DH is a lying cheating liar who lies!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I live in VA and my husband cheated on me while I was pregnant. It was an outrageous, over-the-top affair that I used to think I should have written a book about, but it all sounds too far-fetched for it to really have happened...

I had proof of everything. And, I was hurt and pissed. The divorce lawyer would not file adultery charges. It was a large firm, and they will not take contested cases. Apparently, judges don't like it and they are not willing to get on a judges bad side. I found that to be a common theme among the divorce lawyers I interviewed.

How was it over the top? Keep the proof maybe it will help down the road.

Matching tattoos while we were still married, placing ads in the City Paper for a couple to swap with, going to a bondage club wearing only chaps with no underwear, taking her to Dominican Republic a couple weeks before baby was born. Spending $10k on her in 6 months. Leaving hospital after baby is born bc it was his birthday and he had to go see her. Those are the first thing that come to mind without really thinking about it.

[Anonymous]

Not the OP but am in a somewhat similar situation. How if at all does adultery affect child custody situations if the cheating spouse wants 50/50?