My thanksgiving yesterday!

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Anonymous wrote:You had to have known that your husband would overreact. You should have told your daughter not to mention it to anyone, and that you and she would discuss it later. Then, you should have gone down without being noticed, quietly told them that your daughter had seen them, and asked if they could possibly continue their conjugal visit elsewhere after dinner. No one else needed to be informed. However, since you apparently cannot think clearly in a minor situation, this was hilarious to read.

Oh excuse me. If somebody is that ridiculously rude they are going to get called out for it.

Come on.

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Anonymous wrote:If they start dragging their azzes across the carpet and marking their territory you may have to put them outside.

Or invite some more heifers next year to really kick off the stud farm.

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Anonymous wrote:If they start dragging their azzes across the carpet and marking their territory you may have to put them outside.

Or invite some more heifers next year to really kick off the stud farm.

Maybe call in the 4-H club and let them deal with them.

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Your MIL fainted at the idea of two people having sex? Please.

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Anonymous wrote:First of all, I don't believe the story, second even if they were going at it, so what?

Some of us expect better common decency from our guests.

Agree that they should have been discreet, and found a hotel later on, but the overreaction from you and your DH and the rest of the family, all that screaming and yelling, is much worse than what they did. Your DH calling his sister a slut in front of everybody? You forgetting your cooking? Parents screaming? What, did you just get of of the Mayflower and are about to burn the witches who are not up to your puritan standard? Your DD was the only one who handled it appropriately.

This. This seems fake or else just ridiculously overblown.

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Anonymous wrote:Your MIL fainted at the idea of two people having sex? Please.

I think it was more the tacky, outlandish fact that these middle aged adults got it on in front of Grandma's 14 year old granddaughter during the middle of a family gathering. Their crude barnyard behavior wrecked Thanksgiving for the rest of them. Terrible.

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Anonymous wrote:Your MIL fainted at the idea of two people having sex? Please.

She clearly wished she could have died of her embarrassment at her daughter's behavior. Oh the shame!

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Anonymous wrote:I would have asked to join in and make it a threesome!!!

Ewwwww. It's OP's BROTHER! He was having sex with OPs husband's sister. While the couple having sex was not biologically related, affidavit OP would make it incest. Grosssssss!!

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Anonymous wrote:This is pretty dumb. YOU made this a big thing. I'm embarrassed for you and your DH.

You could've gone down there, let them know the jig was up and could they move the party elsewhere if that's what they wanted to do. You acted like this fornication was occurring at an Amish house raising. It is really not that big of a deal. (happily married and no I haven't done this myself but I could see how it must feel awesome and 'therapeutic' as someone said).

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I have to agree. It's a hilarious story, and their lack of discretion was over the top, but your DH way overreacted! Calls his sister a slut and kicks her out? Was she raping your brother? His did not have to be handled this way.
Your 14 year old had enough tact and maturity to pull you to the side to tell you quietly what was happening, it's a shame that your husband didn't take a page out of her book.

Totally agree. No one is saying they should have pretended it never happened, but why make a scene? Obviously it's not even remotely ok that a 14-yr old girl saw that, and two adults should know better (at least lock the door!), but the reaction seems totally over the top and created unnecessary chaos. The name-calling is also gross. It doesn't help an upset teenage girl to hear her father screaming "slut" at his sister for having consensual sex, no matter how inappropriate the setting. And the sister's sexual history is totally irrelevant plus none of OP's (or her husband's) business!

No I'd go easy on the DH. He's hosting and this is how his sister treats his hospitality, totally embarrassing him with her behavior - probably drags up sibling history. And come on, that's really slutty. Does she never say no?

The sister's past infidelity is not "family history" - it's between her and her ex. And why is it embarrassing to him? Sounds like DH is too invested in his sister's sexual behavior. And nice that you say the sister is "really slutty" but the male relative engaging in the exact same behavior gets a total pass. Of course.

How about this: she's a slut and he's a tool. They ruined Thanksgiving for their entire family by their insensitive actions. What the hell? Who has sex in someone else's basement where anyone can walk in on them (including kids/teens) and then with someone who was previously banging someone they were related to?? Sluts and tools that's who. Drug addicts as well.

They could have made excuses at the very least and left to go to a hotel or just hooked up on their own time after Thanksgiving.

No self-control.

You're still judging the woman on her sexual behavior while the man is just judged for rudeness. Both these people seem like rude jerks so I'm not standing up for anyone, but you might want to take a look at your language and gendered judgments.

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And yes, I still think it is gross and creepy for a grown man to be so invested in his sister's sex life.

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Anonymous wrote:This is pretty dumb. YOU made this a big thing. I'm embarrassed for you and your DH.

You could've gone down there, let them know the jig was up and could they move the party elsewhere if that's what they wanted to do. You acted like this fornication was occurring at an Amish house raising. It is really not that big of a deal. (happily married and no I haven't done this myself but I could see how it must feel awesome and 'therapeutic' as someone said).

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I have to agree. It's a hilarious story, and their lack of discretion was over the top, but your DH way overreacted! Calls his sister a slut and kicks her out? Was she raping your brother? His did not have to be handled this way.
Your 14 year old had enough tact and maturity to pull you to the side to tell you quietly what was happening, it's a shame that your husband didn't take a page out of her book.

Totally agree. No one is saying they should have pretended it never happened, but why make a scene? Obviously it's not even remotely ok that a 14-yr old girl saw that, and two adults should know better (at least lock the door!), but the reaction seems totally over the top and created unnecessary chaos. The name-calling is also gross. It doesn't help an upset teenage girl to hear her father screaming "slut" at his sister for having consensual sex, no matter how inappropriate the setting. And the sister's sexual history is totally irrelevant plus none of OP's (or her husband's) business!

No I'd go easy on the DH. He's hosting and this is how his sister treats his hospitality, totally embarrassing him with her behavior - probably drags up sibling history. And come on, that's really slutty. Does she never say no?

The sister's past infidelity is not "family history" - it's between her and her ex. And why is it embarrassing to him? Sounds like DH is too invested in his sister's sexual behavior. And nice that you say the sister is "really slutty" but the male relative engaging in the exact same behavior gets a total pass. Of course.

How about this: she's a slut and he's a tool. They ruined Thanksgiving for their entire family by their insensitive actions. What the hell? Who has sex in someone else's basement where anyone can walk in on them (including kids/teens) and then with someone who was previously banging someone they were related to?? Sluts and tools that's who. Drug addicts as well.

They could have made excuses at the very least and left to go to a hotel or just hooked up on their own time after Thanksgiving.

No self-control.

You're still judging the woman on her sexual behavior while the man is just judged for rudeness. Both these people seem like rude jerks so I'm not standing up for anyone, but you might want to take a look at your language and gendered judgments.

Unfortunately there's no word for 'he-slut' so I stuck with tool. Feel free to read it as is "How about this: she's a slut and he's a sexually-promiscuous asshole."

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Anonymous wrote:I give this short essay entry a B-

I give it a D for being an obvious troll

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What a family!

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Anonymous wrote:I give this short essay entry a B-

I give it a D for being an obvious troll

Just wait till my cousin marries into your family and I get invited to Thanksgiving 2022 at your place. Hope you have a basement....

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Anonymous wrote:I give this short essay entry a B-

I give it a D for being an obvious troll

Just wait till my cousin marries into your family and I get invited to Thanksgiving 2022 at your place. Hope you have a basement....

This is funny.....