Adult Anger in Women..Question

[Anonymous]

I have major issues with feeling powerless (from childhood), so when I feel like something is being forced on me (recently this has been where we move for my spouse's job) I have been known to fly into some really bad rages. Working on it.

[Anonymous]

When I'm angry with DH I try to tell him calmly, but most of the time he gets me to the point of yelling and crying because he gets so defensive then I leave the room. He is a very stubborn person, he never thinks what his doing is wrong. I will be pouring out all emotions and he will be sitting there watching and still talking normal.

Which is why most of the time I just hold it in, and cry to myself when his gone. Otherwise it's just going to be another argument and I hate it!! Because there's no solution. He will do whatever he wants.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:When I'm angry with DH I try to tell him calmly, but most of the time he gets me to the point of yelling and crying because he gets so defensive then I leave the room. He is a very stubborn person, he never thinks what his doing is wrong. I will be pouring out all emotions and he will be sitting there watching and still talking normal.

Which is why most of the time I just hold it in, and cry to myself when his gone. Otherwise it's just going to be another argument and I hate it!! Because there's no solution. He will do whatever he wants.

+1

I've learned to just keep it in for the (many, many) issue that I know have no solution. It's kind of sad, but I've learned to read the writing on the wall.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The only person I would ever argue with would be my husband, and I always win, because it's impossible for me to lose. I can do something wrong and make you apologize for it. By the time I am finished twisting and turning everything around, he's completely lost. Poor guy. It's a good thing he enjoys the challenge. I keep a lot up my sleeve, so that I can throw things out here and there as bait. He'll never figure out all of my secrets. I enjoy playing the game. He enjoys the mystery. Also, if I need to, I can make myself cry. It comes in handy. He's a sucker for tears, and has no idea that they aren't real.

Obvious trolling from a red-piller. Next time you troll on a majority female forum, try harder not to sound like 1950s stereotype of a woman.