I don't think she was being sarcastic. There was a private school mom a few pages back who thinks that only her own child's disability is legitimate because, as far as I can tell, her fancy private school worked to give her child accommodation early in life. Let them eat cake, I suppose. |
Do you have a problem with the fact that a family successfully helped a struggling kid? Or do you consider this situation “gaming the system.? Because it seems that people get up in arms when these kids actually become successful. I mean, isn’t that the whole idea of giving accommodations? |
NP I have a problem with the fact that a family helped a struggling kid because they were wealthy and had the means to do so. Not every kid is afforded that help. It tips the scales to the side of socioeconomic class. As most things tend to do. I just don't think it's right. |
Not right to be wealthy? Alrighty then. |
| Never heard of the "I don't think it's right" legal theory. |
Correct, most have no doubt been 2e all along. But suddenly (or perhaps gradually) Pomona looked like a simultaneously elite and supportive environment. |
No, you're not "2e all along" if you manage to get through elementary, middle, and high school without an IEP. That's not how "2e" works. 2e does not mean "smart but quirky" or "smart but makes careless errors." It means - you have a disability that requires special education to access the curriculum. Perhaps you want to drastically downgrade the definition of disability - but at least be upfront about that. Nobody is 2e and gaining admission to Pomona without a history of significant supports already. |
Not right to only get accomodations if you are wealthy enough to have them diagnosed. |
Who knows? I'm just responding to claim that DC privates aren’t eager to enroll/support SN kids. That said, yeah, it sucks that high quality education and medical care are sold at prices not everyone can afford in the country. But there's no independent reason to get bent out of shape about people who wouldn’t (or might not) qualify for taxpayer-funded services deciding to pay out of pocket for services (e.g. private schools that will provide accommodations without requiring an IEP, tutors)that they think would enable their kids to do better in school. IEPs are ways the government rations its educational resources. They aren’t some objective bright line that separates kids who need/deserve/could benefit from help or accommodations. |
I know a private mom who has done the same. For academics and sport. And held her kid back a year in HS. He told my DS how his mom made sure he had extra time on SAT, and got him diagnosed with ADHD. Basically, what's wrong with us for not getting DS extra time, everyone does it. Very, very academic private in DC. |
And sometimes the fancy private schools actually ask you to leave. Because you have ASD. And they cannot accommodate you. Walk a mile in someone's shoes let them eat cake pp. |
Oh bullshit. There are lots of 2e kids who fly under the radar because they are relatively high-performing and/or they may have an LD that impacts one aspect of their academic performance while they excel in some other discipline. |
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I know one of the Dean of Students at Pomona and she told me that this is a quite a click-bait article.
The school, like most other schools, amended its disability classification system to include those with documented psychological disorders (usually depression & anxiety). That's why you see the spike from 5 to 22%. Most of those students DO NOT use any accommodations. They are kept within a database and informed about their rights and resources. The WSJ implies that these students necessarily ask for extended time, separate spaces, etc, but 95%+ of Pomona students take the class traditionally. Is there a possibility for abuse? Sure. But the school makes students renew accommodations every single semester and does not grant them readily. The hassle of going through the process- having a professional fill out the form with suggested recommendations, working with the DOS, informing professors before the start of the semester- keeps out everyone but those who really do need them. |
CNMC and KKI will perform the same diagnostic tests as a private practice and they take insurance. The only difference is the amount of time it takes since they're typically scheduling 10 months out and private practice can get you in in 6 weeks or so. Schools are also required to performing testing upon referral. While not medically diagnostic, their testing is supposed to identify whether the student is able to access the curriculum or if they need services or accommodations. It seems your beef is that those with more money have more resources to address their children's disabilities. They don't have to settle for the crumbs given in public school, but can instead pay to receive a full and effective level of intervention. Are you saying that parents should not be able to pay to give their kids the support they need? Does that include all the other enrichment activities rich people fund for their kids? |
Thanks — I really appreciate this post! |