MIL response to DH cheating

[Anonymous]

Blood is almost always thicker than water, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You completely rocked her perception of her son. And you apparently weren't being nice to her. I don't blame her for losing the closeness with you.

Plus there is always the chance her husband was a drinker and abusive or she was.

+1

Nailed it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:FWIW, as a guy, I'd very much expect my mom to take my wife's side if I cheated on her.

I'm going to guess that DH is similar to his father in some ways.

+1

Exactly. Mil thinks that since she put up with it, you should too, OP. GTFO there. Yesterday.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your husband got multiple blowjobs from other people, including men, and is abusive and you are still there? That’s insane if true.

This.

Your husband is gay, has a drinking problem and is abusive to you. Run for the hills, woman!

[Anonymous]

Cheating with men? I could not recover. No chance.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A year ago, I discovered my DH had been cheating on me since practically the moment we met in 2012. He did not have emotional affairs or have sex, but rather recieved oral sex from several people, from what I discovered and what he confessed over time. Some of the people were men. When I found out I told my MIL. I was pregnant with our second child. I did not discuss details, just told her he had cheated with both men and women on me. I was considering leaving him and was back and forth from my dad's house for a few days. I told my family and a few friends. DH doesnt know anyone knows. I did take him back, as I am only 26 and probably just stupid. Anyway, I wanted MIL to know why I was being such a bitch which is why I told her. I was pregnant and emotional. DH also has a bad drinking habit and has been abusive. When I told MIL all this, she was all about "you need to keep it together for the kids, stop acting like teenagers." Since then, shes been so cold to me. I hate going over to her house. She used to help watch the kids but hardly wants to see them now.

This is exactly how mothers ruin their boys.
Most mothers I see are still doing this crap.

[Anonymous]

I call bullshit on this one. I've never met a woman who would hang around after finding out her husband was getting blowjobs from men, I don't care how many infants or toddlers she had. And he's an abusive alcoholic. Nope, not buying it. And if it is true, the MIL is the least of your problems.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your husband got multiple blowjobs from other people, including men, and is abusive and you are still there? That’s insane if true.

Totally agree. I’d already be gone. How in the world could you live with a cock$ucker like that?

[Anonymous]

Surprise, males are spoiled and can do no wrong. My ILs AND my parents have witnessed my DH verbally and emotionally abuse me, and all have told me to suck it up for the kids.

It’s okay to stop going to your MIL’s if it makes you uncomfortable. There’s no sense in doing it to make your DH happy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Surprise, males are spoiled and can do no wrong. My ILs AND my parents have witnessed my DH verbally and emotionally abuse me, and all have told me to suck it up for the kids.

It’s okay to stop going to your MIL’s if it makes you uncomfortable. There’s no sense in doing it to make your DH happy.

That doesn’t mean you have to stay.

[Anonymous]

He’s gay. He abuses alcohol and whatever else because he’s in denial and hates himself. He takes his hate for himself out on you. Leave.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I call bullshit on this one. I've never met a woman who would hang around after finding out her husband was getting blowjobs from men, I don't care how many infants or toddlers she had. And he's an abusive alcoholic. Nope, not buying it. And if it is true, the MIL is the least of your problems.

+100

[Anonymous]

Troll thread

[Anonymous]

I doubt this is a troll thread.

OP you need to leave. I agree that your DH is likely gay and that is probably causing a lot of his problems. This will get worse from here. Get your kids out of there. You can figure it out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He sucks and your health is at risk. Get tested and get out.

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