How to attract a wealthy man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I cant believe I'm answering this but here it goes:

Be and look healthy and natural. Be put together in how you dress, put nothing too fussy or perfect. Think well tailored clothes in high end fabrics and neutral colors. Wear simple earrings. Have great skin and don't wear foundation. Wear minimal makeup; just enough makeup to cover flaws and accentuate best features. Keep hair healthy, shiny, and within a couple shades of your natural color.

Be interesting and a bit different. Be smart and witty.

Be talented at something- have a passion you are pursuing.

Don't gossip.

I mean...isn’t this what anyone wants? Man or woman, rich or poor. No one wants a b*tch who’s going to harangue you about the latest political issue the moment you walk in the door or looks like a sloppy mess and has no hobbies.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Rich men are not hard to bag. They have few but strict requirements. You either meet them or you do not.

1. Be beautiful
No other way around it. You have to be genetically blessed to have a physical attractiveness baseline that is above average. After that, natural beauties do not apply. Style your hair, apply your makeup perfectly. Be well groomed and well styled at all times. Be at your peak physical fitness. Thin and petite with great hair is prime bait. You don't have to be 22 but retain your youth and beauty as long as you can.

2. Be feminine
Dress like this:




3. Be smart but submissive
Do not try to one up him or outdo him. Use your intelligence and smarts to compliment his strengths and help him become more successful. Shine the light on HIM. Be an asset to him. Network at his parties, charm his colleagues and superiors. Add some value to his life. Use your intelligence to help him be successful while making him the best home you can.

4. Admire him
Shine the light on HIM. You are HIS arm candy, an extension of his social brand. Flatter him and make it all about him.

This doesn't exist. This is a unicorn women men are forever trying to get that no woman is. Pretend to be this and you may snag a rich guy but he will be unpleasant and vapid and likely leave you for younger and prettier in some years. Case in point: all the women pictured are independently wealthy. Except for the middle woman- I have no idea about her husband's wealth other than his "job" is supporting his wife's million dollar blog

[Anonymous]

One thing people have not mentioned: have a DADT policy towards affairs. You must be faithful, but you must understand he may not be. This is for the intergenerational wealth: he grew up thinking he can have anything.

Accept that. Do not question it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well...I think some of the above is how to meet a wealthy Douche bag who will not be a good husband other than a provider. My DH is wealthy and I am independent, opinionated, outgoing and successful in my career. When we met, I had frizzy hair, could stand to lose 10 lbs and hardly wore makeup and my wardrobe consisted mainly of jeans. He says he fell in love because he could talk to me about anything. GL.

sad, he'll get bored and look for some nice eye candy

We have been married 20 years and he still can’t keep his hands off me.

[Anonymous]

I think I read all this advice in “Memoirs of a Geisha.”

This is the stuff of prostitution, not for dignified modern women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think I read all this advice in “Memoirs of a Geisha.”

This is the stuff of prostitution, not for dignified modern women.

+1 yep Basically, lower yourself and be a whore for him.

[Anonymous]

5. Lower your standards about what he should look like, his age, and "baggage" (ex wives and children).

I have a friend who has been in NY looking for a wealthy man for the past decade (she is now in her late 30s). She fits all the criteria listed above - she is very attractive, she is skinny, she takes excellent care of herself, and she's smart and feminine. She has no trouble meeting and attracting men. But she's had no luck finding a husband. She doesn't want to settle for someone she's not attracted to, and she doesn't want to be a stepmom, so the older, balding, divorced guys are immediately dismissed. Problem is, the flashy, hot younger guys she falls for will date her for a while, but then either a) don't want to settle down because there are dozens of other interested, younger women waiting, and dump her for a 25 year old; or b) dump her to then quickly settle down with a woman from their own social circle (an old boarding school classmate, or the daughter of family friends who own the Hamptons house next door).

[Anonymous]

Yes, for sure. I went from flat broke to wealthy over the course of 30 yeas. When I was broke, I was mostly attracted to really over-weight women. The more money I made, the slimmer the women who attracted me. Now, at my peak of wealth, only really skinny women are attractive to me. All my wealthy men friends say the same thing.

[Anonymous]

The best way to attract and marry a wealthy man is to be born to wealthy parents and be a part of the same wealthy circles. Like attracts like, assortative mating is the rule now. The way you wrote you question sounded like "how to attract a wealthy man if you, yourself, are poor."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm around 200 pounds and landed an attractive, smart, and wealthy husband. I'm happy and confident. I run half marathons, work out all the time, including yoga and strength training. I'm fun, reasonable, kind, and smart.

The above describes how I was when we met, and how I am now.

Sure, sure

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Well...I think some of the above is how to meet a wealthy Douche bag who will not be a good husband other than a provider. My DH is wealthy and I am independent, opinionated, outgoing and successful in my career. When we met, I had frizzy hair, could stand to lose 10 lbs and hardly wore makeup and my wardrobe consisted mainly of jeans. He says he fell in love because he could talk to me about anything. GL.

sad, he'll get bored and look for some nice eye candy

We have been married 20 years and he still can’t keep his hands off me.

That same hands' been on me too

[Anonymous]

I find this to be such a strange and depressing question and thread. I mean, that's the big end goal? That he be wealthy? To hell with things like his personality, his character, the depth of the Love you share, how the two of you are together, sexual compatibility. My husband had less 25 years ago so did I. Now we have much more, but it is part of a shared life together. Not all wealthy men are the same, good Lord

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I mean...isn’t this what anyone wants? Man or woman, rich or poor. No one wants a b*tch who’s going to harangue you about the latest political issue the moment you walk in the door or looks like a sloppy mess and has no hobbies.

well, that knocks out practically every female DCUM poster from your dating pool

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The best way to attract and marry a wealthy man is to be born to wealthy parents and be a part of the same wealthy circles. Like attracts like, assortative mating is the rule now. The way you wrote you question sounded like "how to attract a wealthy man if you, yourself, are poor."

This is the answer. Wealthy men want someone with the same background.

[Anonymous]

They want the horse faced old money twin - or - find a climber who wants to meet a twin just lime him - whatever that may be. If you are a model your background does not matter in scenario 2.