I Made A Fool Of Mysef.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You made a mistake, you are human, you are not a fool, please don't beat yourself up. Just get tested, and live and learn. All of the posters being jerks here have done the same thing at some point.

Exactly. Don't be too hard on yourself, but do get Plan B.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You made a mistake, you are human, you are not a fool, please don't beat yourself up. Just get tested, and live and learn. All of the posters being jerks here have done the same thing at some point.

+1
If and when you bump into him again do NOT hook up with him. He will ghost you again for sure. Don’t even get into a conversation with him. Say hello as if he is a minor acquaintance and just keep on moving. No drama and NO sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I went on a third with a great guy on Sunday. I’ve been single for a long time and I really like him. We met through mutual friends a month before our first date, but haven’t hung out together until last weekend. I drank too much because I was so nervous. I rarely drink ( maybe 1-2 times every 6 months), and I’m a lightweight - two glasses of wine makes me pretty tipsy. We ended up having sex, which again, is out of character for me. Things are a big fwill guy, but I was more freaky than usual in the beginning, and we didn’t use protection, at least I think. I sent him a text yesterday with a quick “Hi”, with no reply back. I don’t know where to go from here or what to do.

Sunday as in yesterday? Give him a minute to get back to you. Wait, I'm confused. You were with him on Sunday and you sent him a text yesterday--both are the same day. What day did you have the date/sex? You texted him the day after or the same day?

[Anonymous]

Are you still drunk now? This post doesn't entirely make sense.

[Anonymous]

So he has a "big fwill?"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So he has a "big fwill?"

Nice. Freaky too. Sounds fun.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:STD testing ? I mean really, what is there to do.

This.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went on a third with a great guy on Sunday. I’ve been single for a long time and I really like him. We met through mutual friends a month before our first date, but haven’t hung out together until last weekend. I drank too much because I was so nervous. I rarely drink ( maybe 1-2 times every 6 months), and I’m a lightweight - two glasses of wine makes me pretty tipsy. We ended up having sex, which again, is out of character for me. Things are a big fwill guy, but I was more freaky than usual in the beginning, and we didn’t use protection, at least I think. I sent him a text yesterday with a quick “Hi”, with no reply back. I don’t know where to go from here or what to do.

How did you go on a third date with someone you haven't hung out in person with until the weekend? Did you essentially spend the weekend with him and consider each thing you did a separate date?

Op here. We had our first date on Friday, 2/23, second date was Sunday, 2/25, and third date was on Saturday, 3/3.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went on a third with a great guy on Sunday. I’ve been single for a long time and I really like him. We met through mutual friends a month before our first date, but haven’t hung out together until last weekend. I drank too much because I was so nervous. I rarely drink ( maybe 1-2 times every 6 months), and I’m a lightweight - two glasses of wine makes me pretty tipsy. We ended up having sex, which again, is out of character for me. Things are a big fwill guy, but I was more freaky than usual in the beginning, and we didn’t use protection, at least I think. I sent him a text yesterday with a quick “Hi”, with no reply back. I don’t know where to go from here or what to do.

Sunday as in yesterday? Give him a minute to get back to you. Wait, I'm confused. You were with him on Sunday and you sent him a text yesterday--both are the same day. What day did you have the date/sex? You texted him the day after or the same day?

Op here. Sorry for the typos. I was trying to type it out on my iPhone fast while at work. We had our third date on Saturday. I am not one to drink much or have sex soon after meeting, but I did, and I feel embarrassed. I texted him yesterday, but he didn’t reply back. We are 28, not young at all. I have an IUD. I am pretty sure we did use protection, but I didn’t explicity ask if he had a condom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:So he has a "big fwill?"

I meant to write “ things are a bit fuzzy.”

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you still drunk now? This post doesn't entirely make sense.

Seriously.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you still drunk now? This post doesn't entirely make sense.

Seriously.

Opcitrecyer things. Learn how to read and not be such a douche.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I went on a third with a great guy on Sunday. I’ve been single for a long time and I really like him. We met through mutual friends a month before our first date, but haven’t hung out together until last weekend. I drank too much because I was so nervous. I rarely drink ( maybe 1-2 times every 6 months), and I’m a lightweight - two glasses of wine makes me pretty tipsy. We ended up having sex, which again, is out of character for me. Things are a big fwill guy, but I was more freaky than usual in the beginning, and we didn’t use protection, at least I think. I sent him a text yesterday with a quick “Hi”, with no reply back. I don’t know where to go from here or what to do.

Sunday as in yesterday? Give him a minute to get back to you. Wait, I'm confused. You were with him on Sunday and you sent him a text yesterday--both are the same day. What day did you have the date/sex? You texted him the day after or the same day?

Op here. Sorry for the typos. I was trying to type it out on my iPhone fast while at work. We had our third date on Saturday. I am not one to drink much or have sex soon after meeting, but I did, and I feel embarrassed. I texted him yesterday, but he didn’t reply back. We are 28, not young at all. I have an IUD. I am pretty sure we did use protection, but I didn’t explicity ask if he had a condom.

Sounds like you didn't do anything wrong, and he's acting like a player.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you still drunk now? This post doesn't entirely make sense.

Seriously.

Opcitrecyer things. Learn how to read and not be such a douche.

[Anonymous]

It was the 3rd date. You guys are adults. Besides you being drunk and unsure of what happened, I see nothing wrong with 2 consenting adults having sex.

Strange for him to be a self-righteous prude. Has he called yet?

If not, live, learn and move on.