How to handle wife getting hit-on in front of you

[Anonymous]

Lighten up. It means you have a desirable wife. You should be more worried if no men were hitting on her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Omg - what does “my wife’s behavior made him think he had an opening” mean?
You are a psycho!!!

What it means is she was frowning and was visibly angry and was refusing to talk to me. She broke her phone and she went crazy demanding that I get it fixed for her. I was not the one acting psycho. I figured the guy saw she was angry and figured that was his opening.

Haha. Op, this is one of the funniest threads I’ve read in a long time. Sounds like she got what she wanted. Sounds like you are insecure and weak emotionally. someone married to someone so insecure must appreciate a little flirting by someone with confidence from time to time.

[Anonymous]

You overreacted to a non-event.

[Anonymous]

So glad my husband doesn’t fly off the handle when a sales guy flirts with me.

OP, you sound easily offended. Is your marriage in a good place, phone incident aside? Do you find that you get upset with your wife for interactions with strangers often? Do you always punish her emotionally for other people’s behavior?

[Anonymous]

No man would have the guts to hit on my wife while I'm around. You must look like a metrosexual.

[Anonymous]

Everyone needs to read this. Jeff has just posted a series of threads by OP. His post where he summarized all of them is hilarious.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/0/793713.page#14748629

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Everyone needs to read this. Jeff has just posted a series of threads by OP. His post where he summarized all of them is hilarious.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/0/793713.page#14748629

How does he know these are from same person?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Everyone needs to read this. Jeff has just posted a series of threads by OP. His post where he summarized all of them is hilarious.

https://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/0/793713.page#14748629

How does he know these are from same person?

Are you new here? IP address.

[Anonymous]

The writing style is also consistent.

[Anonymous]

Major clue = wife breaking phone and demanding OP fix it.

OP... strap yer balls on.

This story makes you both look like losers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I fail to see how someone hitting on your wife is so humiliating. This isn’t at all about the store employees, but about the weird, unhealthy dynamic with your wife.

You both sound pretty immature.

This is truly the most confusing part of the whole story. OP why are you so threatened by the random store employee?? Does your wife have a cheating history that keeps you on edge?

Humiliation would be the thing to feel because of something your wife did, how the cell phone guy behaved is irrelevant.

[Anonymous]

Your wife sounds a bit unhinged. A grown woman who gets that angry over a cracked screen-- that she caused sounds immature to say the least.

Also, the fact that she went out of her way to share what the employee did makes me think even less of her.

He disrespected you, but she allowed it and rubbed it in your face. As such, my main issues are with her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:No man would have the guts to hit on my wife while I'm around. You must look like a metrosexual.

I agree. Men look but definitely don't "touch" when my husband is around. He enjoys the stares, but would not tolerate someone approaching me, because it is a reflection of the level of respect the man has for him. Op, I hate to say this, but you must reek of weakness.

[Anonymous]

This is humiliation and misogyny fantasy. Read the link to Jeff's summary of his other threads. It's the same kink in different forms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Honestly? This reads like some weird cuckold fetish story-thing.

If someone is hitting on your wife in front of you, you raise an eyebrow, give a slight smile, and either lean back to watch what she does (if she likes to take care of herself) or (if she is giving signals she is okay, and you are exasperated) turn around and occupy yourself with something else.

If she is intimidated or flustered, you back her in any way she wants. You don't take over unless she asks you too. Presumably she is not a toddler.

This is good. OP you sound very controlling.