Wife is threatening me

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Who else is on vacation with your wife and toddler? Why aren't you on vacation with them?

If it is your wife and toddler on their own, that isn't much of a vacation?

Was she joking as in..she better come home to a clean house?

Do you both work? Do you share finances?

They went to Disney world. It's just my toddler and my wife. I did not want to take off for a week so I can sweat to death in Orlando. My wife used her parents timeshare in FL.

Your problem is that you aren’t invested in your family. You skipped out on a vacation for your child because of sweat? Really? I’m guessing you’re one of those guys who don’t contribute anything to the family besides money. If you insist on only being a bank, don’t be surprised when your wife treats you like a bank.

OMG this! My DH is this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is this the way she handles division of labor? Threats?

I don't think there is any division of labor. She probably does everything.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:An I the only one who thinks the wife is way out of line? Threatening to buy expensive good unless you clean? Clean, by all means. Clean, FFS. But then get away from this crazy woman.

Perhaps she's doing this because her husband never cleans. Imagine that.

Regardless of his slob quotient, it is not an appropriate or adult way to handle conflict.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Threads like this make me happy I’m single.

So is everyone else.

Everyone? Everyone would be emotionally invested in my relationship to the point of caring? Weird.

Anyway, op, you don’t sound invested in your own family. I agree with pp’s analogy to a bank.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The house belongs to you as much as to your wife. Why does your wife have to go to this extreme to get you to clean your own house?

Yes. What's the problem? Clean your frickin home.

[Anonymous]

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[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The house belongs to you as much as to your wife. Why does your wife have to go to this extreme to get you to clean your own house?

Yes. What's the problem? Clean your frickin home.

this is the message you need to repeat on EVERY.SINGLE.THREAD.ABOUT SAHM/SAHD.