Was I a jerk for assuming he just wanted sex?

[Anonymous]

Help me, DCUM! What do I do? How do I string him out as long as possible while feigning interest when I *really* don't want to have sex with him again?

NOTE: I am in a phase of my life where I want to try new things. PLEASE HELP, DCUM!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:
I'm not clear what the issue is. It sounds like you don't want to hook up with him again? Or you would like to see him again but not as a hook-up, but more of a date? Or do you just not want to see him again, period? Your own desires here are not clear to me.

Exactly. She's clearly intrigued by the interest, "but I want MORE than just sex! Even though that's what I gave you last time!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Help me, DCUM! What do I do? How do I string him out as long as possible while feigning interest when I *really* don't want to have sex with him again?

NOTE: I am in a phase of my life where I want to try new things. PLEASE HELP, DCUM!

Awww are you the same basement dweller from before?

First things first: have you told your mom you were gay yet? You wont be getting laid anytime soon unless she authorizes you bringing your dudes down to your basement. Make sure to clear the cheetos off your couch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:But you said you hooked up with him because you wanted to try new things, but later told him it was a drunken mistake.
Were you embarrassed?

BUT I'M A WOMAN! I'M ENTITLED TO BOTH HAVE MY CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:But you said you hooked up with him because you wanted to try new things, but later told him it was a drunken mistake.
Were you embarrassed?

BUT I'M A WOMAN! I'M ENTITLED TO BOTH HAVE MY CAKE AND EAT IT TOO!

Yes! Human beings have that capability. Isn't life awesome?

[Anonymous]

^^^ Hypocrite

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^^^ Hypocrite

Huh???

[Anonymous]

Yes, you're a hypocrite.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Yes, you're a hypocrite.

No, you're just crazy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, you're a hypocrite.

No, you're just crazy.

Yep we are talking about a woman...get that the op is a woman. It is different. We all can agree if a man sleeps with a woman and wants nothing to do with her later, he is evil. This does not apply to women. Blah, blah, blah, rape culture and all that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yes, you're a hypocrite.

No, you're just crazy.

Yep we are talking about a woman...get that the op is a woman. It is different. We all can agree if a man sleeps with a woman and wants nothing to do with her later, he is evil. This does not apply to women. Blah, blah, blah, rape culture and all that.

You are projecting your manosphere bullshit. Get a life.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Stop interacting with him - he's your friend's boyfriend.

Read carefully. He is a friend of my friends boyfriend. He is not my her boyfriend.

This is an aside, but I hope you don't have children with learning disabilities. I DID read carefully, but I have severe learning disabilities and despite reading things three or four times in some cases, I miss things. Is this how you hope the world treats your child? They don't all grow up to be completely "cured" you know. They still struggle and screw up every day, and it's frustrating and embarrassing enough without people being mean about it.

you are being waaaaaaaay oversensitive here. hate to see what happens when someone actually says something offenseive