I am going to take a hint form your statement-"My DH is completely not able to function lately."- This sounds like something new. Talk with him and see what is going on. I know for me with a family your size when things are orderly and functioning smoothly it doesn't take long before there is a backlog of disorder. So I understand where you are coming from.
There might be something mental or medical going on with your DH. I know in our family when one is struggling we all try to pitch in and help then it becomes turn about is the opportunity to help another. Family meetings might be a good next step after you talk with the DH. But give him a chance to share with you and maybe the two of you can work it out. If praise works he might be going thru a difficult maybe even depressing time in his life and is just not working as well as usual. The praise might just lift him up and help him to go on. I don't know here but there do seem to be a few "red flags". Blessings to you and your wonderful family.
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