Happily married with a crush on neighbor

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I started crushing on one of my son’s friends moms this weekend. She hot, single and flirty. Nothing will come of it but it brightened up my day for sure.

Why? Because you think you’re going to stay away? What if she comes on to you?

That's actually "Nothing will come of it "

[Anonymous]

Hasn't it been established on DCUM that if it's a next door neighbor, it is certain to be your soulmate? What are you waiting for?

[Anonymous]

Ran into someone who I now know can make a lunch or just a random discussion really fun. Smart, funny, kind and just started to realize, very attractive. So it goes.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You all seriously have the time for this kind of melodrama?

99 times out of 100 I find myself feeling grateful that I've got the life that I've got.

I guess that we’re not all as perfect and enlightened as you.

I guess I sowed enough wild oats before I got married to know that my own grass is pretty green.

Like that time at band camp when you got tipsy on wine coolers and went to first base with the trombonist?

Like between the ages of 18-25. Then I met dh.

+1...DH isn't perfect but I made some poor decisions pre DH.

[Anonymous]

I made poor decisions RE: DH. Oh, that's not this discussion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I made poor decisions RE: DH. Oh, that's not this discussion.

Well, if you are lusting after a neighbor, it could be.

[Anonymous]

I would love an update on what happened? I’m in the similar predicament ,neighbor and me and his wife are friends and our kids are friends
Except we have talked ,kissed,and so on
I’m not sure how it will end but I can say it’s stressful but wonderful so far.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would love an update on what happened? I’m in the similar predicament ,neighbor and me and his wife are friends and our kids are friends
Except we have talked ,kissed,and so on
I’m not sure how it will end but I can say it’s stressful but wonderful so far.

Spoiler alert: ends badly

[Anonymous]

I figured it would but right now we are “in love” and happy
We are trying to figure out a way to both separate and be together
Would take any advice or suggestions
What’s done is already done so we can’t go back now

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I figured it would but right now we are “in love” and happy
We are trying to figure out a way to both separate and be together
Would take any advice or suggestions
What’s done is already done so we can’t go back now

Statistically speaking, it’s pretty grim. I think only something like 3-5% of APs end up married and of those that do, around 75% divorce.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I would love an update on what happened? I’m in the similar predicament ,neighbor and me and his wife are friends and our kids are friends
Except we have talked ,kissed,and so on
I’m not sure how it will end but I can say it’s stressful but wonderful so far.

You're on this forum, resurrecting a dead thread, on Christmas... Sure, it's going great!

Leopards don't change their spots, PP. If he cheated with you, chances are he'll cheat on you. Enjoy it while you have it, if that's what you're into, but don't put too many eggs in this basket.

[Anonymous]

OP should be setting up an MFM.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Man here, I have them all the time, sometimes just sexual, sometimes more. I can tell you that he almost for sure has the same for you, at least sexually.

You can easily enjoy it without it becoming more as long as you dont: 1) start texting with him, and/or 2) be alone with him with alcohol involved. I speak from experience when I tell you it can get really messy in first a good then a really bad way if you let it progress to either of these.

Enjoy

OP here- I appreciate this male perspective. It turns me on to imagine he is feeling it for me too.

Many NOVA females try to make their dull lives into a shitty creepy Lifetime movie.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here and If he senses you’re interested, I guarantee he fantasizes. I heard one of my neighbors thought I was hot - she was about 100 pounds heavier than what I would normally prefer, but I still couldn’t stop thinking about doing naughty things with her.

When I was a kid, a married man fathered two kids in my building and two other kids on my same street. Don’t fall for the neighbors.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You all seriously have the time for this kind of melodrama?

99 times out of 100 I find myself feeling grateful that I've got the life that I've got.

I guess that we’re not all as perfect and enlightened as you.

+1,000.
No melodrama, and if course I appreciate what I've got. But when somebody find me attractive and interesting ... It is easy to get carried away.

I'm saving myself for Aquaman. He comes my way and all bets are off .

Um you know he’s off his rocker right?
https://variety.com/2023/film/news/aquaman-2-jason-momoa-drunk-claims-amber-heard-cut-scenes-elon-musk-letter-1235747775/