| @657. It’s on the college forum, because parents are facing a tough college entrance environment. And it’s scary. So they are latching onto— but my kid could get into a top ten school if their spot wasn’t taken by an ADHD kid who cheated on the SAT. Which is crazy. These schools have 6% admit rates. If your kid does not have a significant hook or is is very lucky in their profile, they are not getting in. Neither is the ADHD kid. And no amount of extra time is going to give your kid the 1560 on the SAT they would need to even have their essay read. It is not a test you can do perfectly, even with u limited time. You have to be very fluent in the material. If you don’t know the vocal work or get the math problem, more time does not help. |
It is also scholarships and merit awards. Kids who know the materials but do not get extended time or a calculator are the ones who are disadvantaged by those who gamed the system. I am not referring to kids w true disabilities but the wealthy parents who have connections and can get and pay for a diagnosis. Those of you who don’t believe this obviously is not in the prep school environment where there are a lot of wealthy parents and accomodations. |
When schools fail children, wealthy people have an out. |
It's true that private schools have a much larger percentage of kids on accommodations. And I think there's some truth to the wealthy=accommodations. But one factor contributing to the prevalence of accommodations at private HS may be the fact that private schools are better and more responsive to kids with learning disabilities so parents specifically choose private over publice for their kids with learning disabilities. My dc is in a public HS and has accommodations. Private HS would be possible but really hard for us financially. But everyday, I wish we had moved him to private. Public HS is sink or swim. My son has accommodations but there are some classes he just refuses to use it in because the teacher is so hostile to it. Yes by law, they need to give him extended time. And I guess they would if dc pushed for it, but he's a kid and when you have a teacher who so clearly doesn't want to deal with it, he's not going to push for it. I see my friends with kids in private and see the responsiveness, willingness & feedback they get from teachers. You just don't get that at a public HS. I'm not blaming the public school teachers. They may be as every bit good but they just have too many students. If I could do it all over again, I would have sent this one dc to private HS. My other kids were totally fine in public. |
That's not what this conversation is about, actually. It's precisely the fact that these schools are SO selective that makes it incredibly hard to believe that suddenly 1/4 of the students have disabling conditions necessitating academic accommodations. That makes a mockery out of actual disabilities. As a side note, I do think it's untenable to offer accommodations like extra time and calculators to some kids, and not to other kids. |
Why would you think that? DC area privates are not exactly jumping out of their seats to admit kids with diagnoses and the need for additional support. Just read these forums when people ask for ideas for private schools their kids with HFA or ADHD. What the private schools have is very rich and connected kids whose parents can wrangle "accommodations" when it suits them. |
Kids can be 2e (aka twice exceptional) — i.e. gifted and dealing with an LD. Wouldn’t surprise me if (a) 2e kids often have interesting and thoughtful stories to tell (b) 2e kids may themselves prefer (and/or have parents who strongly prefer) learning environments that are smaller scale and where teachers routinely engage with and get to know most of their students (c) parents and 2e kids, especially those who are attending college far from home, want a school that has experience, resources, and a good reputation for dealing with LDs. Also, Pomona has a class size of about 420 kids. And it’s an expensive school with predominantly affluent students. So, yeah, it doesn’t blow my mind that 22% of the students who enroll there have a documented LD. It might well be the most LD-friendly elite college in the US. |
Depends on the kids and the school. IIRC, about 30% of the kids in HS at GDS had some kind of accommodation. And there are learning specialists on staff for all grade levels. Don’t know how many families declared known LDs prior to admission. |
Your kid does not have a disability and does not qualify for accommodations because even his lower scores are ABOVE AVERAGE. My kid has dyslexia, and has verbal and quantitative reasoning skills in the 95th to the 99th percentile, similar to your kid. But processing speed is in the 30-something percentile and working memory in the single digit percentiles. He isn't considered to have a processing speed deficit! Because the range of "normal" or "average" starts from the 25th percentile, I think. It is only the long tails of the curve on these diagnostic tests that are considered not-average. So that is what we are looking at when we are talking about kids with disabilities that get accommodations. Kids with below average scores across the board aren't going to in-demand colleges, if they go to college at all. Your kid is not competing against them. What you aren't seeing is that kid with ADHD or dyslexia accommodations has a mix of above average skills (like your kid) along with below-average skills (unlike your kid), and the below average skills really are impediments to letting kids show what they know, so that colleges can chose them...or not. I actually think it would be great if the college board changed the testing format so that it was virtually untimed for all kids - maybe the kind of adaptable computerized test that aims to find the end point of a kid's knowledge, and then stops. That wouldn't benefit or disadvantage any one kid. And anyone could chose to read the questions by eye or ear or finger (via text to speech over headphones or braille). If colleges and the college board wanted to test processing speed and working memory, there are much better methods than the ACT and SAT! |
No. 20% of Pomona admits have not suddenly become 2e. |
Listen to my works. 30% of GDS HS students would NOT qualify for an IEP under IDEA. They have "accommodation" that mommy and daddy purchased for them. |
So? Just because a kid doesn’t qualify for an IEP doesn’t mean he is not entitled to accommodations. IEP is extremely difficult to get and maintain. My DS had a 504 (which is not an IEP) for many years in public school before moving to private. The college board saw that he had a history of using accommodations and he was granted extended time. We are wealthy, but hardly gaming the system. We were just fortunate enough to have teachers who quickly identified problems at a very young age. He is the one with adhd, lowish processing speed but high working memory. Consequently, he does really well in school and on tests. Just needs the time to demonstrate that ability. That extra time makes a significant impact in his scores. We are quite pleased with how it all worked out for him. |
Sometimes it is easier if you have money, to not fight for an IEP, but to hire it out to a private school. This is what happens. We chose to stick it out in public school and supplement afterschool. I have a child who had and IEP from 2nd grade through 12th and EVERY YEAR there was some violation of FAPE. Every year. You have to figure out which battle to fight and which to do on your own even if the law states otherwise. There is only so much money and so much time. We chose to spend it on our children in the moment rather than a lawyer when the outcome would be years away and our children would have been for the worse. Wealthy people can chose to punt it altogether. |
Oh, I'm sure you are "quite pleased." |
No. I am telling you - 30% of GDS students do not have actual disabilities. They just do not. And last I heard, the top privates around here were not exactly jumping to admit kids with a history of IEPs, even those with the money to pay. |