
i am forever indebted to the man or women who invented wine. |
I wish I was younger so I can have one more kid. Didn't even want one, but now that she is two, I adore her and want another.
I get extremely irritated when I see babies, esp. well-to-do ones (over-dressed, expensive gear, with annoying looking moms). I want to smack rich moms and their precious little darlings. Sad part is, I have an awesome kid and husband, we are comfortable financially, so I don't have an excuse. I wish my toddler was more assertive. I wish my husband was more assertive. I wish I could be a SAHM and had more friends with kids that I can hang out with. I feel I have no one that I can relate to sometimes. I used to be one of those mean posters on DCUM, but I stopped that last week and have only been posting helpful comments - I feel better. I wish I could quit DCUM - outside of the entertainment factor, I get nothing out of it. |
No shame in that. Your baby IS cuter. |
If I could get my hands on it, I would take vicodin every single day. It works for emotional pain just as well as for physical pain. But I can't. So I'm unwillingly virtuous. |
If you had a real problem, you would find a way to get your hands on it. So I think you'll be fine. |
Amen. And it's a shame... |
this thread is depressing |
I imagine myself happily married to someone else. But have resigned myself to stay with him because of the kids. I figure I don't really know what true love/passion is so hopefully I won't miss it in my lifetime. |
LOL!! You crack me up. This made my day! ![]() |
OP here. It wasn't alcohol. I seriously had no respect, and oftentimes I slept with guys on the first (and last) date. It's strange because I'm a really strong, well educated, well bred (if you will) woman. Thing was, I was "in love" with a boyfriend, he dumped me after ... 5 months or so ... and I just, well, lost it. |
I can relate with the sexual regrets and I have a similar "well bred" background.
I've slept with 6 guys total, but I really shouldn't have slept with 2 of them, and I REALLY shouldn't have slept with 1 one of them - totally wasted one night stand that I am not proud of. Sadly we were really good friends in high school, reconnected just after graduating from college, and because of that night - I am too ashamed to ever go to a high school reunion, etc. (I went to a pretty small high school where a lot of the kids have known each other since kindergarten). I do think the 2 mistakes was a self-esteem thing - wanting to prove I was young and fun etc. I totally regret it and I'm really lucky I didn't end up with a disease or pregnant, but we did use condoms so at least I wasn't THAT wasted. Sadly, looking back there is no reason - I was in my early 20s I was cute, and well educated, starting a good career, smart, had good friends.... why? I hope my daughter has more confidence. Now that I'm in my 30s I think I am more comfortable with myself - and it's a shame that youth really is wasted on the young. |
But, who's hotter, you or sis ? ![]() |
Now, what are you going to to when your daughter does that at an earlier age than you ? |
Another one with a sexual past here. Only sex with 3 guys total (including DH), but I was an "everything but..." with more than I can count. I was a BJ pro. I blame alcohol for some but just myself for the others.
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I'm not PP, but a) she said she hopes to raise a child with more confidence than she had. I imagine that's a hope many of us share. I know I do. b) My children don't need to know all the details of my wilder days. c) I hope to use some of my more... regrettable experiences as a cautionary tale. I'm sure a lot of us have done things we wouldn't want our children to repeat. |