Just found out sister is dropping her kids off at our parents
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Anonymous
If BIL is an oral surgeon, why can’t they afford childcare? |
Anonymous
Plus they could be scheduling shifts so they don’t overlap with each other So she’s putting your parents and grandparent at risk of death to save some bucks on childcare? |
Anonymous
| Some states are offering free childcare for healthcare workers. |
Anonymous
| Why don’t babysit her children? |
Anonymous
They live 12 hours away. |
Anonymous
I’m pretty sure they can afford it. |
Anonymous
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Do your parents and sister live in an area with a high number of Covid-19 cases?
Or, are they in an area the has started to open up with few cases? |
Anonymous
41k cases, 1800+ deaths in the state |
Anonymous
But what about the specific area of the state? States may have a large number of cases, but if they live in an area of a state that has not been hit hard, that makes a difference. |
Anonymous
Her specific county has the highest numbers of hospitalizations and deaths in that state. Did I mention they both work in healthcare? |
Anonymous
| Also they opened up two weeks ago, so we don’t really know the current numbers. |
Anonymous
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Here are some options:
Talk to your sister to stick with the sitters Talk to your parents to not take their grandchildren for 2 weeks Contribute to cost of sitter for your sister if it’s really money issue Other than that, not much you can do given that they are 12 hours away. |
Anonymous
| Are you sure this is the way it went? Are you sure your parents aren't begging to babysit and have lots of time with grandparents? I ask because my parent is guilt tripping me because "so and so's kid visits all the time with the grandkids in the house and they have been fine." i am forever the bad daughter and this other adult daughter is a saint. This same adult daughter uses her parents as nannies often and she doesn't even work. It's just so she can indulge herself and go on trips with her husband. The thing is, it makes her parents happy too. From the outside it looks like she is using them. To my parent it looks like she is a saint and to her parents it's a great situation. It's all in the eyes of the beholder and sadly until someone gets ill it is hard to convince people of what is the best choice. |
Anonymous
| I feel for you but this is a MYOB situation. You said yourself that your parents are mentally competent. It's their decision to accommodate your sister (thought I think we can all agree they are taking a big risk). |
Anonymous
Georgia? |