Style choices that age women in their 40s

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Anonymous wrote:Someone here pointed out that after your 20s, larger breasts age you. It's hard to explain how, but when I tried on a shirt with a padded pushup bra and a regular light bra, the extra boob size definitely made me look older. It's subtle but there was a difference. So throw out the miracle bras or, if you're bustier, go for a smoothing sports bra style.

I know people are upset about this one, but it's true. I think people are upset because they know it's true. Very large breasts look matronly after a certain age. The word "bosom" comes to mind.

It's a trade off. Women who get a lot of attention for their boobs in their youth wind up looking grandmotherly faster because of those boobs. Women who with small boobs get to look youthful a little longer. I feel like it kind of balances out in the end.

Where’s the trade off? You know how much of that attention was from pervy older men? You know how much of a PITA big boobs are to have while trying to run, stay cool in the summer or nurse?

You just suck, full stop. Go sit in the corner and soak your head.

Lady, pervy old guys are creepy to everyone. That wasn’t something special that happened to you because you had a big rack. Lots of perverts like the pre-pubescent look of a flat chest. Perverts are equal opportunity.

But if you’ve got decent sized boobs and you’re heterosexual, bi, or a femme lesbian, guarantee you worked them for attention when you were young. Back when you were going out to bars and parties, it was tits up, because it got people to pay attention to you and made you feel good. Great.

And now those same tits are drooping. They are probably even bigger thanks to pregnancy and breastfeeding. And yes, they are making you look a little matronly. Oh well, that’s life.

Women with small or no boobs get body shamed for it all the time, btw. From puberty. You’ve probably participated in it. But I guess that doesn’t count because it didn’t happen to you.

Holy cannoli, you are a real piece of work.

Where’s the lie?

The whole thing is a work of fanfiction created out of an unstable head.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone here pointed out that after your 20s, larger breasts age you. It's hard to explain how, but when I tried on a shirt with a padded pushup bra and a regular light bra, the extra boob size definitely made me look older. It's subtle but there was a difference. So throw out the miracle bras or, if you're bustier, go for a smoothing sports bra style.

I know people are upset about this one, but it's true. I think people are upset because they know it's true. Very large breasts look matronly after a certain age. The word "bosom" comes to mind.

It's a trade off. Women who get a lot of attention for their boobs in their youth wind up looking grandmotherly faster because of those boobs. Women who with small boobs get to look youthful a little longer. I feel like it kind of balances out in the end.

Where’s the trade off? You know how much of that attention was from pervy older men? You know how much of a PITA big boobs are to have while trying to run, stay cool in the summer or nurse?

You just suck, full stop. Go sit in the corner and soak your head.

Lady, pervy old guys are creepy to everyone. That wasn’t something special that happened to you because you had a big rack. Lots of perverts like the pre-pubescent look of a flat chest. Perverts are equal opportunity.

But if you’ve got decent sized boobs and you’re heterosexual, bi, or a femme lesbian, guarantee you worked them for attention when you were young. Back when you were going out to bars and parties, it was tits up, because it got people to pay attention to you and made you feel good. Great.

And now those same tits are drooping. They are probably even bigger thanks to pregnancy and breastfeeding. And yes, they are making you look a little matronly. Oh well, that’s life.

Women with small or no boobs get body shamed for it all the time, btw. From puberty. You’ve probably participated in it. But I guess that doesn’t count because it didn’t happen to you.

Women. We really are our own worst enemy.

Yeah… b cup here…. You sound incredibly bitter. Maybe you should work on body acceptance.

I mean, I agree, but I also think it’s telling that this anger/bitterness is coming from someone who was obviously shamed for being flat chested when she was younger.

Like she’s being rude, but I imagine it’s coming from a place of hurt from being told for years that there was something wrong with HER body. So there might be a lesson in there for everyone.

This is quite literally a thread about middle aged ladies. So yes, let’s teach our daughters and sons not to body shame (which most of us likely do). But maybe we stop acting like wounded Bs in our 40s?

I guess one question I have is whether some of the women who are hurt by PP’s comments about large breasts ever poked fun at a woman for having small breasts? Like if you ever teased a classmate fur being “flat as a board” or made passive aggressive comments about how men prefer curvy women, then you contributed to this dynamic. Doesn’t make it right, but getting mad at someone for doing to you what you’ve done to them isn’t right either.

Seriously, who THINKS like this? Are you permanently trapped in middle school?

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It starts with Soft Surroundings but eventually we just drape some burlap and moss.

I love you.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone here pointed out that after your 20s, larger breasts age you. It's hard to explain how, but when I tried on a shirt with a padded pushup bra and a regular light bra, the extra boob size definitely made me look older. It's subtle but there was a difference. So throw out the miracle bras or, if you're bustier, go for a smoothing sports bra style.

Large breasts aren't a style choice. Unless you are talking about implants. It's like saying, being under 5'6" ages you. Or blue eyes age you.

I had a boss back when I worked for the government, who used to say that women with big breasts were ugly and that women who had big breasts had nothing going for them in life except to be a slut.

I was lactating and pumping during that time and felt really uncomfortable.

I guess some on here would agree with my old boss.

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Anonymous wrote:Someone here pointed out that after your 20s, larger breasts age you. It's hard to explain how, but when I tried on a shirt with a padded pushup bra and a regular light bra, the extra boob size definitely made me look older. It's subtle but there was a difference. So throw out the miracle bras or, if you're bustier, go for a smoothing sports bra style.

Large breasts aren't a style choice. Unless you are talking about implants. It's like saying, being under 5'6" ages you. Or blue eyes age you.

I had a boss back when I worked for the government, who used to say that women with big breasts were ugly and that women who had big breasts had nothing going for them in life except to be a slut.

I was lactating and pumping during that time and felt really uncomfortable.

I guess some on here would agree with my old boss.

Damn I hope you made an EEO complaint or something, that's really inappropriate

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Anonymous wrote:Someone here pointed out that after your 20s, larger breasts age you. It's hard to explain how, but when I tried on a shirt with a padded pushup bra and a regular light bra, the extra boob size definitely made me look older. It's subtle but there was a difference. So throw out the miracle bras or, if you're bustier, go for a smoothing sports bra style.

Large breasts aren't a style choice. Unless you are talking about implants. It's like saying, being under 5'6" ages you. Or blue eyes age you.

I had a boss back when I worked for the government, who used to say that women with big breasts were ugly and that women who had big breasts had nothing going for them in life except to be a slut.

I was lactating and pumping during that time and felt really uncomfortable.

I guess some on here would agree with my old boss.

That's awful, sorry you were in that environment. And you're right, large breast are not a "style choice", which was what the OP of this thread was actually looking for. But rather quickly the responses turned away from style choices and became dominated with things like "thin hair", "being overweight", "sun damaged skin", etc. The "large breast" posts were in the same vein. The responses to them were over sensitive, especially from women who are presumably 40 and up.

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I thought of this thread today when I saw this disgusting ad on facebook for a bra for larger breasted women. The model in the ad had breasts hanging to her belly button covered in socks and then lifted them into the bra. Having small boobs is really best as you are aging...I have never been so grateful for my 34bs that are still super perky even after motherhood. I don't know a lot in this life but I do know one thing...I have two body parts that will never meet and that is my nipples and my belly button

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For those who want to see the nasty a** advertisement: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1452380886/bralisse-ultimate-breast-shapewear-to-wear-everyday?ref=adqmca&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoK2mBhDzARIsADGbjepPbqSSTDUth-M1PGOk-YEqh5nLWTeQs0UoJHSlntGz-jamBRJY8ykaAkzMEALw_wcB

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Why is this a nasty ad? I actually like the idea of these bras. They take your natural breasts and lift them up. No compressing or squeezing or shaping. Nice wide straps too!

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this a nasty ad? I actually like the idea of these bras. They take your natural breasts and lift them up. No compressing or squeezing or shaping. Nice wide straps too!

Because PP has the emotional maturity of a 13 year old.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this a nasty ad? I actually like the idea of these bras. They take your natural breasts and lift them up. No compressing or squeezing or shaping. Nice wide straps too!

The bra looks great but I could have done without the "before" with those saggy flapjacks hanging around in socks. It does really illustrate what everyone has been saying in this thread about larger breasts being aging. Once you get to the point when they aren't perky anymore it's not pretty.

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Anonymous wrote:For those who want to see the nasty a** advertisement: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1452380886/bralisse-ultimate-breast-shapewear-to-wear-everyday?ref=adqmca&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoK2mBhDzARIsADGbjepPbqSSTDUth-M1PGOk-YEqh5nLWTeQs0UoJHSlntGz-jamBRJY8ykaAkzMEALw_wcB[/quote

Nothing nasty about that ad. It looks like an innovative idea for bras for large breasted women. I've been living with large breasts since I was about 13 and it's still a constant struggle to find bras that are comfortable, supportive enough, that maintain their shape and are affordable. I can't imagine why you would want to denigrate this person who is trying to create such a product. Please explain.

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Anonymous wrote:For those who want to see the nasty a** advertisement: https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1452380886/bralisse-ultimate-breast-shapewear-to-wear-everyday?ref=adqmca&gclid=Cj0KCQjwoK2mBhDzARIsADGbjepPbqSSTDUth-M1PGOk-YEqh5nLWTeQs0UoJHSlntGz-jamBRJY8ykaAkzMEALw_wcB[/quote

Nothing nasty about that ad. It looks like an innovative idea for bras for large breasted women. I've been living with large breasts since I was about 13 and it's still a constant struggle to find bras that are comfortable, supportive enough, that maintain their shape and are affordable. I can't imagine why you would want to denigrate this person who is trying to create such a product. Please explain.

I mean yeah I get wanting to make the bra but no reason to actually show those saggy skin bags in the socks.

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Anonymous wrote:Why is this a nasty ad? I actually like the idea of these bras. They take your natural breasts and lift them up. No compressing or squeezing or shaping. Nice wide straps too!

The bra looks great but the ad is hyper-sexual.

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Anonymous wrote:I thought of this thread today when I saw this disgusting ad on facebook for a bra for larger breasted women. The model in the ad had breasts hanging to her belly button covered in socks and then lifted them into the bra. Having small boobs is really best as you are aging...I have never been so grateful for my 34bs that are still super perky even after motherhood. I don't know a lot in this life but I do know one thing...I have two body parts that will never meet and that is my nipples and my belly button

Man you are overcompensating.