Anonymous wrote:
I don’t understand women like you. I’d never sign up to have separate bank accounts and live like I’m a child with an allowance. It’s your fault for agreeing to this to begin with. Best of luck in turning things around
+1. I have SAH for 28 years. My DH is the earner. He has no idea what I spend nor does he care. I've always managed the money. If anything, he asks me for spending money. Everything we have is joint. You are out of your mind for agreeing to that arrangement, OP.