I Made A Fool Of Mysef.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First date and you all met in a bedroom? First date and had sex? First date and no protection? I wouldn’t text you back either but thanks for the good time. Now your friends will hear all about it

You're so busy trying to be an ass you can't even read.

[Anonymous]

You had so much to drink that you're not sure if he wore a condom or not, you were a little too freaky for your comfort the next morning and you did something out of character. You're busy worrying whether he will call you back. You should be thinking about your drinking issues. That tipsy on 2 glasses of wine is pretty unlikely. Either you drank more than you thought, you mixed meds and drinking or someone put something in your drink. The most likely answer is you drank more than you thought or are admitting. That's a red flag. It's also a red flag that you drank to such an extent to relieve your anxiety. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, but your drinking is unhealthy and risky and you ought to reconsider your boundaries on that.

[Anonymous]

OK, two things, OP.

First, check your text again. Did his response show up over top of your "hi?" My iphone has been doing that for months now.

Second, you didn't make a fool of yourself. You had sex with someone you liked, and then you texted "hi" the next day. Please take it from this 50 year old woman, you did nothing wrong. All I see is a little lack of self-confidence here. This may not have been a relationship that worked out, but that doesn't mean you did anything foolish. Move on....

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You had so much to drink that you're not sure if he wore a condom or not, you were a little too freaky for your comfort the next morning and you did something out of character. You're busy worrying whether he will call you back. You should be thinking about your drinking issues. That tipsy on 2 glasses of wine is pretty unlikely. Either you drank more than you thought, you mixed meds and drinking or someone put something in your drink. The most likely answer is you drank more than you thought or are admitting. That's a red flag. It's also a red flag that you drank to such an extent to relieve your anxiety. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, but your drinking is unhealthy and risky and you ought to reconsider your boundaries on that.

This. I have no problem with people having sex on the 3rd date but, if you were my friend in real life, I'd be really concerned about your drinking.

[Anonymous]

Hey girl, no worries! I made that mistake once...and ended up with a husband!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OK, two things, OP.

First, check your text again. Did his response show up over top of your "hi?" My iphone has been doing that for months now.

Second, you didn't make a fool of yourself. You had sex with someone you liked, and then you texted "hi" the next day. Please take it from this 50 year old woman, you did nothing wrong. All I see is a little lack of self-confidence here. This may not have been a relationship that worked out, but that doesn't mean you did anything foolish. Move on....

+1000 You did nothing wrong and are not foolish so stop beating yourself up.

Guy's an ass though. F'him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Hey girl, no worries! I made that mistake once...and ended up with a husband!

+1000. I know lots of married couples who had sex on the FIRST date nevermind the third. Stop beating yourself up, OP.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You had so much to drink that you're not sure if he wore a condom or not, you were a little too freaky for your comfort the next morning and you did something out of character. You're busy worrying whether he will call you back. You should be thinking about your drinking issues. That tipsy on 2 glasses of wine is pretty unlikely. Either you drank more than you thought, you mixed meds and drinking or someone put something in your drink. The most likely answer is you drank more than you thought or are admitting. That's a red flag. It's also a red flag that you drank to such an extent to relieve your anxiety. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, but your drinking is unhealthy and risky and you ought to reconsider your boundaries on that.

Op here. I don’t have a drinking problem. I almost never drink, which is what I said in my first post. I am 5’1 and 110lbs. 2 glasses of wine can get me pretty tipsy. I drink maybe 1-2 times a year, tops. Before Saturday night, I had not drank in almost a year, because I don’t like the taste. I do not take any medication of any kind. I was nervous, and we ended up splitting a bottle of wine. I will be damned if I will be made out as a bad person or someone who has a drinking problem, when it’s not true.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:You had so much to drink that you're not sure if he wore a condom or not, you were a little too freaky for your comfort the next morning and you did something out of character. You're busy worrying whether he will call you back. You should be thinking about your drinking issues. That tipsy on 2 glasses of wine is pretty unlikely. Either you drank more than you thought, you mixed meds and drinking or someone put something in your drink. The most likely answer is you drank more than you thought or are admitting. That's a red flag. It's also a red flag that you drank to such an extent to relieve your anxiety. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, but your drinking is unhealthy and risky and you ought to reconsider your boundaries on that.

Op here. I don’t have a drinking problem. I almost never drink, which is what I said in my first post. I am 5’1 and 110lbs. 2 glasses of wine can get me pretty tipsy. I drink maybe 1-2 times a year, tops. Before Saturday night, I had not drank in almost a year, because I don’t like the taste. I do not take any medication of any kind. I was nervous, and we ended up splitting a bottle of wine. I will be damned if I will be made out as a bad person or someone who has a drinking problem, when it’s not true.

Be kind to yourself. Get some solid rest. If he had texted back , would u feel like a fool? Don’t let his response or lack thereof affect how you feel about yourself! .

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:First date and you all met in a bedroom? First date and had sex? First date and no protection? I wouldn’t text you back either but thanks for the good time. Now your friends will hear all about it

Why being such a jackass?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You had so much to drink that you're not sure if he wore a condom or not, you were a little too freaky for your comfort the next morning and you did something out of character. You're busy worrying whether he will call you back. You should be thinking about your drinking issues. That tipsy on 2 glasses of wine is pretty unlikely. Either you drank more than you thought, you mixed meds and drinking or someone put something in your drink. The most likely answer is you drank more than you thought or are admitting. That's a red flag. It's also a red flag that you drank to such an extent to relieve your anxiety. I'm not saying you're an alcoholic, but your drinking is unhealthy and risky and you ought to reconsider your boundaries on that.

Way to beat OP up, like she was not regretting it already.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Sex with a drunk woman is never good sex, no matter how freaky you think you did him. He probably is underwhelmed, and may be thinking you're the type that needs to be drunk first, before you can have sex. That said, it didn't stop him from taking advantage of the situation, but he may not be up for more. Sorry.

I don't know...my wife flies her freak flag when she's drunk and it's pretty damn good. When I see her getting lit, I stop drinking because I know it's going to be a good night.

Same. Sex with my girlfriend is always good. When she’s drunk - which is infrequent - it’s quite dynamic.

[Anonymous]

Hey OP, find another dude and do it again. Rinse. Repeat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:If he hasn’t texted back, he’s not a gentleman and you don’t want anything more to do with him. Live and learn, get STD testing and move on. No big deal.

Notice how she's still hanging onto him despite him blowing her off.

Let that be a lesson, boys.

[Anonymous]

If he was interest he would be eager to text you back. I would take this is a clue and move on. I’ve been there.. sorry