Anonymous wrote:So many people - including grandparents - are delusional about this virus, thinking it won’t affect them. Lots of people started to get reckless this past week, in anticipation of the holiday weekend.
My advice is to say your piece to each of sister and the parents. I’d also lay on the guilt regarding your 90 year-old grandfather, asking them what they will do if he gets infected. I’d also clarify that if something happens to the grandfather, it will permanently change the nature of your relationship moving forward.
After that, you need to leave it to them to figure out. If they want to jeopardize their lives for a couple weeks with the grandkids, well then you can’t force them to act rationally. This crisis is really revealing that a lot of people are as not as smart as we assumed. Personally, I’d never be able to forgive my sibling if someone dies of Covid.
100% this is how I feel.
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