Hall pass empty promise rugswept

[Anonymous]

You lost me at "didn't post Happy Birthday on my Facebook wall...".

[Anonymous]

That's a lot of effort if a troll. If not OP you're so called dh is using you for finances. What is this rockstar b.s.? The rockstar sounds like a loser, and you sound like someone that hasn't grown up. Get away from this creep even if you have to live with family.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. I also do not have any STDs nor has my husband, now or ever. As for my looks: I think I look ugly without makeup. I think I look presentable with makeup and a particular "niche look" that definitely appeals to the type of niche look this particular rockstar has. It's the type of alternative look that the guys from that particular strip club aren't into. They're more into the skinny built-in implants blonde bombshell look, like that billboard stripper. Some of that strip club's customers have told me I'm ugly and nowhere near as beautiful as the stripper, which is why I feel I'm ugly.

I also want to lose more weight. I want to go back to cutting out all sugar so I can become rail thin again. Then I will appeal better to that rockstar.

Your ideas on sex & attractiveness aren't based in reality. At all.

The vast majority of men aren't really into strip clubs once they reach mid to late 20s and have a real life. No guy really wants to spend a lot of money and stay out all night just to look at fake women with fake personalities. It's just not appealing. I dated one guy who was really into strip clubs, and he was creepy AF. So if you're hanging out with guys from a strip club, plus your husband's gross behavior, yea, you're going to develop some self-esteem issues. So stop it. Cut them out of your life. The biggest influence on your life is your peer group, and you need to trade yours in for better ones.

I'm going to repeat: most men don't like strippers. Someone on here will probably disagree. They are wrong. People on the internet aren't a good representation of people in real life. I have male friends in their 30s/40s who are getting married and none of them are even going to strip clubs for a bachelor party. They instead choose camping or bowling or whatever. It's like going to dance clubs, nobody over the age of 26 really wants to go anymore.

Similarly, women aren't into rock stars once they reach adulthood. Sure, you'll find some of them attractive. But actually paying to be VIP and trying to hook up with them? No thanks. You need to stop basing your self-worth on who finds you attractive and who you can hook up with. Think about reality- say you do hook up with this guy. He won't think you are special. He will have forgotten you the next day. There's a good chance you'll catch an STD. Why risk your health for some skanky dude who doesn't care what your name is?

You need to get away from these men, away from your husband, and work on yourself. You're obviously very bright- so put that mind to use and figure out how you can make more income. Free yourself.

[Anonymous]

Is it Bon Jovi?

[Anonymous]

if you lose weight Id be interested

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:if you lose weight Id be interested

And makeup?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. I also do not have any STDs nor has my husband, now or ever. As for my looks: I think I look ugly without makeup. I think I look presentable with makeup and a particular "niche look" that definitely appeals to the type of niche look this particular rockstar has. It's the type of alternative look that the guys from that particular strip club aren't into. They're more into the skinny built-in implants blonde bombshell look, like that billboard stripper. Some of that strip club's customers have told me I'm ugly and nowhere near as beautiful as the stripper, which is why I feel I'm ugly.

I also want to lose more weight. I want to go back to cutting out all sugar so I can become rail thin again. Then I will appeal better to that rockstar.

How do you know so much about this strip club, its headlining stripper and what other guys at the strip club think about your looks? This is so weird.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is it Bon Jovi?

I certainly hope they know what they might be missing out on, if her husband doesn't pony up. So to speak.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:if you lose weight Id be interested

And makeup?

No she needs to keep the makeup

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:if you lose weight Id be interested

And makeup?

No she needs to keep the makeup

Seems fair since she admitted she’s not very attractive without.

[Anonymous]

This explains the progressive love for eugenics and the conservative hate for single payer healthcare.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:This is so f’d up. Have you ever had therapy to address your personal issues? I’m afraid that your child will be as f’ed up as his parents are.

Oh the kids are doomed. Uneducated, unintelligent, and trashy parents. Why some people have kids I will never know. Although I wouldn't be surprised if OPs IQ limits herunderstanding of how pregnancy occurs.

THIS is the OP. When I read your post, a few choice curse words come to mind that I think about you, but I will abstain from using them since using them will do nothing to refute your obviously negative opinion of me.

Actually, I have a Masters degree and a 3.9 GPA. I hold multiple certifications in my field. Unfortunately, my field is one of those "callings" that does not earn much, despite my years of education and experience. I worked for an unnamed state-run employer that had a 5-year salary freeze. I quit to save my dignity and to pursue a different, more lucrative career path. Unfortunately, that career path did not pan out for me and I was let go from the new position, hence my job loss last year, so I returned to my previous field in order to quickly secure employment for my family, but unfortunately that new job pays even less than the previous.

I am not retarded. I was a straight A student throughout school and took multiple AP courses in high school. I take great offense to that. I also take great offense to people saying they feel bad for my kids. I do not know how my social dalliances, which are kept private and done at night after they're in bed, have any effect whatsoever on the kind of parent I am. Especially since I haven't even pursued said rockstar yet, thus rendering any of my plans to be merely hypothetical. You put me down as a mother, neglecting to consider that I did whatever it took to ensure my children were well fed with a roof over their heads, even when it meant returning to my previous job field just to have viable employment again. I worked up to my due date at that job too, and returned to work less than two months later, just so I'd have money to care for my kids. When my mother-in-law gifted me cash last Christmas, I spent it on ABC Mouse for my kids, and a fun excursion with the kids. I have swallowed my pride and always acted super nice to my older child's condescending teacher who I dislike, just because of doing what's best for my kids. How dare anyone say the kids should be taken away or pitied. As for the in-laws claiming to want custody if I divorce: I do admit she probably just said that to scare me, because the last thing she wants is her darling son ending up divorced, looking like a "screwup". No, I do not do drugs or drink or even smoke cigarettes. No, I do not have a criminal record. Neither does my husband.

You're obsessed with some loser rockstar, and have a cheating no good husband. You have poor judgement with a child like mentality.

If you're smart you'll seek therapy for yourself. Don't have sex with your nasty husband, nor some loose creepy rockstar. Your only priority should be yourself, kids and making a better life. Not acting like a doormat or wannabe groupie.

Finally, you should try to express yourself with fewer words.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Melania - you need to divorce him and move on.

I’m thinking Melania had a thing for Bono.

[Anonymous]

Be honest, would you have been happy if your husband paid for you to sleep with the rock star?

[Anonymous]

The only thing you should be concerning yourself with at this phase in your life is how to say less and be more.