Second Marriage Qualities: What are you looking for?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

Very often "equal partner" is better, one of the reasons so many women ask where the good ones are or complain about men. They are looking out of their league.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

Very often "equal partner" is better, one of the reasons so many women ask where the good ones are or complain about men. They are looking out of their league.

Yeah, they expect to become trophy wives. But aside from that, it's not a business deal. If you're worried that much about protecting what you've got, stay single.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Any one of the four that were missing was simply a deal breaker for me - and I broke up with/turned away a number of pretty amazing women that couldn't deliver on all fronts. I found a woman that had more than just these four qualities, so yeah, I hit the lottery my 2nd time around.

1) Someone who is attractive, active and fit
2) Someone who loves my child as if she was the bio-parent (which is exactly how I feel about her children)
3) Easygoing, fun-loving, self-assured/confident, and is self-less (puts the family above own needs)
4) Enthusiastic about sex and has a high drive that is put regularly to good use

According to your list I am a prize as I meet all 4 Woman here.

I only disagree on your point about putting family above own needs that really backfired on me because I matched up with a taker. Going forward I am trying to make my own needs a priority too instead of focusing all on family/kids.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

No, that's your sexism coming out

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

Very often "equal partner" is better, one of the reasons so many women ask where the good ones are or complain about men. They are looking out of their league.

The same can be said of men too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

Very often "equal partner" is better, one of the reasons so many women ask where the good ones are or complain about men. They are looking out of their league.

Yeah, they expect to become trophy wives. But aside from that, it's not a business deal. If you're worried that much about protecting what you've got, stay single.

You didnt read the entire thread and are commenting out of turn. It was the guy that was interested in protecting wjat he haas.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

No, that's your sexism coming out

What, in the sense that I deferred to the girl I moved in with (and married) on finances and most everything else ?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Any one of the four that were missing was simply a deal breaker for me - and I broke up with/turned away a number of pretty amazing women that couldn't deliver on all fronts. I found a woman that had more than just these four qualities, so yeah, I hit the lottery my 2nd time around.

1) Someone who is attractive, active and fit
2) Someone who loves my child as if she was the bio-parent (which is exactly how I feel about her children)
3) Easygoing, fun-loving, self-assured/confident, and is self-less (puts the family above own needs)
4) Enthusiastic about sex and has a high drive that is put regularly to good use

According to your list I am a prize as I meet all 4 Woman here.

I only disagree on your point about putting family above own needs that really backfired on me because I matched up with a taker. Going forward I am trying to make my own needs a priority too instead of focusing all on family/kids.

PP you quoted - I have no doubt that you are indeed a prize And the point you made was one of the reasons I had to dump a couple of women I had previously dated. After a couple of months, it became clear that she was the priority above all else, including me spending time with my kid on the days of the week and weekends I had custody.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. Nice ass.
2. Trim
3. Enthusiastic about sex, giving and receiving. She takes what she wants.
4. No breast implants. I have plenty of tennis balls I can feel.

FYI - my new boobs feel awesome!

[Anonymous]

1. Kindness
2. Character
3. Loves his kids and mom/dad
4. Is on my team!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Nice ass.
2. Trim
3. Enthusiastic about sex, giving and receiving. She takes what she wants.
4. No breast implants. I have plenty of tennis balls I can feel.

Really, she could be a total asshole and as long as she was skinny and had real boobs you’d be happy?

Yes, as long as she had oral talents.

[Anonymous]

I'm a divorced 45-yr-old woman. I want:

1- Emotionally available, kind, loves me and my kids as his own family, willing to work together to make the marriage the best it can be
2- Responsible, takes care of his family- financially, sure, but just as importantly with actions, time, words, and attention
3- Great sex, high drive- I want it every day (and re: the other thread, I've wanted it every day since I was 16 yrs old, not just after getting divorced!)
4- Have fun together!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. Nice ass.
2. Trim
3. Enthusiastic about sex, giving and receiving. She takes what she wants.
4. No breast implants. I have plenty of tennis balls I can feel.

Really, she could be a total asshole and as long as she was skinny and had real boobs you’d be happy?

Yes. Regular tail makes up for many other deficiencies.

[Anonymous]

Being a male I would want someone who is:

1. Not a basket case like most of the women on this site.
2. Has an interest in sex unlike most.......
3. Can stand on her own two feet unlike.....
4. Likes men unlike............

But I'm asking for a lot.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:"Attract an equal partner"? Stop looking at this stuff like a corporate merger.

Very often "equal partner" is better, one of the reasons so many women ask where the good ones are or complain about men. They are looking out of their league.

Yeah, they expect to become trophy wives. But aside from that, it's not a business deal. If you're worried that much about protecting what you've got, stay single.

You didnt read the entire thread and are commenting out of turn. It was the guy that was interested in protecting wjat he haas.

Where can I take the number to comment?