That’s one of the main things they grant aid for! |
Who? What? You are confusing the programs. Even when you repeat FAFSA in subsequent years and indicated you now have two or three in college, if their calculator determines you make too much money, you're not going to get another cent (we didn't) - except the min. $5500 loan per child. The FAFSA computer doesn't care that we are sandwich generation families taking care of 3 elderly grandparents, putting nothing away into retirement, getting old, burying family and trying to keep our kids in college at the same time. If you are talking about merit aid, the elite schools don't give a damn how many kids you have in college. All they care about is does your child have a unique characteristic the univ. needs for reporting such as a 36 ACT, Samsung scholar. the only applicant from Idaho with perfect test scores, etc. You need to learn the basics about MERIT AID (not available at the SLACs and Ivies and top flagships because they don't need to give it) and FINANCIAL AID which is run through FAFSA at the department of ED. We received no merit except for the two offers unsolicited from expensive SLACs you've never heard of. We received no merit aid from the other 9 universities. FAFSA says our EFC is to pay everything. Meanwhile, I am spending at least $100K a year to take care of parents and MIL on top of this. And nothing is being put away for retirement. Yes, we are frugal. Driving two 15 year old cars. |
| "Merit aid" means you've done something meritorious to earn it. |
Or what? Of course you can. |
I think the point you are missing is that the college/university gets to decide what you can afford, not you. If they think you can afford it (based on the numbers you provide and financial -- not merit -- aid available), you're stuck. |
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As always, these threads go off the rails. You can't simply HOPE for merit aid. Does school school offer scholarships? The school's website will detail this. Are you child stats (GPA plus SAT scores) at the tippy top of the school's student body? The school's common data set will give you this information. Please educate yourself on the admission process before you make any decisions. This will save you lots of time, effort and money. Perhaps your high school has an informational meeting regarding the process.
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No, you’re not stuck. The whole point of the “finances clause” is if you think your FA package was not enough for you to afford the tuition you can break the contract. |
Again- private colleges use the CSS profile, not the FAFSA. FAFSA is for federal aid, the CSS profile is for the private school aid package. The CSS profile takes into account things like home mortgage and insurance expenses and having multiple kids in college. I don’t understand how you could have multiple kids in college and not know this - unless they are all in state school but you keep talking about private colleges. https://cssprofile.collegeboard.org |
Sorry but this is just dumb. You need to save for your own retirement - stop doing this! You don’t want to burden your own kids with your future expenses because you didn’t save do you? And no - you don’t get any FA for doing this. |
Except “finances clause” does not mean merit aid. Don’t be a dummy and expect merit aid to save you in an ED. |
Merit money or lack thereof is NOT PART OF A FA PACKAGE. |
Please listen to this person. We are trying to tell you that private universities and colleges are a luxury and that some of us donut hole families simply can't afford them. The college is in no way obligated to provide a free education to your child via federal financial aid or merit money. Merit money is drying up at the elite universities and flagships because they get so many applicants they can find all the people they want for their class with the stats and skills they want without dangling money in front fo the applicant's eyes. (with the exception of some athletes). You have to do something really meritorious that the college wants in order to be offered merit aid. Most MC and UMC students do not receive any merit aid unless they are willing to drop down and attend a less prestigious college that needs your student as a statistic, say a perfect ACT. Or they want to say they have a class from all 50 states and 183 countries and your child is the only quality applicant from Idaho. Then you file the FAFSA (and yes if Princeton and a few other elites the CSS but FAFSA first) but if FAFSA says your EFC is high you aren't going to get any financial aid no matter how many kids you have in college. The institutions want to save that money for the questbridge, low-income, URM international, first-generation, immigrant crowd. Please be smart about this before applying to institutions that are now $80K a year in after-tax dollars or you may wind up with a severely depressed child. We have three in college. All three are in-state. All three were valedictorian or equivalent, eagle scout or equivalent, and 4.0+++ GPA and ACT 35. We got zero merit aid offers except from unsolicited offers who had bought the list of ACTs scores and wanted our child's ACT scores for reporting purposes. STill, state universities in-state were less expensive. Granted, we were trying for the very top caliber institutions but we received no merit offers, no work study, no financial aid over than the min. $5500 loan. And yes we applied CSS too. You need to get some good books and read up on the process. The donut hole problem is very real. Most of the families I know are in it. That's why there is a surge of applications to state schools across the United St[b]ates and why California recently restricted OOS and international to only 20% of student body because the Californians were furious that they couldn't get into their own state schools. And please don't believe the admissions officers - they are marketing people. Their job is to get your kid to apply so they can be rejected, thereby increasing the number of applications ("Applications up by 1500 this year at JMU!") and then reject them ("Selectivity drops to only 5% of applicants at JMU! Most selective year ever!). This is all a numbers game thanks due to USN&WR. |
+1. Don't apply ED to a school that the family cannot afford. Period. Apply to EA institutions and in-state public. Those you can turn down if you are so lucky as to get a financial aid package (we received nothing from ten different institutions). |
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My D (35ACT, 800/800 Subject tests, 4.2 GPA) only applied EA because we wanted to compare costs. Early decision is too risky if you do NOT qualify for non-need based aid. She applied EA at most places, and regular at the rest.
So far, 2 merit awards that essentially gave her a free year of undergrad at each school. Sounds like someone on this thread has a DC who applied ED and may break the contract if the merit aid is not enough. |
| ^^^meant to say, “too risky if the NEED-BASED AID is not enough.” |