boring conversations with DH

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:My DH never tells me this stuff! I have to pull it out of him. I think he thinks it's akin to "gossiping" and is distasteful behavior.

Maybe he's right but the flip side is, I rarely feel like I really know what's going on with him at work.

Unless he is banging the secretary do you really care? Even jobs that are interesting, challenging, cool etc. are a just a job/career that you do to make money. I will make around 750 this year and honestly don’t see a reason to go home and talk about work. It is a means to end nothing more.

What do you do for a living?
My wife complains that I don’t tell her enough about my day at work and I feel the same as you - why would she care about that?

Female here. It's actually quite sexy to hear about a man's work. Even sexier to see it. One reason why workplace affairs are so common, it's just really hot to see a guy good at his job.

The complaining, maybe not so much, but I love hearing about accomplishments.

[Anonymous]

Sure. Accomplishments are great. What is not great is the incessant complaining about the stupidity of others. I'd really prefer to hear about accomplishment or good ideas his co-workers have.

[Anonymous]

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Female here. It's actually quite sexy to hear about a man's work. Even sexier to see it. One reason why workplace affairs are so common, it's just really hot to see a guy good at his job.

Is that why women have affairs with their carpenters? Sexy men at work.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH never tells me this stuff! I have to pull it out of him. I think he thinks it's akin to "gossiping" and is distasteful behavior.

Maybe he's right but the flip side is, I rarely feel like I really know what's going on with him at work.

Unless he is banging the secretary do you really care? Even jobs that are interesting, challenging, cool etc. are a just a job/career that you do to make money. I will make around 750 this year and honestly don’t see a reason to go home and talk about work. It is a means to end nothing more.

What do you do for a living?
My wife complains that I don’t tell her enough about my day at work and I feel the same as you - why would she care about that?

PP here. I am in sales. I feel your pain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My DH never tells me this stuff! I have to pull it out of him. I think he thinks it's akin to "gossiping" and is distasteful behavior.

Maybe he's right but the flip side is, I rarely feel like I really know what's going on with him at work.

Unless he is banging the secretary do you really care? Even jobs that are interesting, challenging, cool etc. are a just a job/career that you do to make money. I will make around 750 this year and honestly don’t see a reason to go home and talk about work. It is a means to end nothing more.

What do you do for a living?
My wife complains that I don’t tell her enough about my day at work and I feel the same as you - why would she care about that?

PP here. I am in sales. I feel your pain.

Your wives are interested in you. They care about you. They like thinking about you. Your work is a huge chunk of your life that your wife is not a part of; therefore, she’s hungry to know more about it. You should take that as a compliment. Would you really prefer a disinterested, detached wife? Presumably, since you married her, at some point you liked that she found you a fascinating subject.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:90% of what DH wants to talk to me about are the petty annoyances of his job -- a meeting got postponed by a few hours, he tried to do something but couldn't because someone else hadn't done something else already, etc. I don't care and it's the same every single day. Any (non-insulting) ideas to get him to change the subject? Even when I try to talk about something else, the conversation inevitably turns back to this kind of stuff.

My DW is exactly the same! Every detail of her workplace, what someone said, what happened at each meeting and concall... drives me crazy but the alternative is naggery about chores, home projects and other mundane s**t! No escape..