Walk me through this affair stuff

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL! The same sentence can be said about women.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

I get this too.

Signed, married guy who isn't getting sex at home...tried to work it out with her for years and considered leaving.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

This. And the OW is still interfering with the marital relationship. Maybe the husband would try harder to work it out if not for his piece on the side.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

This. And the OW is still interfering with the marital relationship. Maybe the husband would try harder to work it out if not for his piece on the side.

What should he be trying harder to do, beg? His wife is probably relieved he's stopped pestering her for sex all the time and finally just left her alone. Sounds like this OW did the wife a solid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

+1

I would say the wife is a pos wife if she expects her husband to unwillingly join her in a life of celibacy. I think most women would be happy they get to keep the benefits of marriage without having to have sex when they don't want to.

This. And the OW is still interfering with the marital relationship. Maybe the husband would try harder to work it out if not for his piece on the side.

What should he be trying harder to do, beg? His wife is probably relieved he's stopped pestering her for sex all the time and finally just left her alone. Sounds like this OW did the wife a solid.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

This. And the OW is still interfering with the marital relationship. Maybe the husband would try harder to work it out if not for his piece on the side.

You don't want to work it out with that kind of husband. I hope you have the courage to leave this loser. There is so much better out there but when you are trapped in drama all you know is dysfunction. There's a whole world out there and yes many who would never do such a thing.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

This. And the OW is still interfering with the marital relationship. Maybe the husband would try harder to work it out if not for his piece on the side.

What should he be trying harder to do, beg? His wife is probably relieved he's stopped pestering her for sex all the time and finally just left her alone. Sounds like this OW did the wife a solid.

The OW exposed him for the pos he is, and YES the OW did do her a favor so hopefully the light will go on to divorce him. I hope she get's a ton of child support, half the assets and finds a better spouse and father for the kids down the road. Many do.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

Just a cautionary tale - just because someone says they are in a sexless marriage does not mean it's true. My husband had an affair, and he told the OW about how there was no affection or sex in our marriage anymore. I wish someone would have told me - I could have sworn I was having sex with my husband about four times a week.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

I get this. There is the old joke that men are like parking spaces - the good ones are taken and the rest are handicap. Not a surprise a woman would go for a married man, they are often the ones with their act together.

LOL A pos cheating on his wife and kids does NOT have his act together.

This. And the OW is still interfering with the marital relationship. Maybe the husband would try harder to work it out if not for his piece on the side.

What should he be trying harder to do, beg? His wife is probably relieved he's stopped pestering her for sex all the time and finally just left her alone. Sounds like this OW did the wife a solid.

The OW exposed him for the pos he is, and YES the OW did do her a favor so hopefully the light will go on to divorce him. I hope she get's a ton of child support, half the assets and finds a better spouse and father for the kids down the road. Many do.

I hope she finds a good man who she can trap in a life of celibacy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:A friend of mine is 45 and is a single mom. She's always been very pretty and is in great shape. She's happy with her single life but doesn't find many men that she's attracted to. The single guys in her age bracket have completely let themselves go and are dating younger women if they haven't. She's waiting for the right person to come along. In the meantime, she LOVES sex and can't live without it.

She's sleeping with a married guy who isn't getting sex at home. Apparently, he's tried to work it out with her for years and has considered leaving. He does love her and he wants his kids to grow up without having to experience step parents. He's not leaving his wife and my friend is fine with that. A few times a week they go to lunch at her house and work out their frustrations on each other.

Just a cautionary tale - just because someone says they are in a sexless marriage does not mean it's true. My husband had an affair, and he told the OW about how there was no affection or sex in our marriage anymore. I wish someone would have told me - I could have sworn I was having sex with my husband about four times a week.

A cautionary tale that cheaters also lie about their current sex life. Didn't see that one coming