Hall pass empty promise rugswept

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is so f’d up. Have you ever had therapy to address your personal issues? I’m afraid that your child will be as f’ed up as his parents are.

Oh the kids are doomed. Uneducated, unintelligent, and trashy parents. Why some people have kids I will never know. Although I wouldn't be surprised if OPs IQ limits her understanding of how pregnancy occurs.

[Anonymous]

Foolish troll.

[Anonymous]

If you’re not a troll. Don’t ha e more children. Let it all go. You want revenge and not to fix your marriage. You were wronged, ok but a hall pass won’t fix it. You won’t love him more and he won’t love you more after. This is not because you’re awkward or whatever growing up, plenty of awkward and unpopular people are decent with integrity and look out for their kids and grow up at some point. Work on getting a new job. Work hard, leave your husband, split custody and focus on raising kids who are decent, kind and can resolve conflicts better than you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so f’d up. Have you ever had therapy to address your personal issues? I’m afraid that your child will be as f’ed up as his parents are.

Oh the kids are doomed. Uneducated, unintelligent, and trashy parents. Why some people have kids I will never know. Although I wouldn't be surprised if OPs IQ limits herunderstanding of how pregnancy occurs.

THIS is the OP. When I read your post, a few choice curse words come to mind that I think about you, but I will abstain from using them since using them will do nothing to refute your obviously negative opinion of me.

Actually, I have a Masters degree and a 3.9 GPA. I hold multiple certifications in my field. Unfortunately, my field is one of those "callings" that does not earn much, despite my years of education and experience. I worked for an unnamed state-run employer that had a 5-year salary freeze. I quit to save my dignity and to pursue a different, more lucrative career path. Unfortunately, that career path did not pan out for me and I was let go from the new position, hence my job loss last year, so I returned to my previous field in order to quickly secure employment for my family, but unfortunately that new job pays even less than the previous.

I am not retarded. I was a straight A student throughout school and took multiple AP courses in high school. I take great offense to that. I also take great offense to people saying they feel bad for my kids. I do not know how my social dalliances, which are kept private and done at night after they're in bed, have any effect whatsoever on the kind of parent I am. Especially since I haven't even pursued said rockstar yet, thus rendering any of my plans to be merely hypothetical. You put me down as a mother, neglecting to consider that I did whatever it took to ensure my children were well fed with a roof over their heads, even when it meant returning to my previous job field just to have viable employment again. I worked up to my due date at that job too, and returned to work less than two months later, just so I'd have money to care for my kids. When my mother-in-law gifted me cash last Christmas, I spent it on ABC Mouse for my kids, and a fun excursion with the kids. I have swallowed my pride and always acted super nice to my older child's condescending teacher who I dislike, just because of doing what's best for my kids. How dare anyone say the kids should be taken away or pitied. As for the in-laws claiming to want custody if I divorce: I do admit she probably just said that to scare me, because the last thing she wants is her darling son ending up divorced, looking like a "screwup". No, I do not do drugs or drink or even smoke cigarettes. No, I do not have a criminal record. Neither does my husband.

[Anonymous]

OP again. I also do not have any STDs nor has my husband, now or ever. As for my looks: I think I look ugly without makeup. I think I look presentable with makeup and a particular "niche look" that definitely appeals to the type of niche look this particular rockstar has. It's the type of alternative look that the guys from that particular strip club aren't into. They're more into the skinny built-in implants blonde bombshell look, like that billboard stripper. Some of that strip club's customers have told me I'm ugly and nowhere near as beautiful as the stripper, which is why I feel I'm ugly.

I also want to lose more weight. I want to go back to cutting out all sugar so I can become rail thin again. Then I will appeal better to that rockstar.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, I say this with love, you're life is a dumpster fire
Focus on you, your kid(s), and your job. Think about the Rockstar at might when it's Mommy wind down time. Leave your husband.

love this.

[Anonymous]

He says he is broke but you don’t know if it is true, he is your husband.

Does one part of this whole scenario not sound like a Springer episode title? That should be a red flag.

Think rationallly.

[Anonymous]

I’m disappointed that the dcum investigators haven’t figured out the rock star.

oP, if you are real, I don’t care what your GPA was—if you expect anything from that loser of a husband, and are seriously planning (or worse, expecting your loser husband to plan) a disgusting hookup with a rock star, you’ve got the wrong kind of smarts. You really need a therapist to figure out a new way to look at your life.

[Anonymous]

You want to cheat back on your husband with a rockstar and he was supposed to to pay for it all and facilitate it and didn't and now you feel used?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP again. I also do not have any STDs nor has my husband, now or ever. As for my looks: I think I look ugly without makeup. I think I look presentable with makeup and a particular "niche look" that definitely appeals to the type of niche look this particular rockstar has. It's the type of alternative look that the guys from that particular strip club aren't into. They're more into the skinny built-in implants blonde bombshell look, like that billboard stripper. Some of that strip club's customers have told me I'm ugly and nowhere near as beautiful as the stripper, which is why I feel I'm ugly.

I also want to lose more weight. I want to go back to cutting out all sugar so I can become rail thin again. Then I will appeal better to that rockstar.

It's the elegance and nuance of the approach that makes this both a viable plan and a winning prose poem on the vicissitudes of life.

[Anonymous]

Wait - other customers at this strip clun have had occasion to call you ugly?? WTF, this is the craziest post I’ve ever read.

You actually spent your time writing paragraphs defending your intelligence to us total strangers? So you’re expending your energy telling us your precise GPA and education level - at least that can distract you from being pissed that your DH didn’t support attempt to attract and f**k a rock star.

Are you the OP of the post about the mentally ill spouse who sobs in a ball on the floor? You sound so, so similar. I would love to know if you are the same person.

[Anonymous]

Is the rock star married?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wait - other customers at this strip clun have had occasion to call you ugly?? WTF, this is the craziest post I’ve ever read.

You actually spent your time writing paragraphs defending your intelligence to us total strangers? So you’re expending your energy telling us your precise GPA and education level - at least that can distract you from being pissed that your DH didn’t support attempt to attract and f**k a rock star.

Are you the OP of the post about the mentally ill spouse who sobs in a ball on the floor? You sound so, so similar. I would love to know if you are the same person.

You can ask Jeff in website feedback forum.

There is a similar sort of "you think that my last post was crazy? I can top that in my followup post, watch this" kind of feel to the drama.

OP, are you eating chocolate chips and relaxing now? Everything fine?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Well, he never followed through. I never even got to attend the concert, let alone get VIP passes to meet the rockstar, let alone hook up with him.

Is there any reason why he has to procure all of this for you? This is a weird situation, but assuming that you're OK with what he did so long as you get the make-up, I just think it's a little weird to expect him to actually handle all the logistics to make it happen.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is so f’d up. Have you ever had therapy to address your personal issues? I’m afraid that your child will be as f’ed up as his parents are.

Oh the kids are doomed. Uneducated, unintelligent, and trashy parents. Why some people have kids I will never know. Although I wouldn't be surprised if OPs IQ limits herunderstanding of how pregnancy occurs.

THIS is the OP. When I read your post, a few choice curse words come to mind that I think about you, but I will abstain from using them since using them will do nothing to refute your obviously negative opinion of me.

Actually, I have a Masters degree and a 3.9 GPA. I hold multiple certifications in my field. Unfortunately, my field is one of those "callings" that does not earn much, despite my years of education and experience. I worked for an unnamed state-run employer that had a 5-year salary freeze. I quit to save my dignity and to pursue a different, more lucrative career path. Unfortunately, that career path did not pan out for me and I was let go from the new position, hence my job loss last year, so I returned to my previous field in order to quickly secure employment for my family, but unfortunately that new job pays even less than the previous.

I am not retarded. I was a straight A student throughout school and took multiple AP courses in high school. I take great offense to that. I also take great offense to people saying they feel bad for my kids. I do not know how my social dalliances, which are kept private and done at night after they're in bed, have any effect whatsoever on the kind of parent I am. Especially since I haven't even pursued said rockstar yet, thus rendering any of my plans to be merely hypothetical. You put me down as a mother, neglecting to consider that I did whatever it took to ensure my children were well fed with a roof over their heads, even when it meant returning to my previous job field just to have viable employment again. I worked up to my due date at that job too, and returned to work less than two months later, just so I'd have money to care for my kids. When my mother-in-law gifted me cash last Christmas, I spent it on ABC Mouse for my kids, and a fun excursion with the kids. I have swallowed my pride and always acted super nice to my older child's condescending teacher who I dislike, just because of doing what's best for my kids. How dare anyone say the kids should be taken away or pitied. As for the in-laws claiming to want custody if I divorce: I do admit she probably just said that to scare me, because the last thing she wants is her darling son ending up divorced, looking like a "screwup". No, I do not do drugs or drink or even smoke cigarettes. No, I do not have a criminal record. Neither does my husband.

OP, whatever academic success you may have had is meaningless. You lack all sorts of common sense and you have seriously poor decision-making skills, on top of a whole other host of issues. You seriously need to talk to someone who can help you. DCUM rarely agrees on anything, but everyone has agreed that you are a mess. It might hurt you to hear people say that they are concerned about your children, but from an objective standpoint, I don't see how anyone could not be. You have shown an unbelievable ability to make shockingly bad life choices.