To repeat: That doesn't fit my understanding of love being about each helping each other be the best they can be. There would need to be more admiration. The hot and sweet is a relationship based on "service" and "ego." I hope not all men think that is what is worthy about women. That's patriarchy on steroids. |
The reverse is also true - if the younger woman is using her "assets" in this way to secure a lifestyle rather than genuinely develop her own talents and grow and contribute to the world in every way she can. Well, what a loss. All her potential is in service to one shallow rich man who wants sweet and admiring and hot? That IS patriarchy on steroids. |
OP kind of sounds like a prostitute to me. |
Why are people so cruel? And no, this is not always the case. Especially if you did not marry for money in the first place. |
Kinda? |
Be white. |
The most successful men often feel they need to prove something - so they often come from dysfunctional, poor or Uber competitive families. Women who are confident, warm and intelligent (but not necessarily ambitious) are very appealing. Love your successful man, make him shine, keep a beautiful home, have taste that makes him look good and you both will live your best life. |
If you think a woman's best life is to make a rich man "shine," you are delusional. |
She will be a servant in more ways than perhaps she will realize. Or she will realize and live in fear of various kinds. Ours is a sick culture. |
Ding ding ding ding ding!!!!! |
Life can be really long and unhappy if married to the wrong person. Hope the money is worth it. A nice handbag will only satisfy so much. |
Nope don't have to be skinny. My skinny rich ex left me a thin girl of 105 for a fatso who used to be 200lbs and still fat with cankles. |