Feeling left out

[Anonymous]

Somebody there does not like your son. It could be the host's son or the lady herself or other moms who have had open discussions about him...now your son is not invited.
When you do playdates, do you involve her son?

Annoying. I don't like this kind of situation as well. Personally, I would not consider that person my friend. And don't bother going to the charity events. She just wants to gather money. So, she wants your money, nothing else, especially when your son is in private school. Are there anything positive part to yours or your son's relationship with this woman or the son?

I know a mom's club like this. I know about half of the ladies in there, yet I am not in the mom's club. I have yet to be invited to their gatherings with or without the kids. There must be an official agreement i'm suppose to sign to be invited. yeah right or maybe my difference is I have a job and definitely can not respond within 2 hours. Not sure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Somebody there does not like your son. It could be the host's son or the lady herself or other moms who have had open discussions about him...now your son is not invited.
When you do playdates, do you involve her son?

Annoying. I don't like this kind of situation as well. Personally, I would not consider that person my friend. And don't bother going to the charity events. She just wants to gather money. So, she wants your money, nothing else, especially when your son is in private school. Are there anything positive part to yours or your son's relationship with this woman or the son?

I know a mom's club like this. I know about half of the ladies in there, yet I am not in the mom's club. I have yet to be invited to their gatherings with or without the kids. There must be an official agreement i'm suppose to sign to be invited. yeah right or maybe my difference is I have a job and definitely can not respond within 2 hours. Not sure.

What a sh@tty thing to say without observing the situation. While its not a great excuse, It could be this is a very insular clique that didn't even give it consideration to invite others.