Being more submissive to my husband

[Anonymous]

OP would your DH be agreeable to being submissive to you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I can see this type of relationship working only if A. The DH and DW were exactly the same in every facet of life so all decisions would be the same anyway or B. the DH always made decisions that were in the best interest of the family/marriage rather than in his own best interest. But, the men I know who do put their marriage first in all decisions aren't interested in a submissive wife.

Thank you. I feel the same way.

[Anonymous]

The husband will grow bored with a submissive wife. He will seek a more challenging mate to pursue. Fact.

[Anonymous]

I am an expert in submissive wifery.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a submissive wife and it works for us.

I get satisfaction from him being in charge and being the breadwinner/provider. In return as a SAHM I look after the family and take care of his needs both physical and others. Also I am not a decision maker so him telling me what to do is much better than me agonizing over decisions.

Omg, grow a spine already and grow up. You're a grown woman that's glad to be treated like a child and he's your daddy. That is a disgusting dynamic.

What will you do if something happens to your husband? You need to learn how to take care of yourself and make good decisions and earn a living.

Agreed!!

Does your husband have a plan for you if anything happens to him?

This all sounds Michelle Duggar like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a submissive wife and it works for us.

I get satisfaction from him being in charge and being the breadwinner/provider. In return as a SAHM I look after the family and take care of his needs both physical and others. Also I am not a decision maker so him telling me what to do is much better than me agonizing over decisions.

Omg, grow a spine already and grow up. You're a grown woman that's glad to be treated like a child and he's your daddy. That is a disgusting dynamic.

What will you do if something happens to your husband? You need to learn how to take care of yourself and make good decisions and earn a living.

Agreed!!

Does your husband have a plan for you if anything happens to him?

This all sounds Michelle Duggar like.

Find another provider...duh (not pp)

[Anonymous]

Blech this sounds terrible

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:The husband will grow bored with a submissive wife. He will seek a more challenging mate to pursue. Fact.

Not true at all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a submissive wife and it works for us.

I get satisfaction from him being in charge and being the breadwinner/provider. In return as a SAHM I look after the family and take care of his needs both physical and others. Also I am not a decision maker so him telling me what to do is much better than me agonizing over decisions.

Omg, grow a spine already and grow up. You're a grown woman that's glad to be treated like a child and he's your daddy. That is a disgusting dynamic.

What will you do if something happens to your husband? You need to learn how to take care of yourself and make good decisions and earn a living.

Agreed!!

Does your husband have a plan for you if anything happens to him?

This all sounds Michelle Duggar like.

Find another provider...duh (not pp)

Disgusting show of privileged women mocking someone who doesn't share their outlook on life/relationships.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say I'm submissive, but I do believe that in most marriages, there is a leader and a follower. My dh is the leader, it's just his personality. He feels more strong about his opinions and as a firstborn in a large family with a single mother, is used to being in a leadership role. I'm the baby of the family and am very mellow and easygoing. I voice my opinion, but I'm usually fine with letting him be the alpha in our relationship. Married for 24 years. It works for us.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't say I'm submissive, but I do believe that in most marriages, there is a leader and a follower. My dh is the leader, it's just his personality. He feels more strong about his opinions and as a firstborn in a large family with a single mother, is used to being in a leadership role. I'm the baby of the family and am very mellow and easygoing. I voice my opinion, but I'm usually fine with letting him be the alpha in our relationship. Married for 24 years. It works for us.

Blech. Wake up - this is 2017. I hope you do not have any kids...I would feel sorry for them.

[Anonymous]

DH is sub in our marriage. He likes what I like.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is horrifying

I think there's kinky freak on DCUM lately starting thread's he hope will turn smutty.

I just popped in to see why so many are taking this OP seriously.

[Anonymous]

I accept that OP is a troll and was probably hoping for this to go in a direction where he could jerk off to it.But some of the subsequent posters who have turned up owning up to submissive marriages are truly horrifying.

[Anonymous]

It's funny how all the judgemental, closed-mindedness is only coming from one direction. Or maybe that's just the way it is.