Second Marriage Qualities: What are you looking for?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Being a male I would want someone who is:

1. Not a basket case like most of the women on this site.
2. Has an interest in sex unlike most.......
3. Can stand on her own two feet unlike.....
4. Likes men unlike............

But I'm asking for a lot.

+1000

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

Very often "equal partner" is better, one of the reasons so many women ask where the good ones are or complain about men. They are looking out of their league.

Yeah, they expect to become trophy wives. But aside from that, it's not a business deal. If you're worried that much about protecting what you've got, stay single.

You didnt read the entire thread and are commenting out of turn. It was the guy that was interested in protecting wjat he haas.

And further upthread a couple women are calling marriage a business deal.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Any one of the four that were missing was simply a deal breaker for me - and I broke up with/turned away a number of pretty amazing women that couldn't deliver on all fronts. I found a woman that had more than just these four qualities, so yeah, I hit the lottery my 2nd time around.

1) Someone who is attractive, active and fit
2) Someone who loves my child as if she was the bio-parent (which is exactly how I feel about her children)
3) Easygoing, fun-loving, self-assured/confident, and is self-less (puts the family above own needs)
4) Enthusiastic about sex and has a high drive that is put regularly to good use

According to your list I am a prize as I meet all 4 Woman here.

I only disagree on your point about putting family above own needs that really backfired on me because I matched up with a taker. Going forward I am trying to make my own needs a priority too instead of focusing all on family/kids.

I meet all 4 as well but I agree with the OP above.

[Anonymous]

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You didnt read the entire thread and are commenting out of turn.

Am definitely not looking for this woman. LOL.

[Anonymous]

Women here. I remarried because he's:

1. Emotionally aware and intelligent
2. Hilarious
3. Sexually compatible
4. Giving

[Anonymous]

Woman here as well

1. Compassionate and empathic
2. Sexual and adventurous
3. Family man and responsible
4. Fun and athletic

[Anonymous]

I remarried because he's
1: Kind and considerate
2: Has a great sense of humor
3: Loves my kids like they're his
4: Doesn't want children of his own (I'm done)
For those of you who consider marriage to be just a business deal, keep in mind that if you're in a long-term relationship and you really care about the other person, hopefully nothing happens to them because you cannot make any medical decisions as a girlfriend. You can't sign any papers, you have no recourse if your SO were to have a medical emergency. This is one reason to marry if you're serious about someone. You'd want to be there in every capacity, I would assume. Maybe that's just me, but if I love someone, I'm not doing things halfway.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:1. Nice ass.
2. Trim
3. Enthusiastic about sex, giving and receiving. She takes what she wants.
4. No breast implants. I have plenty of tennis balls I can feel.

Really, she could be a total asshole and as long as she was skinny and had real boobs you’d be happy?

Yes, as long as she had oral talents.

That's not on your list.

[Anonymous]

Good habits. Brush your teeth, pick up after yourself, put things away, do what you say you'll do, don't need to be told what to do or reminded constantly, don't look at work iPhone 20x an hour, listen and recall conversations.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Good habits. Brush your teeth, pick up after yourself, put things away, do what you say you'll do, don't need to be told what to do or reminded constantly, don't look at work iPhone 20x an hour, listen and recall conversations.

Alright lady: don't nag constantly so one is tempted to tune you out, and don't pretend that you don't need to compromise on, say, where things belong. Furthermore, don't pick up after me and then be a martyr about it. Don't pretend that you're a martyr for doing chores that I never wanted you to do.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

You didnt read the entire thread and are commenting out of turn.

Am definitely not looking for this woman. LOL.

Oh, be quiet. I started the thread.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Good habits. Brush your teeth, pick up after yourself, put things away, do what you say you'll do, don't need to be told what to do or reminded constantly, don't look at work iPhone 20x an hour, listen and recall conversations.

Alright lady: don't nag constantly so one is tempted to tune you out, and don't pretend that you don't need to compromise on, say, where things belong. Furthermore, don't pick up after me and then be a martyr about it. Don't pretend that you're a martyr for doing chores that I never wanted you to do.

Ppl like you need a simple simple life w no dependents and a shoebox size apartment.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow, after monitoring this forum for a few months, I realize how marketable an older high-libido, fit, attractive woman is to men on this forum. According to the male married posters, most are not getting sex, or having emotionless robotic relationships with their current wives.

So, after being married for over 15 years, what 4 qualities are you looking for in a new mate.

1. She can masturbate to an orgasm. if she can do it herself, there is no way I am signing up for another life of misery

2. Active and fit. likes to get outdoors and hike or bike or really anything rather than sitting at home all day'

3. takes care of her health. not an alcoholic, works out, and eats normally'

4. in shape. not fat. cannot deal with another women with body image issues

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Good habits. Brush your teeth, pick up after yourself, put things away, do what you say you'll do, don't need to be told what to do or reminded constantly, don't look at work iPhone 20x an hour, listen and recall conversations.

Alright lady: don't nag constantly so one is tempted to tune you out, and don't pretend that you don't need to compromise on, say, where things belong. Furthermore, don't pick up after me and then be a martyr about it. Don't pretend that you're a martyr for doing chores that I never wanted you to do.

Ppl like you need a simple simple life w no dependents and a shoebox size apartment.

Why? I'm looking for a life partner with whom to compromise, again. That woman - you? - is busy thinking in terms of demanding precisely what a guy has to do every day. She is trying to stay single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I do not understand why any woman would want to marry a second time. They end up doing the lions’s share of running a household. Being single in an apartment was so much easier. Currently married but I would never ever remarry.

Then why are you reading and responding to this thread, if it's not your thing? Begone.