Would you date a woman who didn't play video games?

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If someone has a problem with your hobby and insults you for it, don't date them. You can see from this thread that some women just go berserk when their man isn't working their butt off to earn money for the

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Video games are no more mind numbing than TV. Probably less actually. How many hours a week do many of you judgmental women spend watching TV?

Oh sure, of course you don't.

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This is a great thread, thanks OP!!!!

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So I guess what OP is saying, ladies, is that if you start playing video games you will open up an entirely new population of men to date you!!! Win!!

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman and I play video games. My husband does not. I don't think that it's necessarily a totally juvenile activity. There are some games that are honestly more like interactive movies than anything you'd see in an arcade. I'm pretty picky about what I like to play, though, and I can totally understand why many women would find the type of guy who sits around playing Madden or Halo to be immature.

IMO, it is a mind-numbing activity. If someone does too much of it, they're probably not doing much with their life. So no, I would not be interested in dating a gamer.

I don't see it as any more mind-numbing than watching TV or reading DCUM. I don't think it's mandatory to have everything you engage in be a an enriching meaningful activity. I read trashy novels and I also read high quality fiction, non-fiction, news, technical reports, etc. I listen to good music and Katy Perry. I watch art films and dumb comedies. It doesn't have to be an either/or thing. If you find that you don't relate to a person's interests and that lack of relating makes it hard for you to feel connected to them, then don't date them. If someone assumed that I wasn't doing much of my life because I play more than an hour of a video game a week, I'm not interested in having a relationship with them either.

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I'm a woman who would not date a guy who does play video games more than very occasionally. It's addicting and sucks up too much time. Get out and do something productive.

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Anonymous wrote:If someone has a problem with your hobby and insults you for it, don't date them. You can see from this thread that some women just go berserk when their man isn't working their butt off to earn money for the

"Go berserk". No. Don't like it when someone sits on his ass all day accomplishing nothing. And I work to earn money for myself, loser.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women tend to have an extreme aversion to video games. They just hate them, and see it as an activity for losers. I think this is a generational issue.

I don't play video games, but virtually everyone else my age does, including women, to an extent.

Right. I wouldn't want a guy who did nothing but play on a console 8 hours every weekend or who ignored me for hours on end. But there's nothing wrong with a guy who enjoys his xbox. It must be generational because I don't understand the extreme hate that some women display towards them.

8 hours of football... okay, but Xbox... NO

Yeah. There are a lot of mind numbing pursuits that both men and women engage in. For some reason video games just hit women in a particularly bad way. Not sure why.

If my DH ignored our kids watching football all day, that would be Lame too

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I wouldn't recommend making a litmus test out of gaming, necessarily, but gaming is more mentally stimulating than watching TV for sure.

I certainly don't understand the logic behind declaring video games as juvenile because you're "sitting on your ass watching a screen" while at the same time declaring that, say, going to a play or the opera (where you sit on your ass and stare at a stage) is "cultured." Is it because you wear fancier clothes?

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Anonymous wrote:I wouldn't recommend making a litmus test out of gaming, necessarily, but gaming is more mentally stimulating than watching TV for sure.

I certainly don't understand the logic behind declaring video games as juvenile because you're "sitting on your ass watching a screen" while at the same time declaring that, say, going to a play or the opera (where you sit on your ass and stare at a stage) is "cultured." Is it because you wear fancier clothes?

Because it doesn't become something you do with all your time, like video games often do.

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Anonymous wrote:I'm a woman who would not date a guy who does play video games more than very occasionally. It's addicting and sucks up too much time. Get out and do something productive.

Yep.

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Anonymous wrote:Older women tend to have an extreme aversion to video games. They just hate them, and see it as an activity for losers. I think this is a generational issue.

I don't play video games, but virtually everyone else my age does, including women, to an extent.

You're right. I'm 45. I want to spend time with a guy interacting, not playing video games. And it doesn't have to be opera or a play, either! Conversation about people, world events, our views on almost any topic.

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I'm not sure why I single out the video games either. I can't articulate it. But there is obviously some aspect to gaming that's a major turn off for me. Maybe because every gamer I've met was absolutely and positively lame LOL

I engage in mind-numbing activities with gusto. Still can't stand video games and grown men who play them. I don't know any female gamers.

[Anonymous]

My husband and I both love playing video games but we also have interest that don't overlap it's totally okay to be in a relationship with someone with different interests

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Anonymous wrote:Early 30s guy here, and lately I've noticed a lot of women I end up on dates with simply don't play video games. At all. Generally I associate people not playing video games with them being terrible bores who don't really want much out of life (to take an entire medium of art, one as rich and vibrant as music or literature if not more so, and just write it off entirely is a fairly extreme act), so I treat it as a major deal-breaker, but I'm curious if there are others who disagree. I'd do the same if they issued a blanket statement like "I don't listen to music" or "I don't read fiction" too, obviously.

I use to play about 15-30 minutes of Xbox between work and bedtime to disconnect my brain from work. I would get home from work. Watch the kids, feed them, bath them, get them in bed and the work.... So spending 15-30 min before bedtime should not be a big deal. My DW was usually watching Desperate Housewives while I was playing Xbox... So which is worse?