My husband is a jerk

[Anonymous]

Those all seem like petty things, op, but I can see how cumulatively it's exhausting and annoying.

I'm like your dh. I get annoyed if the dies are improperly loaded into the dishwasher bc it's a waste of space and setting dishes efficiently takes 2 sec and will allow space for everything.

I'm not OCD, but I am always on my A-game and hate things half assed. It's sloppy and disresoectful. That's probably how your dh feels. You, I'm guessing are in your own world and more laid back. You're not bothered by inefficiently loading dishes into the dishwasher. That's just your peronality just like your dh is bothered by it and that's his personality.

[Anonymous]

For me, it was horrible to have my parents live together. Begged mom to leave, she had nowhere to go. They are divorced now but it came too late for us.

[Anonymous]

I think you will be happier without him. He sounds mean spirited and is disrespectful towards you. I'm thinking the behavior is rooted in depression and anxiety. Good luck to you and your baby.