank you for sharing this PP. I have an amazing marriage and family and life, and have also recently had a flirty friendship with a friend that I fantasize about acting on. i never would have done it anyway but this is so clarifying to read. He is also married. I have been spending a lot of time reflecting on why I enjoy flirting and fantasizing about him so much when I also feel so happy in my marriage and life. My confession is that I’ve texted him and deleted them. Which I know if. or fully faithful. I don’t feel good about it. Sometimes I feel sick about it, sometimes I decide it’s normal and to let it go. We’re human

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My heritage is very WASP, southern and descended from multiple large plantation owners and slave owners. I understand different centuries and different values. I am proud of their success. Would I even consider it today - absolutely not.

You win as worst person on the thread!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My heritage is very WASP, southern and descended from multiple large plantation owners and slave owners. I understand different centuries and different values. I am proud of their success. Would I even consider it today - absolutely not.

You win as worst person on the thread!

Go away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My heritage is very WASP, southern and descended from multiple large plantation owners and slave owners. I understand different centuries and different values. I am proud of their success. Would I even consider it today - absolutely not.

You win as worst person on the thread!

Go away.

Good comeback! ? I think deep down you know that they were complete failures and that’s why you posted. You probably also pretend to be “successful” in some career that contributes negatively to our world.