Look, it's not my job to help you justify your parasocial hatred of Blake Lively. I'm expressing my opinion. And my opinion is that you are wrong. "Nudity" in the context of filming a movie does not just mean full frontal or a butt shot or something. It covers a wide range of physical exposure that can include side boob (but no nipple), a profile of a butt (but not the butt straight on), etc. Blake's nudity rider didn't specify that Blake would remain fully clothed at all times. It detailed what amount of this sort of nudity she would do. It was limited, as is her right, because an actor may always contractually limit how much nudity they will do. If it was very important to Wayfarer to do more nudity than Blake was comfortable with, they were welcome to specify this up front. Especially since, as you point out, Blake famously is limited about the amount of sex and nudity she does on screen. They didn't, for some reason. Maybe ask them why. As for sex scenes in the movie, it's interesting you bring up that Baldoni and Wayfarer wanted more, and more explicit, sex scenes in this movie. Because when you are talking about the promotion of the movie and times Blake mentioned florals or her alcohol brand, there is a lot of pearl clutching about how this is a domestic violence movie targeted at women and that is inappropriate. Yet apparently Baldoni's desire to fill this movie about domestic violence with more explicit sex scenes is totally appropriate. After all, that's what female audiences want, right? Lots of hot, hot sex between a woman and the man who smacks her around. But here comes dumb old Blake Lively with her postpartum body (gross) wanting to limit the sex scenes and do them more chastely, with her stupid nudity rider that won't let them film her exposed breasts or butt. Ugh. What a lady boner killer, amiright? Oops, but wait, it turns out Colleen Hoover told Justin that doing too much sex, especially explicit sex, in the movie could be uncomfortable for audiences. Hoover explained that while readers might enjoy reading about a more graphic sex scene in a book, which they can read at home on their own, they wont' necessarily want to see that on a big screen in a movie theater surrounded by other movie goers, where it could feel embarrassing or over the top. I thought Baldoni cared deeply about doing right by the book and the book readers, and that he wanted to make sure the movie was told with "the female gaze." But then he wanted to add more and more explicit sex to the movie over the objection not only of its start but the author of the book it was based on, both women? Interesting. Also, I don't know if you're aware of this, but not every second of footage filmed for a movie is released to the public. And in this particular movie, there was actually a big battle between Blake and Baldoni about exactly what footage would be released. One of the reasons Blake sought to control the Sony cut of the film was specifically because she was concerned that Baldoni's desire to make a really sexy movie would lead to a more explicit, sexual version of the film being released, one that centered that sex between the leads instead of the emotional arc of the Blake's character (which is what the book is about and Hoover wanted the film to be about). You describe a power struggle between Wayfarer and Blake over how sexual and explicit the movie would be, and this power struggle played out in the competing cuts. It thus makes sense that Blake, who wanted to make a more chaste movie and release a more chaste version of said movie, would also be concerned what Baldoni and Wayfarer, who had repeated and aggressively tried to get her to take her clothes off and do more sex in the movie, might do with what was filmed. Thus it makes sense that she'd seek to enforce the provision of the nudity rider specifying that dailies involving her in various states of undress or simulating certain sexual acts that did NOT make the Final Cut of the movie, be destroyed. Which means this was done not to try and "destroy evidence" but to protect an actress who believed she'd been sexually harassed by her horny, porn-obsessed director and his buddy producer. But sure, please go on and tell me how a brief text between two Sony producers proves that Blake brought her entire lawsuit with malice. I'm sure Judge Liman will find it very convincing. Except... I dont' think Liman gets his takes from Reddit. Fair warning. |
I like it when you don't even pretend not to be a misogynist MAGA. When we drop the "I'm really a feminist but I just think Blake is a liar" nonsense and you admit what you really think: that a law designed to protect survivors should be declared unconstitutional because we don't want those yucky, liberal California values to get in the way of a totally innocent game of grab a$$ at work. Tell me again about how you totally believed Amber Heard all along and that's why we should trust you when you declare that Blake is a liar and all the feminist and survivor advocacy orgs supporting her 47.1 motion are the enemy. |
You can use as much offensive language as you want. Not going to change the fact the law is unconstitutional. Also not going to change the fact that California is wildly out of touch with the rest of the country. Signed a Democrat. Sure that kills you though. |
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Oh please. It was Sony that asked for more explicit seems not Justin. He did everything to try to make her comfortable. There were countless emails and text where he told Sony he would be more prominently featured if they wanted more explicit scenes and not her. He offered to get her a body double. He tried to get her to meet with the intimacy coordinator. He was not pushing for more scenes for her, they were.
But I’m sorry, there was no side boob in the damn movie. I saw the movie with my own eyes. It was not explicit at all. You have nothing, so you have to resort to just lies. These things that you described simply did not happen. |
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It doesn’t make any sense for the blake bot but to be arguing about nudity, what Sony flagged as strange was that Blake was not asking for scenes with nudity to be deleted. She was explicitly asking for all the dailies to be destroyed.
The reason ange thought it was strange, because never in her decades long career has she seen someone request dailies to be deleted when there was no nudity. So please, post seven more paragraphs about nudity in the film that you clearly haven’t seen or don’t know anything about. What Ange was explicitly talking about in that email exchange to other Sony executives, was the shock and strangeness of Blake’s request. We will say it again because it’s clear that you are slow. When Blake was asked about this in her deposition, she denied it. We now have a paper trail that proved that she did. |
Fair warning: Reddit didn’t dismiss all the sexual harassment claims….a federal judge did after months of carefully looking at all the evidence and weighing it. |
It’s almost baffling how many facts you got wrong here. This just reads like fanfiction. You accuse people of having a para social relationship with Blake, but you created this character and this entire ahead story that didn’t happen. I know the case inside and out, and even if you didn’t, AI is super helpful and you can just search. Colleen Hoover never, not once, told anyone involved in the film to tone down the sex scenes. It didn’t happen. Colleen and Blake did not have a shared vision of the film - they actually didn’t have that many interactions. In the latest depo dump after the case settled there was a text exchange between Jenny Slate and Blake with Jenny saying how cold and unfriendly Colleen seemed, paraphrasing here, but something along those lines and did she do something to offend her? And Blake saying no that’s just how she is which is why she keeps her distance. Colleen doesn’t follow Blake and deleted every image of them together. They only met a couple of times for photo ops and she went along with Blake because she was clearly fan girling over Taylor and obsessed with celebrity, but no, they didn’t share some vision and collude on reducing the number of sex scenes. You’re just blatantly making that up. It was Sony that wanted the sex scenes because the book has a lot of them. Blake, of course, didn’t read the book. Justin is not perfect and he some missteps during this film, but at every turn he wanted to do whatever Blake was comfortable with in terms of theses scenes, and he made that clear from the start. As soon as she started ranting about not being ready to do body scenes, he told her don’t worry about it. We’re only going to do what you’re comfortable with. Again, he offered the body double, he offered meetings with the intimacy coordinator, he offered to take the brunt of any sexy scenes and have it be the female gaze. It was Sanford the head of the studio who complained that Blake did not look good in one of the scenes and they needed to re-shoot it. It was Sony who was pushing for more sex scenes not Wayfarer. But funny how Blake isn’t suing Sony is she? Wonder why that is? Maybe because they’re a major studio with billions of dollars and not an independent studio that she thought she could just F over. Look, if the only arguments you got are made up ones that you’re just pulling out of thin air, this is just getting weird. You were like Blake in that way. We are only here because a number of out of context situations and blatant lies that she made up. I don’t know why you want to believe Blake so badly. She’s not a good person. And sadly as much as I liked Taylor, what she did was really petty, cruel, and quite frankly pathetic. They just set out to ruin a man’s life for sport. Fortunately this did not end with a one sided New York Times article like they thought it would. It actually did go to a court of law and we were able to hear both sides. And now that we’ve heard both sides, the public and the courts have sided with the one that isn’t Blake. |
Maybe don't trust AI to be able to read a bunch of screen shotted documents on a court docket friend. It 100% did happen, see below. Text exchange between Hoover and Baldoni from April 2023 before filming even started. Key takeaways (I wrote these myself but I know you like AI to summarize things tidily for you so you don't have to think too hard so I'll do my best AI impression): - Yes, Colleen clearly pushes for less sex in the movie and tells Justin that what her readers, and film viewers generally, want from a movie like this is the romantic build up and the first kiss, not a bunch of explicit sex scenes. She also says the sex in the book is not what matters to readers as much as the emotion. - Justin tells her that this is also what Blake wants and then says Blake hasn't read the book. Keep in mind Colleen had not met Blake at this point but they already have a "shared vision" -- they are both telling Justin before production that the movie will work better with less explicit sex and more focus on the romance and emotion. - Colleen says she actually likes that Blake has not read the book because it's valuable to get that perspective. Presumably they want non-book readers to see the movie and the movie has to appeal to them too. - Justin is worried because he wants the movie to have an R rating for some reason and toning down the sex will push it to PG-13. Colleen says this is fine and even says she'd like the movie to be something teenagers can go see.
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This doesn’t conflict with anything that I said. It was Sony who was pushing for the R rating not Justin. It was Sony that was pushing for more explicit sex scenes. Ironically, as much conflict as there was in this movie, Blake was not upset about the number of sex scenes. She was really upset at the beginning of the film about doing any kind of body scenes so close to postpartum and wanted the schedule to change, but she wasn’t trying to get anything changed except for the birth scene, which, by the way, is not a sex scene. That was the scene that was continually raised in the docket about being problematic. Blake and Colleen actually didn’t talk about staging scenes or anything like that. They actually did not meet until the movie was filmed and Blake got her on her side about some of the different edited scenes. Their main interactions were during the promotion of the film when they had this photo ops together. Blake’s cut actually tested worse with young women. Acting as if Justin was pushing for more sex scenes, and that was an issue in the sexual harassment case is just wrong. Blake had an issue around the birth scene, around Jamie coming into her trailer, around comments Justin was making (hot, sexy), but she never said she was pushed into doing inappropriate scenes. You are trying to make something a thing that was just not a thing. |
You said Colleen never pushed to tone down the sex in the movie. It clearly shows she did, and also that she and Blake were on the same page with the vision for the movie, even though they had never met. You claimed this never happened. It did. You are also wrong that Sony pushed for the R rating. Justin pushed for it to Sony. See below, where Justin tells Ange Giannetti that he will do anything to get this movie to an R rating and she doesn't even agree to it but says they will decide later if it will be R or PG-13 (it is nonsensical that the distributing studio would want an R rating, studios almost always push for lower ratings because it means more $$$). Transcribing instead of screen shotting to avoid violating Jeff's language rules, here's the exchange, from April 28, two days before the conversation with Colleen posted above: Justin: Il [sic] do everything I can to shoot an R film Ange: Gotcha. Ok I'll update Sony you are going to try and get as much tasteful hot sex as you can and we decide in post if PG-13 or R. I am going to set mtg without ratings board head. Maybe Mon or tues? You find out if we are PG-13 will Colleen be okay and does she think her readers will be okay? Xx Justin: And look for alts for f***s etc - I need to know if I can say "I want to f*** you" it's so important - not having that in there would kill it Justin then goes to Collen who tells him explicitly that the movie should have less sex than the book, that the book doesn't even have that much sex, that readers will be way more interested in the emotion, and that she wants a rating low enough for teenagers to see the movie. Sony was NOT pushing for a sexually explicit, R rated movie. Justin was, and he was playing people off each other to try and get it. He really wanted to film as much sex as he could. This is despite the fact that they knew when they hired Blake that she does not do much nudity and on screen sex. |
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This is fine! Now post the script that Blake(Ryan) sent Wayfair with a p-rn term so disturbing that Redditers were confused.
In describing background for the rooftop scene, he used the word husk-rhymes with duck. But grab your girls and grab your florals! Mind you, Blake and Ryan condoned having over 70 takes of their young daughter making a gay male joke that made her so uncomfortable she was near tears. But yes, they were absolutely appalled by scenes in a Colleen Hoover book. |
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Still waiting for you to say, "Oh, I was wrong. It turns out Colleen Hoover did tell Justin to tone down the sex in the movie, and it turns out Sony was not pushing for the R rating -- Justin was. I see now that I had incorrect ideas about what happened and might not not know as much as I thought I did."
But if you need to spin out first, ok I guess. Do you need to talk about how Ryan is closeted and they're gonna get divorced and how hot Justin's abs are? Go for it babe. I know it's hard. |
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Lively was right about Justin. He is porn and sex obsessed and he was trying to turn a movie about DV into a vehicle for his sexual fantasies. He was gross and many of the women on the movie thought so. Jamey Heath enables him and they both have boundary issues. And when they realized people might find this stuff out about them, their egos led them to hire sketchy people like Melissa Nathan, Jed Wallace, and Bryan Freedman to try and destroy Lively's reputation so no one would ever believe her. And they basically got away with it.
I do think Lively lost this case, the 47.1 motion not withstanding (we'll see, I have no faith), and I think that's fundamentally unfair because: she was right. But life is unfair and 2026 America is not a bastion of truth or justice. I hate it, but I'm not going to pretend it's anything else. |
Yep. And Lively personally is not very sympathetic so whatever, but the whole thing is just skeevy. |
I wasn’t wrong though. Sony and Colleen and Blake seemed to have different visions. You will recall Colleen handpicked Justin to tell the story and pushed him to play the lead. Why rewrite history. Justin realized early on Blake was very self conscious and was more than willing to work with her. She was the one who was improvising kissing scenes with him. You are just leaving a lot out to fit your version of the story. The rooftop scene she sent over had that totally gross and inappropriate term. And the scene was over the top. |