Men with low sex drive
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Anonymous
| Do men with low sex drive legitimately have a low libido or is there something deeper going on such as him not being sexually attracted to his wife or being gay? |
Anonymous
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I've never known a man to have a low sex drive (assuming all is okay with him medically). Very often what it is is that he is not particularly physically attracted to the person he is with (ex: maybe he wishes she was thinner or prettier or a different race or had a different personality, or maybe he is gay).
I think this is actually true of most people. When you find someone with whom you have chemistry, your sex drive is not nearly as low as you might have previously thought it was. |
Anonymous
| My husband always says the cure for ED is "strange" |
Anonymous
Yes b/c men are animals. They will hit anything and if they don't something is wrong with them or the woman. |
Anonymous
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Not necessarily. My wife and I love each other and have a good sex life, but with young children, occasionally stressful jobs, etc., there are times where our schedules are off, one of us is horny for a few days when the other isn't. There have been times where she nudged me and I rolled away because I was exhausted.
You don't give much context as to how long the issue has been going on, if there's a real situation and this isn't just a hypothetical. |
Anonymous
Hopefully he doesn't have an ED problem then, since he seems to know the cure. |
Anonymous
I'm just curious - what did she want when she nudged you? In other words, how did she want things to proceed if you were interested? Just put it and go to town, give her oral, what? |
Anonymous
As they say, your penis doesn't lie. If you are angry at a woman or feel belittled by her, you are going to have a low drive. I also think that in this day and age, when being gay does not carry as much of a stigma as it once did, there are a number of married men who question their sexuality and it does reflect on their sexual energy towards their wives. |
Anonymous
| Maybe he's asexual. |
Anonymous
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Is he on antidepressants? That robs everyone of their libido.
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Anonymous
| I believe there are a wide range of libidos in men and women. A high testosterone man is probably going to be hornier than a man with lower testosterone. |
Anonymous
| More men have low libidos now because of their gut. If everyone slimmed down, we wouldn't have these problems. |
Anonymous
baldness is related to high testosterone. |
Anonymous
what are you talking about??? There are slim people with very low libido ... yeah they can find fault with their girl friend or wife not being hot, but that's not the case. Year ago a friend's wife (one of the original Victoria's secret angels) divorced him because he would not touch her. Both were in their 20's\ and both were gorgeous. When I asked Ale why he would not touch her, he simply replied he did not find her physically appealing ... |
Anonymous
+1 |