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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again. I also do not have any STDs nor has my husband, now or ever. As for my looks: I think I look ugly without makeup. I think I look presentable with makeup and a particular "niche look" that definitely appeals to the type of niche look this particular rockstar has. [b]It's the type of alternative look that the guys from that particular strip club aren't into. They're more into the skinny built-in implants blonde bombshell look, like that billboard stripper. Some of that strip club's customers have told me I'm ugly and nowhere near as beautiful as the stripper, which is why I feel I'm ugly.

I also want to lose more weight. I want to go back to cutting out all sugar so I can become rail thin again. Then I will appeal better to that rockstar.[/b][/quote]

Your ideas on sex & attractiveness aren't based in reality. At all.

The vast majority of men aren't really into strip clubs once they reach mid to late 20s and have a real life. No guy really wants to spend a lot of money and stay out all night just to look at fake women with fake personalities. It's just not appealing. I dated one guy who was really into strip clubs, and he was creepy AF. So if you're hanging out with guys from a strip club, plus your husband's gross behavior, yea, you're going to develop some self-esteem issues. So stop it. Cut them out of your life. The biggest influence on your life is your peer group, and you need to trade yours in for better ones.

I'm going to repeat: most [i]men[/i] don't like strippers. Someone on here will probably disagree. They are wrong. People on the internet aren't a good representation of people in real life. I have male friends in their 30s/40s who are getting married and none of them are even going to strip clubs for a bachelor party. They instead choose camping or bowling or whatever. It's like going to dance clubs, nobody over the age of 26 really wants to go anymore.

Similarly, women aren't into rock stars once they reach adulthood. Sure, you'll find some of them attractive. But actually paying to be VIP and trying to hook up with them? No thanks. You need to stop basing your self-worth on who finds you attractive and who you can hook up with. Think about reality- say you do hook up with this guy. He won't think you are special. He will have forgotten you the next day. There's a good chance you'll catch an STD. Why risk your health for some skanky dude who doesn't care what your name is?

You need to get away from these men, away from your husband, and work on yourself. You're obviously very bright- so put that mind to use and figure out how you can make more income. Free yourself. [/quote]

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