What men find attractive is often much simpler than what women think we should find attractive. Fit and friendly is 90% of the battle.
Also agree re the fun and upbeat energy will draw men in, especially ones who have been married a while. There was a study that said men just being near young attractive women raises their testosterone which is a natural mood booster. |
I think it’s hilarious women on here think it’s because the woman’s boobs won’t sag one day.
The men want this woman for ONE NIGHT. They don’t care what her boobs look like in five years |
For 100K/yr, you can have mine. |
What’s wrong with her? -np |
I have natural C+ cups and my nipples still face the horizon without a bra...and I BFed three kids |
np - you can have mine for half the price. She has no sex drive (for me at least). It's like owning a sports car with no engine. Pointless. Fit is nice but sex drive is far, far more important. |
^This! |
The husbands’ behavior is rude to their wives. |
I'm sure they are just tired of their wives always nagging them and this woman makes them feel good about themselves like their wives used to. |
And the woman's husband (their supposed friend!). |
Like it or not, op, she's physically attractive. I suspect she also smiles a lot and pays attention to the guys when they are talking. Men feel good about themselves when they are around her and, therefore, "like" her. I have seen women who aren't conventionally attractive have this effect on men, as well. It's not Rocket Science, just basic human nature. |
This woman's looks has nothing to do with how a few of these men are behaving. Those wives have losers for husbands if they can't act appropriately around good looking women. Nice looking people all over the place, if you can't control yourself there's are bigger problems. If I start "crushing" on a good looking guy my husband would tell me he'll buy me a bus ticket. lol I really doubt OP it's "All the dads". |
My husband is glad I like men, lol. |
+1 This is the important part. My friend looks like this (the white blonde hair, blue eyes, accent, etc.) and her husband obviously thinks she is a total ditz. She kind of is - I love her as a friend, but I could never live with her. These men are not thinking long term at all, OP. |
Is she flirty OP? I think it is a turn off when someone who is married is flirty - I know some of DCUM would "like the challenge", really, I have enough excitement in my life, I don't need someone else's drama. |