Fairfax County Double Murder

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to a safe word (to stop such a situation/withdraw consent), I'm surprised standard operating procedures don't require a "confirmation" type word or phrase. I feel like you see this a lot in spy movies - both parties need to say a particular thing to confirm they are both in on it.

Sue Brendan’s mother and father. They created the monster.

Very sad for the victims.

Agree. If I were CB’s mom, I’d sue the website and everyone responsible for it.

Sue the website for what?

The crime was planned on their site. They had no safeguards, like user verification or safe word requirements, to prevent this.

Sue Brendan’s mother and father. They created the monster.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In addition to a safe word (to stop such a situation/withdraw consent), I'm surprised standard operating procedures don't require a "confirmation" type word or phrase. I feel like you see this a lot in spy movies - both parties need to say a particular thing to confirm they are both in on it.

Very sad for the victims.

Agree. If I were CB’s mom, I’d sue the website and everyone responsible for it.

Sue the website for what?

The crime was planned on their site. They had no safeguards, like user verification or safe word requirements, to prevent this.

This is by far, the most ignorant post I’ve seen here….

[Anonymous]

You didn't see the post about suing BB's parents.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to a safe word (to stop such a situation/withdraw consent), I'm surprised standard operating procedures don't require a "confirmation" type word or phrase. I feel like you see this a lot in spy movies - both parties need to say a particular thing to confirm they are both in on it.

Very sad for the victims.

Agree. If I were CB’s mom, I’d sue the website and everyone responsible for it.

Sue the website for what?

The crime was planned on their site. They had no safeguards, like user verification or safe word requirements, to prevent this.

This is a site for all fetishes by the way. It isn't different than a site like tinder, or plentofish in many ways. They do not control what people do, or how they meet. It's the same as going to a bar, you cant blame a bar for people meeting. If this happened in a grocery store, then you couldn't sue the grocery store.

You can sue the bar for over-serving someone who kills someone while driving drunk.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:In addition to a safe word (to stop such a situation/withdraw consent), I'm surprised standard operating procedures don't require a "confirmation" type word or phrase. I feel like you see this a lot in spy movies - both parties need to say a particular thing to confirm they are both in on it.

Very sad for the victims.

Agree. If I were CB’s mom, I’d sue the website and everyone responsible for it.

Sue the website for what?

The crime was planned on their site. They had no safeguards, like user verification or safe word requirements, to prevent this.

This is by far, the most ignorant post I’ve seen here….

Welcome, I guess. First day.

[Anonymous]

The only part that is unclear is wouldn't CB seem confused and uninterested and wouldn't JR pick up on her body language? There had to be some consensus? Or, did "CB" say, "I am going to act surprised..." Which is also a weird thing to say...

I also don't understand but why did JR willingly agree to drive 30 minutes (in rush hour) from Springfield to Reston at 7am to do this kind of sexual behavior?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only part that is unclear is wouldn't CB seem confused and uninterested and wouldn't JR pick up on her body language? There had to be some consensus? Or, did "CB" say, "I am going to act surprised..." Which is also a weird thing to say...

I also don't understand but why did JR willingly agree to drive 30 minutes (in rush hour) from Springfield to Reston at 7am to do this kind of sexual behavior?

It baffles me these are the questions people are asking.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only part that is unclear is wouldn't CB seem confused and uninterested and wouldn't JR pick up on her body language? There had to be some consensus? Or, did "CB" say, "I am going to act surprised..." Which is also a weird thing to say...

I also don't understand but why did JR willingly agree to drive 30 minutes (in rush hour) from Springfield to Reston at 7am to do this kind of sexual behavior?

Confused and uninterested?? No she thought this man was there to rape her and he had a knife! She was probably acting scared shitless which was the role she was supposed to play.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Yet you are victim blaming. He was trapped and then he was murdered. What you are saying is thoughtless and cruel. They both still would have been brutally murdered in seconds. No one has to admit to anything accept to again victim blaming. Shame on you for posting this.

I’m wondering if you were connected to Joe because in no way is this victim blaming it’s just being said that had there been a safe word, could it have prevented this whole tragedy? I cannot imagine what Joe thought once he realized what was really happening. The terror, The deceit, etc.

I'm not pp but you're an annoying idiot. Really.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Don't people usually have a safe word for these sorts of encounters/ games? Maybe he assumed if she was truly scared she'd be using the safe word.

That is totally true, and she didn’t scream out cup cake, or the color yellow so he thought she was a great actress. There is no more room for victim blaming as it is unfair to those that lost both Joe, he was set up, and murdered in cold blood. He was asked to play a part, and then disposed as if his life meant nothing.

DP. I agree to a point but I’m suspect of any man who agrees to this arrangement. IMO, no good man would be ok with even “pretending” to rape someone. No judgement for whatever games you want but not this. Draw a line.

Get over yourself.

Agreed. Poster above is nuts and continues to try to paint JR as a rapist.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Yet you are victim blaming. He was trapped and then he was murdered. What you are saying is thoughtless and cruel. They both still would have been brutally murdered in seconds. No one has to admit to anything accept to again victim blaming. Shame on you for posting this.

I’m wondering if you were connected to Joe because in no way is this victim blaming it’s just being said that had there been a safe word, could it have prevented this whole tragedy? I cannot imagine what Joe thought once he realized what was really happening. The terror, The deceit, etc.

I'm not pp but you're an annoying idiot. Really.

The fact of the matter is, before he was trapped and murdered, he was simulating a rape which he thought was a consensual act. I hope those engaged in this kind of sexual experience will think through the safety precautions going forward. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with thinking about how this could have been prevented had there been safety protocols in place for all involved.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In addition to a safe word (to stop such a situation/withdraw consent), I'm surprised standard operating procedures don't require a "confirmation" type word or phrase. I feel like you see this a lot in spy movies - both parties need to say a particular thing to confirm they are both in on it.

Very sad for the victims.

Agree. If I were CB’s mom, I’d sue the website and everyone responsible for it.

Sue the website for what?

The crime was planned on their site. They had no safeguards, like user verification or safe word requirements, to prevent this.

This is by far, the most ignorant post I’ve seen here….

Welcome, I guess. First day.

omg what if there was a murder where the weapon was the poop knife what would we doooo

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Body cam footage of Julianna has been released.

What are you talking about?

After the police arrived. It’s the police body cam.

longer footage here

https://apnews.com/video/homicide-crime-virginia-law-enforcement-eb47f19155b546c29cf37779cc440c0b

She's so repugnant. I can't stand the idea that she may get less than 2 years in jail. What a vile creature. Yes, bb is 100 times worse but they are both the most vile hell spawn.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In addition to a safe word (to stop such a situation/withdraw consent), I'm surprised standard operating procedures don't require a "confirmation" type word or phrase. I feel like you see this a lot in spy movies - both parties need to say a particular thing to confirm they are both in on it.

Very sad for the victims.

Agree. If I were CB’s mom, I’d sue the website and everyone responsible for it.

Sue the website for what?

The crime was planned on their site. They had no safeguards, like user verification or safe word requirements, to prevent this.

This is by far, the most ignorant post I’ve seen here….

Agreed. That poster has no critical thinking skills.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:All those who said CB was drugged -- ADMIT that you were wrong! I said long ago, that if there had been drugs in her system, it would have come out already. No drugs. She was straight up being held down by JR, who unwittingly thought she wanted that.

You have to admit, and I’m going be direct that I am not victim blaming either victim for this, but he must’ve thought she was a pretty good actress from her reaction when she was being held down. Couldn’t another human being tell when another human being is terrified? I mean what if he had just stopped and said hey are you still OK with this? And she would’ve been like WTF do you mean!?

Yet you are victim blaming. He was trapped and then he was murdered. What you are saying is thoughtless and cruel. They both still would have been brutally murdered in seconds. No one has to admit to anything accept to again victim blaming. Shame on you for posting this.

I’m wondering if you were connected to Joe because in no way is this victim blaming it’s just being said that had there been a safe word, could it have prevented this whole tragedy? I cannot imagine what Joe thought once he realized what was really happening. The terror, The deceit, etc.

I'm not pp but you're an annoying idiot. Really.

The fact of the matter is, before he was trapped and murdered, he was simulating a rape which he thought was a consensual act. I hope those engaged in this kind of sexual experience will think through the safety precautions going forward. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with thinking about how this could have been prevented had there been safety protocols in place for all involved.

How often do we think this scenario of consensual non consent is used to murder people? I think that number is quite low. Rather than victim blaming (yes, that is what you are doing), if you want to prevent IPV murders, do some digging into that. Because basically no one listens to women until they are dead, and then their ghosts have to read stupid posts like yours. Violent men who believe they have the right to end their partners' lives are the problem. Fix that.