Anonymous wrote:Has anyone been happily married with feelings for a friend? I'm not talking about an emotional affair or any type of flirting, just a genuine connection with similar interests in common. I don't want to give up my friendship because it means a lot, but it's so conflicting to have a friendship with a small spark. I would never, ever consider cheating so I'm not conflicted about anything like an affair, I just don't know if I am torturing myself unnecessarily. I'm hoping that as our friendship goes on, that I will just outgrow the feelings and look back one day and laugh at how silly this is. Part of me thinks this is healthy and I can't be the only one out here feeling this way, but I wanted to hear from anyone out there who outgrew their feelings and could maintain a friendship. FWIW, he wouldn't try anything on me, he's married with kids, and we aren't late night drinking/texting buddies, so I think things are pretty safe on his side.
...do you guys not do threesomes/swinging, or something? Don't be so vanilla, OP.
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