Do not worry, I am not going anywhere ![]() ![]() Now, to the other PPs, I repeat again, Islam allowed women to vote over 1400 years ago. Islam allowed women to own property over 1400 years ago and to that PP who said 'ughh own property, not a big deal." Well it kinda is, since women in the west had to fight for these rights like a few years ago..These are well-known facts, and whether the answer or verses cited satisfy you or not is quite frankly irrelevant. You are not the authority on this, muslim women all over the world know these facts, muslim men all over the world know these facts. Whenever muslim women have been oppressed, it was not due to Islam. It was due to a profound lack of knowledge or the lack of application of that knowledge. Ignorance is what is oppressive! Islam demands that women be treated with respect, honour, and justice. It condemns oppression of any kind. Having said that, it iis an undeniable truth that across the world, some Muslim women are oppressed, but that is also true for Christian women, Jewish women, Atheist women, Buddhist Women, hindus, women of all religious persuasions and ethnicities are being oppressed on a daily basis everywhere in the world, so have at it!
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19:42, let's be really clear about this. Your post has been addressed by two different posters so far. I responded immediately, several times. I'm not your atheist nemesis, in fact I'm not an atheist. I'm also not 21:00/21:01.
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Muslima. For Pete's sake. Mohammed's first wife owned property before Islam even appeared. Islam did not "grant property rights to women." Why do you keep saying that?
Also, you're the one who is so big on using context to interpret the Quran, yet in this case you insist on ignoring context. You're talking about people who were acting 1400 years ago in a context of establishing relations with another tribe. Nor does pledging allegiance to the ruler of another tribe have anything to do with *choosing* the ruler that you pledge to or the "ballots" you kept referring to. |
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OMG, did PBS just use the word "Equal"??? Don't they know how confusing this is to their western readers ![]()
Some women in Muslim societies have been prominent political actors. Female relatives of the Prophet Muhammad were particularly important in the early Muslim community because they knew his practice and teachings so well. Other women came to power through fathers or husbands. Still others wielded power behind the scenes.
Just shocking!!!!! PBS is in, they are part of the conspiracy to prove to the world that Muslim women had rights 1400 years ago, something must certainly be done , sue them! Source: http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/globalconnections/mideast/questions/women/ And yes Khadijah R.A was wealthy, she was a business woman. Wealthy women were able to own property and even inherit, the lower class couldn't. Take a history class and come back |
Muslima, do you really, really want to start all this again? Don't you remember what happened last time? Can't you see what's coming next? - Muslim men can divorce women by saying the phrase "Talak, talak, talak." That's it. Women have to sue for divorce in court and may lose their children. - Women get half the inheritance of men because they are dependent on men - Women's testimony is worth 1/2 that of a man in financial courts - Muslim warriors can take female captives as concubines - Husbands may discipline their wives by striking in some translations, tapping in other translations. Wives have no similar recourse against husbands. - The polygamy stuff you mentioned, except you called it polygyny which refers to women having multiple husbands. By your reasoning, the fact that Jesus said nothing about inheritance or property rights could be interpreted to mean that Christianity granted these rights to women 600 years before Islam did. |
PS. Muslima, you really do seem to assume that nobody here knows anything about Islam, so nobody will challenge assertions like "Islam gives women the right to divorce" or produce a more nuanced version. Apparently you hope that your your selective cut-and-pastes will fall on innocent ears that will perhaps be converted.
Also, you STILL haven't proven that Islam granted voting rights to women 1400 years ago. You merely slapped your 21st century values on an event from the 600s that involved tribal relations. Many of us have heard a million times that Islam banned female infanticide, but really, why should that be the standard, and why shouldn't we aspire to so much more in this day and age? |
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PBS didn't use the word equal. The Quran did. Again, you may believe that Islam gives women a superior deal. Others may disagree. Why is that so hard to fathom? Right of divorce "in certain cases"? As opposed to unrestricted one for men? Also, there aren't really any rights for women post-divorce, other than a three-month paycheck. Islam didn't invent the right to own and inherit property for women. Women owned and inherited property long before Islam. There is absolutely no evidence Islam forged a virgin path there.
There is no such thing as "Western women". Each Western country had its own legal framework. Women in Spain owned and inherited property independently since 12th century. The fact that Muslim women keep their names after marriage is a just a custom. It's not a particular sign of independence. In fact, some say it is to signify that a woman remains a part of her father's family more so than her husband's.
That's not particularly special or different from any other environment. There were always powerful women, in all societies. And just which one of his wives was the favored one is a matter of some debate, even within Islam. Of course, when your daddy is president, it's easy to become known as "the favored wife." Didn't Aisha always nurse a gigantic grudge against Khadijah, even most-portem?
Again, how is this in any way special or different from other societies?
Oh dear. What is the source for this? Your opinion? Apropos that, I doubt very much that an upperclass woman would have entertained marriage to an orphan with nothing much except character to recommend. AND, if your claim of her upper class status is true, that actually shows us that pre-Islamic Arabia was quite an egalitarian little place - women could propose marriage to much younger men, hire and fire, dispose of their own business, get rich and stay rich, and pick husbands not necessarily from their social milieu. Not a bad deal, if you ask me. Incidentally, most of pre-Islamic history was conveniently authored by Islamic scholars. Mainstream Muslim discourse always tries to cast "jahiliya" in the worst possible light. I wouldn't rely on Muslims to learn what pre-Islamic society was really like - too much incentive to put it down. |
The losing children bit may or may not happen but all major madhabs agree women lose custody of children if they remarry. One of our divorcee relatives in KSA has been declining all proposals for that reason - she would rather stay single than lose her children.
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Yes, that's correct re: three months only. To me personally, that has always been a fatal flaw in the Islamic framework of rights, and I'm surprised it doesn't get more airtime because I consider it highly discriminatory, more so than polygamy. To me it would have been terribly unfair to not acquire any claims to wealth built during marriage. For a homemaker, that's a very rough deal. No thanks. They will tell you that a divorced woman will be maintained by her father, her brother etc. but that's all babbling. I consider all my husband and I made during marriage to be joint property. And I'm glad the law here agrees with me. Three months' of alimony? Nah, not good enough for me. |
Read, woman, read. Nasty Little Muslim here. We just got through telling you that in Sura Ash Shurra there is a verse on the requirement of mutual consultations to decide all matters that require a collective opinion. It clearly makes this statement to both men and women. This means even in political matters, women's opinion mattered because usually political matters require a collective vote or opinion. But this ruling goes for everything from voting on a ruler to deciding who should clean the mosque that week. |
Nobody ever called you Nasty Little Muslim. I called you Nasty Little Sidekick. The racist appellation is your own invention and I refuse to be associated with it. It's part of the broader problem you seem to have with honesty and consistency. |