Don’t be a prude. (Be adventurous in bed.)
Invest in yourself. (Stay in shape.) Have a good sense of humor. Go with the flow. Be honest. Don’t be fake. Don’t have a nasty attitude. Don’t be catty. No drama. |
PP described traits of someone accommodating and pleasing - and willing to be kept on that basis.
Not independent. Not challenging. Not admirable. |
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BJ lips |
Easy on the eyes and easy on the mind. Make it easy - don't challenge them intellectually or take intense positions about anything. Laugh at their jokes, ask questions so they can talk about themselves. Good manners and flirty but not trashy. They need to be able to take you anyplace and you will look good but not talk too much. |
Woman here and this is truth. |
Agree with many PPs about peak physical beauty, perfect styling with updated accessories, and making it about HIM. I'll add that the ideal person should be low drama, willing to do whatever he likes, and generally easy to get along with. Good social skills so that she can handle herself among his peers and his parents and their social circle.
Where are they? They're getting advanced degrees and traveling for business. They rely on word of mouth to an extent, so make friends with some females in the social circle too. |
He didn’t claim dependent or deferential. And challenging? No thanks, that’s code for drama. |
What is your education and professional background? I think most of the wives are fit, not necessarily beautiful but pretty and smart. They don’t seem hip or trendy. |
How long have you wanted to be a prositute? |
Omg whatever. I “landed” a rich husband by being myself. Yes, I’m attractive, but he liked me. And still does! |
Scout them out early! I met my husband at work on my first day. We didn’t date for a few years but I could tell he had potential.....in many ways but at that point money was low on my list because I thought he was fun, handsome and smart. So I asked him out. Now many years later we have a net worth closer to nine figures than eight. What I love is that he is still fun, handsome and smart and the money is just an extra benefit. |
? You must be gay. What man cares about a woman's shoes? |
wow.. I don't think I could lower myself to be this way. My DH makes about $200K (I make about the same if I work FT. I worked PT for a while for the kids and our marriage). I'm pretty low maintenance, drama free, and slim (ish after kids). |
This thread is the reason I did not want to bag a rich man
I figured out how to make money so I could have the freedom to love a poor man What a pity it is to have to admire a man all your life |