Woman posts that she got home after a 9HR shift to this

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Anonymous wrote:Have any of you even looked at her account? She has 3 daughter's, the other's are his. It appears they have broken up. Good for her.

? how can she break up during a pandemic? Where are they living?

She lives in TX and works at Macys as a store manager. Maybe the house is hers. IDK.

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Anonymous wrote:I have to wonder if its fake. They have five kids so Dad was probably doing all the homeschooling, cooking dinner and other stuff. With 5 kid, everyone should be helping out.

yeah right.

My spouse is a slobby pig with terrible habits. But his fancy graduate degrees and lecturing make him think he's above everyone and everything.

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And what are their FIVE children doing? Six if you count the husband? Is anyone cleaning up after themselves, including mom? Pigs, all of them

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to wonder if its fake. They have five kids so Dad was probably doing all the homeschooling, cooking dinner and other stuff. With 5 kid, everyone should be helping out.

Agree. That mess did not appear in just 9 hours. And a 9 hour shift? Isn't that a regular work day?

In a grocery store. During a pandemic. With no protective gear unlike healthcare professionals.

If I got home to this after such a taxing day I'd be pissed too.

And then put it in tic tok to music with captions. Klassy

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Anonymous wrote:Just going to restate what was said earlier ... it ain't only men who are slobs and unwilling to put in an effort at home. I put up with this for years from my soon-to-be ex-wife; the only one who did work around the house was me. Despite counseling, it became worse instead of better when a child came into the picture and I ended basically being the single parent of a child and a woman-child. Guys and girls -- if you think you can change 'em ... you can't. If they promise you they'll change, they won't. What you see is what you get.

Amen brother

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have to wonder if its fake. They have five kids so Dad was probably doing all the homeschooling, cooking dinner and other stuff. With 5 kid, everyone should be helping out.

Agree. That mess did not appear in just 9 hours. And a 9 hour shift? Isn't that a regular work day?

With a 7-person household I don't think this is out of character. I do think it accumulated over a week and she didn't do anything about it and neither did the husband sitting at home.

Yeah, with 7 people that laundry machine is running 24-7 ... or should be.

i mean, that said, this is TikTok and it doesn't matter if it is real or not.

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I want to cry for her.

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She posted the kids on TikTok. 4 girls and 1 boy with estimated ages of 6, 8, 11, and 13. Activities featured showed them all old enough to brush their own teeth and dye easter eggs without assistance.

Her spouse's laziness has nothing to do with a colicky baby.

All of them old enough to help out too. My kids (8, 10) are not exactly superstars, and we don't demand a lot from them. But, last weekend, they cleaned two bathrooms (toilet and sinks and trash, not the tubs), did their laundry from start to finish (a little help with the socks), vacuumed the downstairs and emptied the dishwasher. They will do the same this weekend. They regularly set the table, empty the dishwasher, do some form of laundry and tidying their rooms. They get themselves breakfast and lunch, with some assistance as needed, My spouse is not the one, however, to enforce this. I have always been the one to push them to do it. He finds it easier to do it himself and yes, initially it is easier because they suck at it, but they get better and learn.

I understand how a day with a bunch of kids can be crazy, but having cleaning up activities should be part of it. Every good daycare knows the clean up song!

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Poor lady. She looks heartbroken and utterly disappointed.

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Anonymous wrote:And what are their FIVE children doing? Six if you count the husband? Is anyone cleaning up after themselves, including mom? Pigs, all of them

Of course they are. If the weak link “parent” is a pig and leaves messes everywhere and never takes care or things, why would any of his kids take care of it?

He should be (a) leading by good example, and (b) parenting them to do good habits. Picking up after yourself is a pretty universal, basic life habit. Do it daily so it doesn’t build up, and certainly if you share a home w others.

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He was angry. mom was at work running a store and ManChild was home with the kids.